City Homes

@flapiz (23151)
United Kingdom
June 15, 2022 11:54pm CST
I was opting to save money so I tried to stay in a room only apartment here in London. And although it was really good value for money and good location, I would say I got unlucky with the flatmates. The house didn't have good sound proofing and these inconsiderate party animals came home at 3 AM and was arguing in the kitchen. Part of me wanted to tell them off as I had an early appointment but I didn't want to be the grinch. This morning now we have morning traffic in the toilet. I think this could be great if I was sharing the house with friends. Not total strangers.
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@TheHorse (220068)
• Walnut Creek, California
16 Jun 22
That would be better. Can you politely ask them to quiet down at 3 AM? Even some party animals are considerate toward others.
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@TheHorse (220068)
• Walnut Creek, California
16 Jun 22
@flapiz I can send you my lecture notes about "assertiveness." It does not "dis-empower" others involved.
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
16 Jun 22
@TheHorse I have always had issues with assertiveness. I think that would do me good.
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@TheHorse (220068)
• Walnut Creek, California
16 Jun 22
@flapiz Let me look for it.
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@LadyDuck (471969)
• Switzerland
16 Jun 22
Oh my, those people are rude and selfish. Do you have to stay long there? If it is the case you must have a word with them.
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
16 Jun 22
Thankfully just for a night so I don't miss my visa appointment. This area is expensive so I had to skint and share. I couldn't risk another subway strike.
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
16 Jun 22
@LadyDuck I know it is common courtesy to be at least quiet on sleep hours when you're sharing a flat. Good thing I was exhausted so I was able to sleep again.
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@LadyDuck (471969)
• Switzerland
16 Jun 22
@flapiz For just one night it's fine, they were anyway really rude.
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
16 Jun 22
Oh no, I believe you should go to a new location where you can live in peace with your roommates. I believe I would prefer to remain in a room where my housemates are quiet and leave me alone.
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
16 Jun 22
@flapiz I see that is just a temporary place for you. I thought that will be your permanent place to stay in already. I hope that you can find a place of your own so you can be living comfortably there.
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
16 Jun 22
@rsa101 Nah i'd die if it was. I mean there are 3 rooms here and each room can accommodate a couple. Just one bathroom and shower. Nah. Max of people I'd share a bathroom with is 1.
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
16 Jun 22
In an ideal world I would rather not have a housemate. Or if I have one it should be someone I know. But a little discomforting for one night is okay. I just needed a cheap place for the night for my visa appointment.
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@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
16 Jun 22
In your case, I would try to seek for another apartment. People don´t change much. Your flatmates will want to keep on going to parties and, above all, to parties where they drink too much.
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
16 Jun 22
I was only there for the night for my via appointment. So I won't see them again. Hopefully.
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@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
16 Jun 22
@flapiz Good! That was not a good place to stay.
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
16 Jun 22
@marguicha Yeah it's hard when people only think of themselves.
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@sjvg1976 (41289)
• Delhi, India
16 Jun 22
I would never share a flat/room with strangers as I would not know their nature and habit.
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
16 Jun 22
I had no choice as I am running low on savings. Most hotels in this area cost 500£ a night. And i cannot risk renting away from here in case of another subway strike.
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
16 Jun 22
@sjvg1976 I'm on thrift mode.
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@sjvg1976 (41289)
• Delhi, India
16 Jun 22
@flapiz I can understand.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
16 Jun 22
This is one of many reasons I enjoy my own home.
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
16 Jun 22
@CarolDM It would take a while but I will work on it.
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
16 Jun 22
And this is the reason why I want to buy my own home.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
16 Jun 22
@flapiz I hope that can happen for you soon.
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@GardenGerty (160883)
• United States
16 Jun 22
Maybe eventually they will become your friends.
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@GardenGerty (160883)
• United States
16 Jun 22
@flapiz I hope you find something better.
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
16 Jun 22
Haha the answer is never as I have already checked out.
