Helen's parents are no longer together

@Nevena83 (65277)
Serbia
January 5, 2022 1:12pm CST
Good day friends I had a quiet day today, which is good. The new year is still quite calm and I hope it will stay that way. I miss Helena, but I need time for me too. What you don't know is that her parents (my brother and his girlfriend) broke up. One night Helen's mother called me and cried and said she called the police because they had a fight. Many here know what my brother is like and I knew that they should not be together, because they never got along. At that moment, my heart wanted to jump, I just asked where the children were, I looked for Helena and she called me and said that my mother hit my dad. I tried to comfort her. I wanted to come and take the children. That night they took him and her to the police, they gave statements and he was forbidden to approach the apartment and her for 48 hours. She picked up things and children and went to her mother. I am very sorry for the children, but there is nothing I can do about it. I don't understand why people who disagree make children. P.S. Pictured are my son and Helena.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
5 Jan 22
Sweet photo of your son and Helena. I’m not surprised by the breakup, but I hope you can continue to see Helena.p
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
5 Jan 22
Thank you so much. She loves him very much and constantly wants to hug and love him, and he constantly runs away. Yes, no one is surprised. I think I will see her more often now, because none of them need children.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
5 Jan 22
@Nevena83 That’s good for you. I know how much you love them. They love you, too.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
5 Jan 22
@DianneN Yes, I really love them, but I have to admit that I want to dedicate a little to myself, because all my life everyone expects something from me, and I am always humiliated, and everyone enjoys life except me. I want to change that at least a little bit.
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@LadyDuck (471500)
• Switzerland
6 Jan 22
I am so sorry Nevena, I know how much you love Helena. Will you be allowed to see the children in the future?
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@LadyDuck (471500)
• Switzerland
6 Jan 22
@Nevena83 - I know that your brother is only interested in money. Poor Helena, she must be so scared, poor little girl.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
6 Jan 22
Honestly, I think they should have broken up a long time ago, because they never got along. Helena is big and she is aware of what happened and she is so confused, scared ... Yes, I have seen her twice since then, I think they will come more often now, because their mother is not interested in children, and my brother is more loves money from them.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
6 Jan 22
@LadyDuck When she was here last month, I noticed how different she is. Very often she would start crying for no reason.
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• United States
6 Jan 22
That is sad especially for the children
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• United States
6 Jan 22
@Nevena83 then they're smart to separate. The kids are always the ones who suffer when parents continue to stay together and don't get along
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
6 Jan 22
@Marilynda1225 Yes, children suffer the most then.
@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
6 Jan 22
Yes, it is sad because they are still small, but it is much better because they treated the children terribly.
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@moffittjc (121581)
• Gainesville, Florida
6 Jan 22
So sorry to hear about Helena’s parents. If they are not good for each other, it is probably better that they ended their relationship. Poor Helena doesn’t need to see them fighting and arguing all the time.
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@moffittjc (121581)
• Gainesville, Florida
6 Jan 22
@Nevena83 So many couples or partners are together but don’t love each other. Maybe they stay together for financial reasons; maybe they feel trapped and don’t know how to get out; or maybe it’s for reasons we don’t understand. I agree with you that if they don’t love each other they shouldn’t be together.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
6 Jan 22
Yes, they were not supposed to be together and they were not supposed to have another child. I can't understand people who live together and don't love each other. Helena is big and she remembered everything.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
6 Jan 22
@moffittjc Yes, there are many couples who are together and do not love each other. I will never understand that. As a divorced woman at a very young age, I mostly always had approaches from married men.
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@JudyEv (339930)
• Rockingham, Australia
6 Jan 22
I do hope you'll still be able to see Helena. Your heart must be breaking at the moment.
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@JudyEv (339930)
• Rockingham, Australia
6 Jan 22
@Nevena83 That will be a bonus for you then.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
6 Jan 22
Yes, I think I will see her more now, because their mother is not very interested in children, my brother prefers to bring children here and be able to do what he wants.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
5 Jan 22
Adorable photo. Sorry they broke up.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
5 Jan 22
Thank you. She always wants to hug and kiss him, but we can hardly convince him to let her. You can see in the picture how much he "enjoys". Honestly, it's much better that they're not together anymore, because they had hell and the kids watched it all.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
5 Jan 22
@Nevena83 I understand. Sometimes it is better to go different ways in life.
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@jobelbojel (35574)
• Philippines
7 Jan 22
I am sorry for the kids witnessing the fight. I hope that you can see Helena.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
7 Jan 22
Yes, I've seen her twice before. She stayed for a few days.
5 Jan 22
Breakup is the best solution for them.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
5 Jan 22
Yes, that is the best solution. I will never understand why people are together when there is no love.
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7 Jan 22
@Nevena83 I agree.
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