What you do when something bad happens to you..?
By alienstar
@alienstar (5142)
India
December 1, 2006 3:54am CST
Suppose, something bad happens to you...what you will do? how will you get motivated to come up again...?
In my view, if anything bad happens, we should still be optmistic as life provides with oportunities for each and everyone..every now and then.....so, opportunities are never lost.....grab it when it comes to you with both hands.....
9 responses
@alienstar (5142)
• India
2 Dec 06
Yes,...i agree with your first things...but the next things you have left it blank....my question was,how to cope with bad things that come your way and you definitely cannot say that by being cautious, you can avoid all the bad things that might come your way....can you?
Thanks for responding
@alchemistrx (2547)
• Philippines
2 Dec 06
i'll gather myself up and think over the things I must do to keep me back to my optimistic level.I shall grab every opportunity I could in order to erase the negative thoughts I had for myself.And I'll ask help from those people and ask for assessment for the things I didn't achieve.
@alienstar (5142)
• India
2 Dec 06
Saying is allway's easy....is it so easy as you said? i don't think it is that easy to deal with.......anyway's, thinking positive is alway's good and opportunities will come every now and then and we should be able to grab it whenever it comes your way.....isn't it?
Thanks for responding...keep up the spirit in you.
@alienstar (5142)
• India
2 Dec 06
These bad things are a prt of everybody life....so, don't worry about that....as bad things are alway's followed by good things...remember this.But, if you go on thinking about those bad things which happen to you and feeling very low on that without working to go to top again will put you down...instaed, be optmistic in life, be confident...think that, you can overcome any problems....this will help you to become stronger in life..believe me....
@aikalog (138)
• Philippines
2 Dec 06
i always tell myself "when you are at your lowest point, there's no where else to go but up."
eventually, these 'bad things' help me become a better person, and by overcoming these bad things, i also overcome the younger me because i know i grow. ^_______^
@alienstar (5142)
• India
2 Dec 06
yes...exactly...you seemed to be a very strong willed person..keep it up.One shoukd alway's face life with optmistic approach..there are bad things as well as good things and there are bad people as well as good people...so, whenever bad things happen, we just have to work hard to overcome that problem instead of being down because of that problem...anyhow, thanks for responding ....
@alienstar (5142)
• India
1 Dec 06
he...don't put any burden on god to solve your problems....good and bad things are part of life and no one can escape it..living with both the things is what we call life...so, be optimistic in life.....if anything bad happens to you, think that something good is also waiting for you...
@angel_manders (912)
• Canada
2 Dec 06
when something bad happens to me i usually write in a journal and listen to music that is really loud because it seems to calm me down
@alienstar (5142)
• India
2 Dec 06
Hm interesting ways to calm down...but, don't you think it's a temperory solution..? what you do later? how do you come out of depressiona and failures and set yourslef to reach the top again....! are there any new way's for you to deal with?
@Mahindan (563)
• Canada
1 Dec 06
When one door closes, another one opens up! So if something goes wary, it doesn't meant the end of life. Be positive because there is always a reason for it going wrong. If you were read the book "Five People You Meet In Heaven", by Mitch Albom you would understand why certain things goes wrong. The story tells us how we touch other life and how they touch our lives.
When something bad happens to me, i say to myself that there is a reason that it happend and something good will come out of it. There is nothing in the world you can do to change what has happend. Only thing is to deal it with a positive attitude.
@alienstar (5142)
• India
1 Dec 06
He....very nice points you have put here....nice to read out the whole thing.Hope evrybody reads out this and get some motivation from this....as far as i am concerned, i am very strong willed and never ever get depressed ...in fact, failures makes me stronger and as you said, each and everything might be for good only...so, another opportunity wil definitely follow....
@alienstar (5142)
• India
1 Dec 06
Sometimes, if the things have gone really wrong, it is very difficult to come up with positive attitude....but, still one has to be very very optimestic in life as oportunities wil go on coming and you have to just be able to see it and grab it....
@exotiqueeyes (228)
• Romania
1 Dec 06
i'm optimistic all the time,i am never pesimist,after a bad thing is happening to me all the time is happening something good...
@alienstar (5142)
• India
1 Dec 06
Be like this...pessimistic approach won't take you anywhere......as allbad one's are follwed by good one's..this is a process, which goes on and we have to learn to live accordingly and be optimistic in life.....