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@celticeagle (168126)
• Boise, Idaho
16 Jun 22
Friends might be nicer. Total strangers can be very unaccomidating.
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@celticeagle (168126)
• Boise, Idaho
17 Jun 22
@flapiz ........Good.
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
16 Jun 22
That is true. Anyway I am a little bit over it now.
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@Shiva49 (26762)
• Singapore
16 Jun 22
Some are just inconsiderate. You can't make sense to them. Maybe, still you can explain your predicament when they are sober. The last option is to vote with your feet!
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
16 Jun 22
Well I just endured it was only for the night anyway. Now I am back to sharing a house with a none noisy housemate.
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• Northampton, England
16 Jun 22
we have some cheap hotel chains here like Premium Inn...rooms, even in London, £50 a night
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
16 Jun 22
Not this time of year and definitely not near Mark Lane.
@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
18 Jun 22
That's terrible. Find a better place to live.
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
18 Jun 22
It was just for the night thankfully.
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@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
18 Jun 22
@flapiz oh I see. It's temporary.
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• Shenzhen, China
16 Jun 22
If i was you,i will move to a single room,I can't bear living with another one.I had my own living habit,regular sleep,regular reading,i can't bear these habit was disturbed by a roommate.In addition,getting along with a roommate take too many time and energy,i prefer a personal space in a single room,trust me,you want a single room for sure.
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
16 Jun 22
I love my personal space, specially personal bathroom. But this area where my visa appointment is, is quite a posh area and I don't want to spend 500£ for a night. This is 75£ so I am enduring it for the night. London can be very expensive. This area is close to big businesses so it's even pricier.
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
16 Jun 22
@jefferson126 I was only doing that for the night. I am not living in London. I live in Bath. And there I am sharing with a lovely and considerate person and her cat.
• Shenzhen, China
16 Jun 22
@flapiz ,speaking of price,then i can understand you chose flatmates,we have to compromise on house with high price.I can't say you make a wrong decision.In terms of saving,you are right to live with flatmates.however,when you can afford a single flat,should move home right away.
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@Hytton03 (5451)
• Philippines
17 Jun 22
Oh sad you always disturb in that situation.
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
17 Jun 22
It's an overnight stay so just really for a day.
@Aiana18 (698)
• Belo Horizonte, Brazil
16 Jun 22
How nice! You live in London. I find London so mysterious. I really want to get to know it.
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
17 Jun 22
I don't live there. Thank God for that. Hahaha it is nice to visit but it is too pass paced for me. I live in Bath.
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@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
16 Jun 22
I'm sorry that this is the situation that you're in. It can't be an easy situation.
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
16 Jun 22
It's okay it was just for a night. It is at least better than a dormitory. I got the bedroom for myself at least.
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
16 Jun 22
Even with your friends there would be no garantee that they will be quiet.
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
16 Jun 22
Well at least I know them and can tell them to tone it down without offending them.
@JudyEv (341742)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Jun 22
Is this a semi-permanent move, not just while you sort out your visa?
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
16 Jun 22
Just an overnight Judy. I am never putting myself up for this long term.
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@Rashnag (30592)
• Surat, India
16 Jun 22
So sorry to hear. People should act sensibly when living with others. Sorry to know you faced so much troubles. Anyways, have a good day. Take care
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
16 Jun 22
It's okay now. I have checked out and done my appointment. Heading to Bath now for a more peaceful environment.
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• China
16 Jun 22
Fortunately, this is temporary. I hope you will have a good living environment in the future
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
16 Jun 22
Yeah I have rented a cottage with a nice lady and a black cat. For sure better than this.
@Beestring (14672)
• Hong Kong
16 Jun 22
Living with strangers is a risk. You don't know their nature and habits. Hope you can find a place of your own or live with someone you know well.
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
16 Jun 22
It's just a place for the night. Apart from the noise I'm glad nothing more sinister.
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