Into Long Distance Relationship

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I met this guy online or shall we say I only know him through social media particularly on Facebook. Back in 2016, I was in a long-standing relationship when he started hitting on me through Facebook Messenger. I know that he had been stalking me because I received messages from both his Facebook accounts in all my Facebook accounts. I saw the notifications, but I did not mind at all. I did not mind even reading it or opening it until recently. I had checked his profile and at first I actually I did not have an attraction at first. Like there was no spark or whatsoever. But I don't know over time, I began to realize I actually like him and got attracted to him by and by. So, I decided to reply to him after 8 years. And from there we started exchanging messages until he called me Babe. Back in 2016 he was still a little chubby and I saw from his posts that he had been working out hard. In fact, he is a member of a fitness health club which I used to be a member too. I don't know if he was challenged or motivated by my not paying attention to him. But if so, it worked because upon seeing his posts recently, his body has improved. Now, I am paying attention to him. And I actually expressed my attraction to him. We started messages exchanges one day and I expected that from that they started already such a commitment. But after that day I never received any messages from on a daily basis which he actually promised to do. His excuse was that he was always on the road and that he was driving. I know it was only an excuse. I was hurt because I already started having a feeling towards him. One time when we talked over Messenger, he was still not confident about his looks and he wonders why I am talking to him. I said that he actually looked amazing and I began having an attraction towards him. He said "why? I am ugly." I told him, "Does look matter?" I also told him that for me physical appearance doesn't matter at all. Now, we've started to have a commitment and planned things especially that I am abound to go back to the Philippines after 4 months. Now, it is different because we already update each other from time to time from the time we both wake up to the time we go to bed. By the way, he already saw me in person. And when he saw me that time I was with my boyfriend. He said he already had an attraction to me. But I have never seen him in person yet. So, I am so excited to see him in person finally. The only thing I can figure out about him is that he is such a short guy. But it doesn't matter to me at all. I officially have a babe now. We are both financially capable because we both have our own businesses and our houses. Our problem now is when we finally live together. We are planning to live together when I get to the Philippines. This is something I am really looking forward too. The question is - are we going to click? But I am very optimistic about it. I need prayers. So, basically for four months we will be having a long distance relationship (LDR) first but eventually we will no longer be. I am just very optimistic he is already the one I have been longing and looking high and low for such a long time already. By the way, that "Babe" word I guess made the spark on me. Would you try to have a long distance relationship?