Never Was There a More Appropriate Song Title

@FourWalls (67412)
United States
April 3, 2022 8:49pm CST
I hope you read @RasmaSandra ‘s daily postings about “today in music history.” This year, she’s going through country music. Here’s a little factoid she left off the list for today (April 3). After I tell you about it, you’ll probably understand why it was omitted…and why we have one of the most appropriate song titles in country music history associated with this. On April 3, 1961, one of the saddest and most shocking events in country music happened in Tahachapi, California. Ella Mae Cooley, age 37, was found beaten to death in the home she shared with her husband, self-proclaimed “King of Western Swing” bandleader Donnell “Spade” Cooley. Ella Mae had recently filed for divorce from Spade. Cooley was arrested for the murder. At the time, news reports said, he admitted that he’d pulled a Will Smith and “slapped” her a couple of times during an argument, but alleged the bruises that covered the corpse were the result of Ella Mae falling out of the car earlier in the week. Among the injuries found by the autopsy were a ruptured aorta and a ruptured thyroid gland, the latter consistent with choking. Bad car! Among the witnesses who testified against Cooley at the July 1961 trial (yes, they actually did have trials that quickly after the arrest once upon a time) was the 14-year-old daughter of the couple, who was witness to the crime. Yes, Spade Cooley beat his wife to death in front of their child. And you can’t have a story like this without gossip: during the trial someone testified that Cooley was upset over his wife having an affair with Roy Rogers. That caused the famed cowboy actor and wife Dale Evans to come out and deny the charges. Anyway, despite the claims that the car choked Ella Mae and that Spade was insane (yes, he pleaded not guilty by reason of insanity), Cooley was convicted of the murder on August 19, 1961. On August 23 he was sentenced to life imprisonment. Now, I said at the beginning (and in the title) that there has never been a more appropriate song title to pop up. This is no lie, although it may seem like a joke or something that happened after the fact. In 1945, Cooley had his only #1 hit. The song stayed at the top spot for nine weeks. The song’s title? “Shame On You.” Cooley died in November 1969 while performing for a sheriff’s department benefit. Speaking of “shame on you,” the man sentenced to life imprisonment was scheduled to be paroled in February 1970, meaning he would have served less than nine years for murdering his wife. Shame on you, indeed. Here’s the song, with Tex Williams on vocals:
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@JudyEv (338724)
• Rockingham, Australia
4 Apr 22
What a fascinating story. People are just people, aren't they? Even the most talented, most famous, least talented, least famous are capable of the most despicable acts. And then to think he might have served only nine years for his crime.
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@JudyEv (338724)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Apr 22
@FourWalls We have some very odd sentencing here sometimes too.
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@RasmaSandra (79397)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
4 Apr 22
Thank you for the interesting info, WOW it was shame on him and glad he has gone away, I have never heard of the song and did not know about Spade Cooley, Surprised no one made this into a movie,
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@FourWalls (67412)
• United States
4 Apr 22
Especially with the gossip about Roy Rogers!!! That's perfect movie fodder!
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@BarBaraPrz (47144)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
4 Apr 22
Nice bit of western swing but the whole concept of shaming a woman for doing what men get away with is just wrong.
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@BarBaraPrz (47144)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
4 Apr 22
@FourWalls Well, somebody played that song somewhere because on youtube it calls it her "1952 #1 hit"
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@FourWalls (67412)
• United States
4 Apr 22
I’ll tell you a funny story: in 1953 J.D. Miller wrote an answer song to Hank Thompson’s hit “The Wild Side of Life,” titled “It Wasn’t God Who Made Honky Tonk Angels.” Kitty Wells recorded the song, which featured lines like “it’s a shame that all the blame is on us women….from the start most every heart that has been broken is because there always was a man to blame.” A lot of country radio stations, which in that time were exclusively male-owned and run, refused to play the “it takes two to tango” song. Kitty Wells was actually suspended from the Grand Ole Opry for singing the song after the (obviously male) manager (Jim Denny, who later told Elvis he’d never make it and should go back to driving trucks) ordered her to NOT perform the song on the Opry. That’s a man for you.
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@FourWalls (67412)
• United States
4 Apr 22
@BarBaraPrz — nothing helps a song like controversy. It was the biggest hit in her career!
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
4 Apr 22
Never heard of this one before.
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@FourWalls (67412)
• United States
4 Apr 22
It’s older than half of the myLotters, including me! Probably you as well!
@LindaOHio (176794)
• United States
4 Apr 22
Very interesting story. Definitely shame on him.
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@FourWalls (67412)
• United States
4 Apr 22
Celebrities behaving badly didn’t just start in the last few years. We just get to see it quicker because of cel phone videos and Twitter.
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@LindaOHio (176794)
• United States
5 Apr 22
@FourWalls That's for sure.
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4 Apr 22
What a good song
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@FourWalls (67412)
• United States
4 Apr 22
Excellent song. I just wish Cooley hadn’t been such a murderous jerk.
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