How long would she have waited?

@Fleura (30541)
United Kingdom
April 6, 2022 3:53pm CST
Today a friend ‘phoned and asked if I had some tools she could borrow to help with a problem. So I gathered a few together and called round to her house. When I got there her daughter (who was off school having had a tummy bug) answered the door. I asked if her Mum was in and she replied that she had just gone upstairs. So she just stood there smiling and jiggling her baby brother and I explained I had come round to help fix the problem and then we made some small talk and we all smiled at each other a bit more until eventually I asked ‘Could you tell your Mum I’m here?’ At that she shouted to her Mum who came dashing down at once. I just wondered how long we would have stayed there at the door if I hadn’t specifically asked her to pass on the message. Children are funny sometimes! All rights reserved. © Text and image copyright Fleur 2022.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
6 Apr 22
Things like this do make you wonder.
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
6 Apr 22
It would have been entertaining just to wait and see, but I didn't have that much time!
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
6 Apr 22
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@rebelann (112966)
• El Paso, Texas
6 Apr 22
That comes off rude to me. How old is this brat?
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
6 Apr 22
She's nine. I don't think she was deliberately being rude, she just wasn't thinking at all!
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@rebelann (112966)
• El Paso, Texas
6 Apr 22
9 year olds can be very rude sometimes.
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@much2say (56053)
• Los Angeles, California
6 Apr 22
Hee hee. I guess with some kids we have to be very specific about what is needed .
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@much2say (56053)
• Los Angeles, California
7 Apr 22
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
7 Apr 22
Yes I guess I should have said right away!
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@LadyDuck (472074)
• Switzerland
7 Apr 22
How old is the girl? It sounds weird that she could not understand that you needed to see her Mom.
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@LadyDuck (472074)
• Switzerland
7 Apr 22
@Fleura She has not yet the habit, may be she does not see many people.
@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
7 Apr 22
She's nine. Yes I thought when I said I had come to help her Mum that she would realise I needed to see her, but obviously I should have been more explicit!
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@DaddyEvil (137634)
• United States
6 Apr 22
Until you actually asked to talk with her mother? After all, you only asked if her mother was there. You didn't say you wanted to talk with her. so whose fault is that?
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@DaddyEvil (137634)
• United States
7 Apr 22
@Fleura Sometimes, with kids, you do have to be direct. They don't think like adults do.
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
7 Apr 22
@DaddyEvil and adults don't always think the same way either! I have learned that treating people the way you like to be treated is not always the right thing to do!
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
7 Apr 22
Indeed, I should have been far more specific. I will spell out exactly what I want next time!
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@RasmaSandra (80736)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
7 Apr 22
I like that so cute probably if the kid had not asked you to come in to play you would have wound up standing there for some time,
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@RasmaSandra (80736)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
8 Apr 22
@Fleura actually her mum should tel her to call her right away and not speak to strangers these days standing at the door with someone she does not know can turn out to be dangerous
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
8 Apr 22
@RasmaSandra I guess that's true, but she does know me.
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
7 Apr 22
It's funny because often when children open the door to visitors they don't know what to do next and immediately just yell 'Mum!' But I think she is more confident than that so didn't feel the need!
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@GardenGerty (160949)
• United States
7 Apr 22
Yes they are and a bit clueless. Every day is a learning experience.
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
7 Apr 22
That's true, maybe she will act sooner next time!
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
7 Apr 22
Yeah! Chidren are always so adorable no matter what they do and say
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
7 Apr 22
It did make me laugh!
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@vandana7 (100617)
• India
7 Apr 22
You remind me of how I evil I was (actually, I still am). Once we were invited by my father's boss for dinner. I was seven or eight. I naturally could not see the dishes placed on table. Nobody bothered to help me with food. I returned home starving. Not a morsel in my belly. Dad was not yet accustomed to looking after his child having lost his wife recently. So the next time that manager came to our place, I made him stand outside... and the laundryman, I asked him to come and sit. Evil Grin. Revenge. Dad was naturally mad at me, but he realized why ..so the slap came slowly. LOL
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
7 Apr 22
You were a clever girl!
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
7 Apr 22
Maybe her Mom was in the washroom and she was just giving her some time.
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
7 Apr 22
Perhaps she was more tactful than I gave her credit for!
@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
7 Apr 22
I don't like to wait for so long especially on your case. You're there to help solve their problem but daughter seems insensitive. She better had called her mum right away.
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
7 Apr 22
I guess she just wasn't thinking!
@JudyEv (342088)
• Rockingham, Australia
7 Apr 22
Haha - that is so funny. I guess she didn't know what she should do next!
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
7 Apr 22
It's funny because often when children open the door to visitors they don't know what to do next and immediately just yell 'Mum!' But I think she is more confident than that so I guess she didn't feel the need!
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@aninditasen (16503)
• Raurkela, India
7 Apr 22
What was the problem? Did she tell you at last? Hope you could solve her problem.
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
7 Apr 22
The problem my friend had was with erecting a rotary clothes line. She hammered the supporting stake into the ground, but then found that the hammering had damaged the top of the stake so that it would no longer fit inside the rest of the line to hold it up. We sawed the top off the stake and then it all fitted together fine.
@Babino (5759)
• Morocco
7 Apr 22
That's funny. I wonder was she was thinking. Kids are unpredictable.
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
7 Apr 22
Yes I would love to hear her side of the story!
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
7 Apr 22
I guess she was busy playing with her brother that she didn't realize that you need to call her mom to meet you. I guess you just have to understand them as they are young and don't realize the urgency of the matter.
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
7 Apr 22
No I suppose she thought I had all afternoon to stand there smiling at the baby!
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@jojo021 (68)
7 Apr 22
sometimes children are funny and annoying at the same time
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
7 Apr 22
Absolutely!