Who is your best friend in the world ?
By Kuntal Ch.
@Philricmind (27)
India
June 21, 2022 1:11am CST
Your best friend in the whole world is only you, nobody else. People form relationships either by choice or naturally by birth. We have no control over the relationships we make by blood connection. This is automatic. We accept those people like relatives or family members even if we have completely different mindsets.
On the other side, when we make some good bonding with like-minded people- they often become friends with us. We can share a lot about our life with those people or spend good times with them. However, this also has a limit.
In your tough time, you might lose most of them. Nobody likes to be a part of someone else's problems. Because they have their own problems and don't like to add new ones. Everyone prefers to receive and avoids giving. So, when they don't get benefited from keeping the connection, they stop contact gradually.
Then you'll realize that it's only you who will always be with you. We can't betray ourselves. Therefore, be self-sufficient, confident, and self-dependent.
Everyone that is associated with your life, is temporary.
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@aninditasen (16503)
• Raurkela, India
21 Jun 22
My best friend is God who though invisible gives me all the strength to face and solve the problems of my life.
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@aninditasen (16503)
• Raurkela, India
5 Jul 22
@fasihpti I would say solutions more than myth for it's only through God's grace that we move forward in life.
@Philricmind (27)
• India
2 Jul 22
Sad. But this is one of the truths of life that we learn sometime. See you're not alone here on Mylot because there're like-minded people around you. Cheers.
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@Philricmind (27)
• India
2 Jul 22
It's a life lesson that all experience at some point of time. Stay strong with your success and individuality.
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@Philricmind (27)
• India
24 Jun 22
Out of fear? Men are scared of their wives.. LOL..
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@DevMrSamEleazar (14058)
• Philippines
26 Jun 22
yea don't forget of taking care of yourself as its your only might one bestfriend
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@CookieMonster46 (13454)
• United States
22 Jun 22
You have to love yourself before you can enjoy others
@CookieMonster46 (13454)
• United States
7 Jul 22
@fasihpti I gave up long ago worrying what others think. I have to be me.
@Philricmind (27)
• India
24 Jun 22
Nobody wants people around them to become more successful than them. Rest all is bogus theory.
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@JESSY3236 (20041)
• United States
21 Jun 22
I do have a best friend. Her name is also Jessica. I met her in the fourth grade and we have been best friends ever since.
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@JESSY3236 (20041)
• United States
28 Jun 22
@Philricmind lol She has hazel eyes. I often wish she could go to my doctor for me, but she can't.
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@Philricmind (27)
• India
24 Jun 22
Great to know that. Are you sure you haven't met her in the mirror of your house? ;)
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@Philricmind (27)
• India
2 Jul 22
@JESSY3236 Why do you want that? I didn't get it.
Are you in your twenties Jessica?
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@Philricmind (27)
• India
2 Jul 22
Make a shield around you with strong words, personality, and work.
@ihasaquestion (8275)
•
22 Jun 22
Yup.. different people have a different take on this. But our first best friend is ourselves.
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@cabuyogty (3061)
• Philippines
26 Jun 22
My friends are my mother and my little niece :)
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@Laurakemunto (12862)
• Kenya
21 Jun 22
True am the best friend of myself and am okay with that very okay . Of course there are other friends that I do have
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
28 Jun 22
I think we need to know ourselves well before expecting to be able to be good friends with anyone.
@Philricmind (27)
• India
2 Jul 22
Once we know ourselves, we understand the hard truth of individuality.
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@akanetuk (2135)
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11 Jul 22
My best friend is myself, I love myself, and transmit that same love to others.