What will you react if you ask those question?
By Dwi
@dwimua (48)
March 25, 2022 7:21am CST
The situation maybe not everyone ever had it, but this quite common, mostly for those who still being single in age above 35 years old. When you meet with person or people in your circle, family and friend that asking you " why you still not married yet? when will you? don't you think about your age? " those kind question commonly asked for them who still alone.
If you in this kind of situation, how will you react? and what do you think? and do you think that being single is bad? please let me know your opinion
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5 responses
@amelied (117)
• Indonesia
26 Mar 22
When you lived in Indonesia, this kind of questions always came up. I want to say "just ignore it" but yeah people have different reaction. But maybe if someone ask me those questions I just want to ignore it tho.
@RebeccasFarm (90474)
• Arvada, Colorado
25 Mar 22
My family doesn't ask those things, but if strangers would ask, I ask them if they are writing a book.
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
25 Mar 22
Hmm well as someone that is no single I don’t get asked that question. The ones I do get are when you having 1 more baby? Oh why didn’t you stop at 2 kids you had one of each? Are you really happy in your marriage many women are not?
I honestly don’t ask others these questions it’s not my places if they want to share there thoughts for there side I’ll listen. I might ask are you single or dating, or married to something. What we they answer I just go okay, that’s cool and nod.
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
25 Mar 22
@dwimua yes totally. I can understand if those questions are by like the police or a doctor so they have an understanding of your life style but like friend or family no. They have no need to know. I’m a poly person so typically when I ask about someone relationship status it’s just to know if they area currently with someone or not. I don’t ask why.
@ihasaquestion (8275)
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25 Mar 22
I think it is a natural human reaction when people ask this type of question. Once someone reaches a certain age, it just makes sense to wonder; nothing offensive about it.
@ihasaquestion (8275)
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26 Mar 22
@dwimua I understand what you mean. We will share stories when we feel that level of comfort even without being asked.
@MrDenata (12262)
• Indonesia
25 Mar 22
Being single is not a crime as long as you're happy with yours. I'm so sorry that they asked you something that makes you uncomfortable. But believe me, they're not gonna stop asking that question after youre married. So, ignore them, youre worthed.
