Love advice

Not all romantic relationships are covered in sweetness and memorable moments. Sometimes they run counter to what we expect. So when you get into a romantic relationship, make sure you're prepared to face all sorts of problems and challenges. If you can deal with this, then perhaps you're ready.

That's why we heard "Through thick and thin" during the marital ceremony. I know most couple got both of the situation. It is not always a fairy tale - live happily ever after... It is hard to give advice to those who are still single since going to a relationship is quite a gamble... We will only know the real characters of the one we love till we are already in the situation where it is hard to decide ..

I would say, life is 10% of what happens to you and 90% of how you respond to it. I would tell them that life is not a bed of roses but they should strive to always focus on the brighter side of life and appreciate their blessings. That is - they should look at the glass as half-full and not half-empty. Two people may be looking at the same glass but they may perceive it differently. Being able to actively search for the positive things in any given situation - even sad ones (how you react) would make your life happier if you dwell on the positive things. Learn to focus on your husband or family members' good traits instead of focusing on their bad ones, Let's say, your partner is picky but he is thoughtful, focus on his thoughtfulness and not on his being picky. I'm sure they will be able to find something positive in each person because no person is completely bad or good, Learn how to say three simple sentences, such as "Thank you," "please" and "I love you". these are important in family life. A long-lasting marriage involves constant care. The love won't automatically remain, they have to nurture, develop, and take care of it, for love to grow and remain in the marriage. And marry the person you truly love because when you do love someone - despite difficulties- you will be happy.

I would simply say "do not believe in fairy tales". Life is not a bowl of cherries, there are sad moments, sometimes we get into arguments, our opinions can differ. If we married someone knowing that we will go through all this but we are fine because we love that person, than it's fine. If we are not ready to this, do not get married.

I would say. Stay close to your mate,Tell him your thoughts and listen to his. If you argue make up before you go to bed. Be kind and loving. No marriage is perfect. Both partners must be willing to give and take.Troubles happen during life. Handle them the best way you can and stay on the same page.

Before getting into a relationship weigh and ponder. However in India people believe that marriages are made in heaven.

My advice is that a couple has to be on the "same page", otherwise it will not work.

The only advice would be to keep your expectations real and minimal. Life is not a rosy picture or something lived for couple of hours on a silver screen. You go through thick and thin. There is not perfect couple or perfect marriage. Two imperfect people try their way to make their relationship perfect.

Marriage is like an empty box. You put in love, effort, trust, respect, sacrifices, forgiveness and a lot of patience and understanding. A lot of couple nowadays break up with different reasons. For me, it's better to try everything you could instead of living in what ifs. But also remember that once trust is gone, it's very hard between couples to fix their relationships. Some succeed, some doesn't. I guess it's a case to case basis but self respect is very important too. If you get disrespected a couple of times already and the person doesn't intend to change, then he/she isn't for you.