Update on Meeting My Father’s Family

Family
United States
June 30, 2022 9:06am CST
It just dawned on me that I never updated on my visit with my father’s family. I feel that the meeting went very well. I met my half sister and my fathers sister. It was a nice visit. My sister went with Little Miss and I. We visited for about two hours and had lunch together. And promised that we would get together again. My half-sister brought a picture of my father for me. And promised to also to find the pictures that she had put in a safe spot so she would remember where she put them. I told her she was so like me because I do that all the time. My half sister and I had so many similarities. And of course in female fashion we all sat and had a good cry because it was like this wonderful coming together. I have since connected with my half brothers. We only talk or should I say chat on messenger and through text. I have yet to meet them. My half sister’s birthday was yesterday and I sent her a message wishing her a wonderful day. I told her that we need to get together soon and have lunch and chat. She agreed and hopefully within the next couple of weeks we can meet. My half-sister did follow through and send me a few more pictures. It’s so clear that I am my father’s child. There is a strong resemblance. She also included some pictures of her and my brothers when they were little and that warmed my heart as well. I feel that she’s willing to include me in her life. I now have to sort through my pictures and make copies so that I can send them to her. I don’t have too many because my mother wasn’t very good at taking pictures when we were young. I brought the pictures up so I could show my mom hoping that she would recognize my father and his youth. Unfortunately she has regressed a great deal and was unable to recognize him. I’m hoping that by August I’ll be able to connect with my brothers as well so that I can get to know them a little better. My apologies for the delay in posting this. My life has been a little topsy-turvy with everything that’s going on with my mom. Also trying to keep this little one entertained has proven to be a challenge but I’m on top of it and have a little time for myself. Photo credit goes to my sister.
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@LadyDuck (472087)
• Switzerland
30 Jun 22
I am so glad that you went to meet the family and everything went well.
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• United States
1 Jul 22
@LadyDuck the travel time is longer than I want to drive so I will limit how often I go. Gas prices are terrible too.
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• United States
30 Jun 22
We are slowly getting to know one another.
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@LadyDuck (472087)
• Switzerland
1 Jul 22
@ElusiveButterfly Now that the first step has been done you can see them more often.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
30 Jun 22
That’s so nice that you could meet your family an get aquatinted with them.
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• United States
30 Jun 22
It was great and I look forward to seeing them again.
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• United States
1 Jul 22
@RubyHawk my sister and aunt live 1 1/2 hours from me. It’s a long drive for me. Hopefully we can meet halfway
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
1 Jul 22
@ElusiveButterfly I hope you guys can get together often.
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@rebelann (112973)
• El Paso, Texas
30 Jun 22
Boy, I can tell they are all related, that didn't happen in my little family.
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• United States
1 Jul 22
My aunt is on the left, my half-sister, me, and Little Miss
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@rebelann (112973)
• El Paso, Texas
1 Jul 22
Little Miss really resembles you and your Aunt.
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@DaddyEvil (137634)
• United States
30 Jun 22
I'm glad everything went well with meeting more of your family. I hope you enjoy meeting your brothers face-to-face, as much as you did your half-sister. I had wondered how the meeting had gone, but was hesitant to send a pm asking, in case things hadn't gone as well as we had all hoped. Thank you for letting us know.
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• United States
30 Jun 22
Oh you should have sent a message. But I probably would have been a little delayed in answering. I am delighted that things went well.
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@DaddyEvil (137634)
• United States
30 Jun 22
@ElusiveButterfly I don't normally message people on myLot unless I see something they're having a problem with. (A problem that might cause embarrassment if not caught quickly.) Otherwise, people are busy with life and will let us know what they want us to know when they want to tell us. I'm satisfied to wait.
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• United States
30 Jun 22
@DaddyEvil I have such a busy life this time of year. Love my summertime fun.
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• United States
30 Jun 22
I'm so happy for you that it all went well.
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• United States
30 Jun 22
I am too. Hoping to meet my busy brothers soon.
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• United States
30 Jun 22
@Marilynda1225 I chat often with the youngest of the bunch. He and I seem to get along well.
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• United States
30 Jun 22
@ElusiveButterfly it must be exciting knowing you'll be meeting your brothers soon especially after meeting your half sister went so well.
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Jul 22
That is so nice to hear. It must be really heart-warming for you all.
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• United States
1 Jul 22
It warms my heart to know my father’s family. Brings me closer to my dad.
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@snowy22315 (182210)
• United States
30 Jun 22
I am glad you got a chance to meet them and the visit went well.
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• United States
30 Jun 22
Thank you. I am looking forward to seeing them again. My half sister has a soft heart just like me.
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@Dena91 (16686)
• United States
30 Jun 22
I am so happy you have connected with your half-siblings. I hope you continue to build a solid friendships with them all.
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• United States
30 Jun 22
It’s very slow with them. I’m sure it’s still a lot to process.
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