Feeling a Little Low

@flapiz (23153)
United Kingdom
June 19, 2022 7:33am CST
Just finished dropping my boyfriend to the airport. And on the way back I missed my bus stop as my mind is elsewhere. I do appreciate his visit but it's easier to leave than be left. Trying to console myself as he will be coming again next weekend.
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@Beestring (14697)
• Hong Kong
19 Jun 22
Hope you get your visa soon. A week is not a long time. Can you communicate with your boyfriend on the net?
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@flapiz (23153)
• United Kingdom
19 Jun 22
Oh well we will talk daily. He is doing night shift from tonight and I really don't know how he is post night shift.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
20 Jun 22
I’m sorry you’re boyfriend had to leave.
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@flapiz (23153)
• United Kingdom
20 Jun 22
It is what it is. He is coming to see me in the next 4 days. Bless him he tries but I worry it's eventually going to be to expensive for him.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
21 Jun 22
@flapiz I hope it doesn’t but traveling is expensive.
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@flapiz (23153)
• United Kingdom
21 Jun 22
@RubyHawk Specially around this time of year cause it is summer.
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
20 Jun 22
It's understandable to miss him, especially since you're in a long-distance relationship. In any case, this would be a test of how well your relationship would withstand the distance between you two. Good luck with that, and hopefully it will grow stronger over time.
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
21 Jun 22
@flapiz You have officially entered into a long-distance relationship. The good news is that you can still meet together physically and have fun with each other. I believe that being able to enjoy each other's company is a crucial component of a good partnership.
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@flapiz (23153)
• United Kingdom
21 Jun 22
@rsa101 Yes it's official. This one at least makes as much effort as I do. With my ex it was more me coming to visit him all the time.
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@flapiz (23153)
• United Kingdom
20 Jun 22
Yeah the most we have been apart is 4 days. And thankfully he's got a job that could afford the flights.
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@LadyDuck (472078)
• Switzerland
19 Jun 22
You will be in touch with him every day, I am sure.
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@flapiz (23153)
• United Kingdom
19 Jun 22
Well yes that is no doubt. Hopefully this is sustainable.
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@LadyDuck (472078)
• Switzerland
19 Jun 22
@flapiz I hope you get your VISA and you will be together again soon.
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@flapiz (23153)
• United Kingdom
19 Jun 22
@LadyDuck Well the second wish is definite after 4 days. Thank you Anna.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Jun 22
He'll be back so don't worry much.
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@flapiz (23153)
• United Kingdom
20 Jun 22
Yeah well if I think about it he will come see me on Friday. Which is pretty much soon enough.
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@flapiz (23153)
• United Kingdom
20 Jun 22
@cacay1 yeah I need to just do my thing while he's busy working. It is hard since I am currently unemployed as I wait for my skilled visa.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Jun 22
@flapiz, yrs6 matter of 4 days to wait.
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@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
23 Jun 22
You don't need to worry. Anyway he will be back next week. If you miss him?l, you can contact him anytime. Can't you?
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@flapiz (23153)
• United Kingdom
23 Jun 22
Well now I am in Guernsey. I decided to come since it feels like it's going to take another week. At least I can take care of my boyfriend post night shift and he feeds me. I'm starting to run low on savings.
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@flapiz (23153)
• United Kingdom
24 Jun 22
@Nakitakona Yeah but it is kind of hurting my pride. I do try to be useful.
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@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
24 Jun 22
@flapiz That's the way it - the give-and-take relationship.
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
19 Jun 22
It will be ok. Try make yourself busy and because of time passes by so fast your boyfriend will be there again
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@flapiz (23153)
• United Kingdom
19 Jun 22
I will try. The hard part is because my visa isn't here yet I cannot start with my new job yet. And thus I am idle and bored. And more miserable. Hopefully I get it tomorrow. Otherwise I might end up going back to Guernsey and waiting for it there.
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• Germany
19 Jun 22
@flapiz Oh sorry about that. I hope you get your visa soon and feel at ease.
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@flapiz (23153)
• United Kingdom
19 Jun 22
@m_audrey6788 I hope so too. I really need it. I am using up my savings.
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@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
20 Jun 22
It definitely can't be easy. At least you'll see him next weekend.
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@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
20 Jun 22
@flapiz I can get that. It can't be an easy situation.
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@flapiz (23153)
• United Kingdom
20 Jun 22
@dodo19 On the upside we call and play mobile games everyday we can.
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@flapiz (23153)
• United Kingdom
20 Jun 22
Yeah 4 days is not a lot. It just drags on for me as I am currently unemployed whilst awaiting the approval of my work visa. So I am really bored and lonely.
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@yanzalong (18987)
• Indonesia
19 Jun 22
It seems to me falling in love is above everything. Do you agree? Is he just a friend or special friend? Hope you two get on like a house on fire.
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@flapiz (23153)
• United Kingdom
19 Jun 22
Hahaha he is a special friend. And yes to me love is quite an important thing.
@RebeccasFarm (90474)
• Arvada, Colorado
19 Jun 22
I am glad you have your boyfriend but sorry he is leaving you again
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@flapiz (23153)
• United Kingdom
19 Jun 22
Thank you Rebecca. I always somehow end up with long distance relationships.
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• Arvada, Colorado
19 Jun 22
@flapiz Yes , well its a shame the distance
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@marlina (154130)
• Canada
19 Jun 22
A week goes fast!
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@flapiz (23153)
• United Kingdom
19 Jun 22
Well that is true if I'm having fun. So aim for next week is to have fun.
@JudyEv (342176)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Jun 22
It's tough on both partners with this sort of relationship.
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@flapiz (23153)
• United Kingdom
20 Jun 22
Yeah I could imagine he is sad too.
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