help me !

India
December 1, 2006 5:23am CST
ther is a girl called preethi in my class , she used to study with me 3 yrs back .now she returned about 4 months back in my class ! I used to feel pity for her because no one used to speak to properly except me & my fiend Anu, but few days back Anu told me that she was trying to convince her to stop talking me ! so I stopped talking to preethi ! did I do the write thing ? please help me !
4 responses
@what_now (554)
• Canada
3 Dec 06
Feeling socially unwelcomed can cause many problems. I think preeti might have that problem and you did a good thing by starting to interact in conversations with her. but what I am not understanding is WHY did you stop talking to her? please explain more clearly so I know what's wrong and what actually should I be commenting about, thank you n cheers
• India
3 Dec 06
she tried to convince MY BEST FRIEND to stop talking to me . she is always using me . I am really in tension . Please help !
@what_now (554)
• Canada
3 Dec 06
confront preeti, tell her that she tried to keep your best friend from talking to you and you know about it, if she apologizes n evrything i'd say be a the bigger person and forgive her and if she refuses to admit she ever did something like that then think abot it again and see could your best friend be the one making all this stuff up so you won't speak to preeti she is the not so famous one.
@starsun (316)
• India
9 Dec 06
I think u better talk abt tis to her along wit ur friend anu. If she admits her mistake n feels bad for it then u can forgive her.(Only if she repents for her action truly). If not u both better move away from her.
@devilangelo (4522)
• India
3 Dec 06
u did the right thing rima :).. why bother with a person who doesnt appreciate ur kindness n friendship .. try to convince ur freind anu too to stop talking to her .. n u be careful of preethi. :) tc
@queen28 (12)
• India
9 Dec 06
close your eyes & think about god & ask what u should do . god will surely show you the path . as for me if i would have been ur place ,i would never talk to her again because if she could do it once , she can try & break your friendship with anu again .