Is it disrespectful?

@Ladanger (14578)
United States
May 11, 2022 4:33pm CST
In todays generation, liking or commenting on peoples pictures can be considered disrespectful. Maybe because your partner is liking some strangers picture. A “like” doesn’t have to mean anything bad, it’s the intention behind it. I think this has more to do, when your partner is adding random strangers and commenting on their posts. How do you feel about your partner adding people they don’t know? I guess it all depends on their intention? Has anyone ever had this problem before? Let’s talk about it. I am very curious and what to hear other peoples point of views on this.
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@Luis11 (399)
11 May 22
Yea i can see what you mean, when you start adding random people and commenting while you are already dating someone could make them feel unimportant in a way especially if you never do the same for your partner.
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@Ladanger (14578)
• United States
12 May 22
It may not be cheating but could come off as disrespectful.
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@Luis11 (399)
12 May 22
@Ladanger exactly it could be disrespectful.
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@porwest (89267)
• United States
11 May 22
One thing I know about relationships and marriage is that trust is paramount. If you don't trust your partner you should not be together. I would not want to be around such petty complaints anyway personally.
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@Ladanger (14578)
• United States
11 May 22
Trust is the more important thing and communication
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@porwest (89267)
• United States
12 May 22
@Ladanger Yep. Communication is also very high on the list.
@RebeccasFarm (89741)
• Arvada, Colorado
11 May 22
Well it is only me so I do not have to worry about a partner doing anything. But yes, some things are harmless and should not be worried about.
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@Ladanger (14578)
• United States
11 May 22
A “ like” itself isn’t bad but I guess some take that as a sign of flirting.
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@LadyDuck (470776)
• Switzerland
12 May 22
I think that this should absolutely be a problem if you have a good and serious relationship with your partner. If this is a problem, the relationship is a problem.
@moffittjc (121499)
• Gainesville, Florida
12 May 22
Hmmm....I don't think I've ever added some random person or stranger on my social media sites, or commented/liked their photos. I guess it wouldn't even really matter because I barely ever use social media anymore these days.
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@Ladanger (14578)
• United States
12 May 22
Some follow more than 7,000 people and that’s a red flag to me lol
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@moffittjc (121499)
• Gainesville, Florida
12 May 22
@Ladanger Oh good Lord! That’s way too many people to follow!
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@aninditasen (16329)
• Raurkela, India
12 May 22
It depends on understanding between the partners. My husband used to protest earlier whenever I accepted a stranger's friends request but he accepted it later on as he knew I did not have a bad intention.
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@aninditasen (16329)
• Raurkela, India
13 May 22
@Ladanger Yes, this is what most men at least in India do not understand.
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@Ladanger (14578)
• United States
12 May 22
I guess we just have to respect our boundaries in a relationship.
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@popciclecold (38544)
• United States
12 May 22
We don't. We are real old school.