My Friends Envy me because of my Salary

@Faster16 (3182)

Indonesia

February 2, 2022 8:13pm CST

in the new office many people are jealous of my salary because it is higher than them. Almost every day they talk about it behind my back and in front of me. I think they are stupid. There's no use envying me. They should focus on trying to get themselves to get paid high. Have you ever been envied by other people?

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@Vikingswest1 (6304)

• United States

3 Feb 22

As long as you don't show arrogance or act better than they are or mention your salary, you can do nothing to stop them from feeling that way. Maybe they know you think they are stupid and it's not even about envy of your higher salary. You're right though. They should be less concerned with your salary and more concerned about their own advancement.

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@Faster16 (3182)

• Indonesia

3 Feb 22

thank you, your advice is very useful

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@RebeccasFarm (89873)

• Arvada, Colorado

3 Feb 22

Hmm...stupid people. They must not be worth it like you are. Oh yes, I was very envied in my profession years before by coworkers and even clients.

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@RebeccasFarm (89873)

• Arvada, Colorado

4 Feb 22

@Faster16 They may not have the brain power to do so

But it makes life troubling for you at your job and for that I am sorry. I feel you.

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@Faster16 (3182)

• Indonesia

10 Feb 22

@RebeccasFarm Yes, to be honest, this is quite annoying. I try to ignore their bad attitude

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@Faster16 (3182)

• Indonesia

4 Feb 22

yes, they should focus on improving themselves to be paid more, not even jealous of me

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@Sreekala (34312)

• India

3 Feb 22

You can't change their attitude. Accept them as they are and ignore their jealousy. Focus on your work area, shine there and get more remuneration.

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@Faster16 (3182)

• Indonesia

3 Feb 22

right, I should focus on the good things that I can control, thanks for your very meaningful advice

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@Sreekala (34312)

• India

3 Feb 22

@jstory07 (139742)

• Roseburg, Oregon

3 Feb 22

They are just jealous do not let it brother you any.

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@Faster16 (3182)

• Indonesia

3 Feb 22

right, I'll take their envious attitude a breeze

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@jstory07 (139742)

• Roseburg, Oregon

3 Feb 22

@Faster16 Good for you.

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@Faster16 (3182)

• Indonesia

3 Feb 22

@jstory07 thank you

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@DianneN (247186)

• United States

10 Feb 22

You will always encounter envious people. Just ignore them and be yourself.

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@DianneN (247186)

• United States

10 Feb 22

@Faster16 You’re welcome. I’m talking from experience.

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@Faster16 (3182)

• Indonesia

10 Feb 22

thank you for your advice, this is very helpful

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@Faster16 (3182)

• Indonesia

10 Feb 22

@DianneN deserves to be in the heart

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Valerie J. Routhieaux

@just4him (317089)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

3 Feb 22

In the jobs I worked, nobody knew what another person made unless the person told them. No, I've never been envied.

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@Faster16 (3182)

• Indonesia

4 Feb 22

I salute people like you

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Valerie J. Routhieaux

@just4him (317089)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

10 Feb 22

@Faster16 Thank you.

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@Faster16 (3182)

• Indonesia

14 Feb 22

@just4him you're welcome

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@youless (112496)

• Guangzhou, China

3 Feb 22

This is so bad. People often envy others because of anything, such as looks, families, etc. If you want to change the relationship with them, try to invite them to have a meal to see whether the situation will be better. If not, avoid them.

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@Faster16 (3182)

• Indonesia

3 Feb 22

pretty good idea, I'll consider it, thanks a lot for the advice

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@shaggin (72141)

• United States

3 Feb 22

Different skill levels get paid differently. I think it’s ridiculous they talk bad about you instead of being happy for you!

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@Faster16 (3182)

• Indonesia

4 Feb 22

yes very ridiculous, we are paid according to our skills and abilities

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@dodo19 (47317)

• Beaconsfield, Quebec

3 Feb 22

They're just jealous. There's nothing much you can do. It doesn't say much about them.

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@Faster16 (3182)

• Indonesia

4 Feb 22

right, I can't control their feelings and thoughts, just let their hearts heat and hurt with envy

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@Jenaisle (14078)

• Philippines

3 Feb 22

If they're your friends, they should be happy instead of being envious. But yes, there are lots of people consumed by envy, they can never be happy. There were times some people were envious of me too, but I never bothered listening to whatever they say, as long as my family and true friends trust me and support me.

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@Faster16 (3182)

• Indonesia

4 Feb 22

you are right, we should focus on people who believe in us, ignore people with bad attitude

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@averygirl72 (37845)

• Philippines

4 Feb 22

We will encounter jealous people in our life in places of work. Just be kind to them

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@Faster16 (3182)

• Indonesia

4 Feb 22

it seems difficult to be kind to people who behave badly. Thank you for your advice

@sol_cee (38219)

• Philippines

3 Feb 22

Why did they know about your salary?

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@Faster16 (3182)

• Indonesia

4 Feb 22

I don't know, even though it's sensitive and very confidential information here

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@thelme55 (77081)

• Germany

16 Feb 22

How do they know how much you earn? We don’t talk about our salary here.

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@Faster16 (3182)

• Indonesia

17 Feb 22

the possibility of the personnel or finance department leaking

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@Neil43 (3313)

•

3 Feb 22

Just don't mind people of this attitude.

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@Faster16 (3182)

• Indonesia

4 Feb 22

right, there's no use serving them

@bunnybon7 (50973)

• Holiday, Florida

18 Feb 22

yes. Many times and I know what you mean. I used to clean houses and offices. I always cleaned exactly like the client wanted me to and I always got the better positions. When I became a caregiver, I did the same and the clients always asked for me. People who are jealous should work harder and try harder like you do.

also you should stop letting them know what you make.