Today was the stuff that nightmares are made of.

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Today was an interesting experience, For the first time ever I had the opportunity if you can call it that to meet the biological father of my 2 stepchildren. Despite the headaches that they both give me on a regular basis I wouldn't change the fact that I consider them my own children. Today meeting up with their Biological father and watched him as he sat and ate a meal with them for the first time in almost 9 years. It was stomach churning and I could sense the nervousness in the Body Language of my youngest child. It felt like I was being made to hand over my child to a Pedophile and there was nothing I could do about it. Theres no evidence to state he has those urges but nonetheless it made me feel sick to my stomach and a huge relief that the evening was over and we could leave. My wife's Ex the father of my two children was a very very abusive and controlling man and it took a lot of pressure from him and threats of legal action by him to arrange a visit that neither of my children had any desire to passue. Following the visit, for about an hour they were both talking about their time with him like they had just survived a bank robbery or something similar. If I could have my wishes granted it would be any man or woman who lays their hands on a child or spouse should be put in prison and beaten with the cat-O-nine tails just as Christ was in the lead-up to his execution and then at their release have a tracking device in beaded into their skin in the small of their back where it would be impossible for them to remove it themselves and should they come in contact with children they would be given a shock the voltage of a stun gun to remind them that contact with people of that nature is prohibited as long as they live. Most criminals deserve a 2nd chance but domestic violence abusers and child abusers don't deserve mercy in this lifetime. that's between them and God not between them and the Law.