Why do you feel loneliness and what to do at those time? / myLot

India

June 26, 2022 10:28pm CST

One of the times I was feeling depressed and lonely even though there were everyone around me. I always wonder what to do those times. I used to come less to myLot during those times. I always wish I had a good friend that I can talk to for hours, but everyone around seems either selfish or act as busy. What to do at those times?

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M Cheung

@Beestring (14554)

• Hong Kong

27 Jun 22

I read, listen to some music or go out for a walk.

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ajithlal

@ajithlal (14716)

• India

27 Jun 22

I also like music very much.

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Akaninyene Etuk

@akanetuk (2135)

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16 Jul 22

Meditation could help and retraction to a quite place could also be valuable.

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ajithlal

@ajithlal (14716)

• India

21 Sep 22

@akanetuk I also like spending time in nature alone and also in beach and sea.

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Hilda

@Hildasalom (954)

• Nairobi, Kenya

27 Jun 22

Right know am feeling Abit off but I can't say am depressed. Am just so bored staying in the house almost the whole day with nothing much to do.

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ajithlal

@ajithlal (14716)

• India

28 Jun 22

Sometimes we all get bored and we should try to keep ourselves busy to avoid it.

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Hilda

@Hildasalom (954)

• Nairobi, Kenya

28 Jun 22

@ajithlal true

Akaninyene Etuk

@akanetuk (2135)

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16 Jul 22

Having a plan for the day, also helps us in avoiding boredom, we become engaged in achieving our plans therefore eliminating boredom.

simplyme

@m_audrey6788 (58472)

• Germany

27 Jun 22

It happens to me sometimes and I just try to keep myself busy and do gardening, watch some movies or mylotting

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ajithlal

@ajithlal (14716)

• India

28 Jun 22

I will also try to keep myself busy.

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simplyme

@m_audrey6788 (58472)

• Germany

28 Jun 22

@ajithlal That`s good

Akaninyene Etuk

@akanetuk (2135)

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16 Jul 22

Engage yourself in what makes you happy then boredom will flee, we should try and understand what works well for us.

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Judy Story

@jstory07 (139697)

• Roseburg, Oregon

27 Jun 22

I go for a long walk where I can see wild animals.

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ajithlal

@ajithlal (14716)

• India

27 Jun 22

I will try to do that being closer to the nature.

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Akaninyene Etuk

@akanetuk (2135)

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16 Jul 22

Yes connecting with nature at this point could also be helpful.

Anna

@LadyDuck (471500)

• Switzerland

27 Jun 22

You should come to myLot and talk to us, as many do. Talking is good when you feel lonely.

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ajithlal

@ajithlal (14716)

• India

28 Jun 22

Yes I found better mood when I have someone to talk to especially good friends. Most of them are busy in their lives or some of them have changed their character. I also feel better some days when in myLot.

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ajithlal

@ajithlal (14716)

• India

28 Jun 22

@LadyDuck Yes I have found it true. We can open here and gets other's opinions and views and also feels there are someone to hear.

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Anna

@LadyDuck (471500)

• Switzerland

28 Jun 22

@ajithlal When you come here, at least you can rant, or share your problems and the other users discuss with you. It is better that being alone with no one who wants to talk to you.

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ketina Maningwa

@ketinaharriet (397)

• Nairobi, Kenya

27 Jun 22

For me I have a playlist that I put when I feel low, if it is heart break for instance I notice that you have being playing me for fool I gave songs that deals with taking the trash out of my life. Example fun by pink. Then I boost my mood cause I know what I am dealing with and end up saying I don't enjoy being sad so I have dealt with taking trash outside.

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ajithlal

@ajithlal (14716)

• India

28 Jun 22

Yes music always helps to boost our mood.

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ketina Maningwa

@ketinaharriet (397)

• Nairobi, Kenya

28 Jun 22

@ajithlal true

Akaninyene Etuk

@akanetuk (2135)

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16 Jul 22

Yes music can help cure this boredom, but what works for you may not apply for the other person. People have different way of solving inner loneliness.

celticeagle

@celticeagle (166911)

• Boise, Idaho

28 Jun 22

Stunted in a depressive state can make any of us feel alone. When it is hard to describe how we are feeling and nothing seems to help. That's why we feel alone I think.

Akaninyene Etuk

@akanetuk (2135)

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16 Jul 22

During such period to you need to connect with your inner self, physically you are busy but the loneliness stems from inward emptiness.