Lost Relationships

@gnatsmom (2564)
July 25, 2022 8:44pm CST
Sometimes, life is crappy. We lose people we love, not to death or injury, but simply to selfishness or sinful behavior. It is heartbreaking to love someone with all your heart and then they throw you away. You find out they were only manipulating or using you. Once the truth emerges, though, we find out that those people were toxic and did not have our best interest at heart. It is painful to lose people, but God sees the whole picture. He sees our heart. He hears all conversations and He knows people's motives. Sometime He removes people from our lives to protect us and keep us emotionally healthy.
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6 responses
26 Jul 22
My father was a very forgiving person and an idealist , always believing and seeing the best in people. When we lost him 13 years ago I also realized that I’m not like him and that I will not keep toxic people around me or my family (especially other family members). So I agree with you completely. Everything works out in the end and some people you just need to let go because your paths are not compatible anymore.
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@gnatsmom (2564)
26 Jul 22
I think keeping people around that purposely hurt and try to undermine is to invite trouble into our lives.
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@toniganzon (72517)
• Philippines
26 Jul 22
Sometimes it's necessary. Those people are gone for a reason. They can be toxic.
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@psanasangma (7281)
• India
26 Jul 22
I don't know whether Universal God remove them or not but I indeed blocked many people in my live and avoid when I feel it's not right to be around again and again as I do not like to blame others when things go wrong
@Laurakemunto (12862)
• Kenya
26 Jul 22
I agree with this . Some people just manipulate and want to use us in the name of love I hate it. Love is natural a nd doesn't force neither is it selfish.
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26 Jul 22
Yeah sometimes people teach you how life is work, we need to accept that even though it's hard
@gnatsmom (2564)
26 Jul 22
@DaddyEvil I have been on mylot for years. I have read the guidelines a couple of times. Just tell me what I did wrong cause I don't see anything I violated.
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@DaddyEvil (137498)
• United States
26 Jul 22
@gnatsmom As far as I know, you didn't do anything wrong... Sorry, I didn't mean to worry you. If you look, my comment is directed at a newbie on myLot. I give that greeting to everyone when they start on myLot, if I see them.
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@Eacey0 (2)
27 Jul 22
I love the people I love. No matter what they do, I won't regret it. If they hurt or use me, this is just what I have to experience.