Still I dont consider myself an emotional person.

@sjvg1976 (41281)

Delhi, India

July 28, 2022 9:15am CST

I don't know how we develop sentiments for others.

I never used to have emotions for online friends, I never thought them to be friends. But I see a change in myself nowadays.

I am worried about Jim as Yvonne is not well, I have not seen him on mylot recently.

I was worried for Rebecca (Ocean Tiara) as she was not well and was not here for several days. But now she is back

And of course for my dear friend DE who comes and goes because of his swelling eyes and for vany whom I feel must be battling with something as can't see her here much.

I always used to think through my mind but now from a few days, I have been thinking through the heart.

I don't know how my attitude getting changed.

I consider myself not to be an emotional person and I hate emotions.

What about you?

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@DaddyEvil (137257)

• United States

28 Jul 22

I always feel my online friends are just as much friends as offline friends... I worry when I don't see people I like for a while and am so happy to see them when they show up again. (I told you I was worried when you were gone for so long.

) I can't help it. The people I talk with on myLot are my friends... *shrug* I wouldn't change that if I could.

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@marlina (154131)

• Canada

29 Jul 22

I worry too.

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@DaddyEvil (137257)

• United States

29 Jul 22

@MarieCoyle I really don't have very many real life friends anymore. Most of them have passed away or I haven't seen them in years. (I have two friends who live in Springfield, about 45 miles away, but they won't get the Covid shots, so I don't go around them. Pretty and I are high risk. I talk with them on the phone once a month but that's it.) I talk with one of my sisters every few weeks and one of my brothers every few months and one niece when we have something interesting to say to each other. That's about it. Yeah, a lot of people on myLot are good friends. Have you met and talked with Sam? He's a lot of fun and already a good friend.

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@MarieCoyle (37110)

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29 Jul 22

I have great real life friends, like many do. Years ago when I started being online more, I became acquainted with some people I grew to consider wonderful friends. Met several of them over the years and became even better friends. People have their own reasons for either being receptive and caring toward places like this, or not. I consider many here to be kind, caring friends.

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@Marilynda1225 (82704)

• United States

28 Jul 22

I've been here on myLot for many years and have come to treasure the friendships I've made. I also worry about those who are missing and I hope Yvonne is okay. It's good to see Rebecca back too. I was also worried. Poor DE with all his eye problems.

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@sjvg1976 (41281)

• Delhi, India

28 Jul 22

I am also here for the last 12 years but never had any sort of attachment with the people but now I think differently.

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@Marilynda1225 (82704)

• United States

28 Jul 22

@sjvg1976 it's a great community and I've connected with many people who I think about and worry about etc.

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@sjvg1976 (41281)

• Delhi, India

28 Jul 22

@Marilynda1225 yes it is. But I am not connected with anyone here through apps like FB as I hesitate to ask for someone's FB ID.

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@allknowing (135953)

• India

29 Jul 22

I do not see DianneN. I have always interacted with her.

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@sjvg1976 (41281)

• Delhi, India

29 Jul 22

She seems to be busy with her family these days. I also like to interact with her and know more about Ice princess.

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@cacay1 (83406)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

30 Jul 22

I'm also affected if can't find Mylot friends here like @just4him, @DianneN, and more. I'm also missing them. Maybe they have reasons.

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@sjvg1976 (41281)

• Delhi, India

30 Jul 22

All of the people have reasons but I hate people who leave the site without knowing why they are going.

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@sjvg1976 (41281)

• Delhi, India

31 Jul 22

@cacay1 maybe. But they should make a post before leaving the site.

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@cacay1 (83406)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

31 Jul 22

@sjvg1976 maybe they informed others without others noticed for confidentiality.

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@ihasaquestion (8274)

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29 Jul 22

It is good to have emotions. That makes you a human with feelings.

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@sjvg1976 (41281)

• Delhi, India

29 Jul 22

I agree with it. Emotionless people are not humans but a machine.

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@cacay1 (83406)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

30 Jul 22

@sjvg1976, humans are vulnerables, regardless of race and status.

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@ihasaquestion (8274)

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29 Jul 22

@sjvg1976 Agree..

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Sam The Godfather

@DevMrSamEleazar (14058)

• Philippines

28 Jul 22

When @DaddyEvil is gone for 5days. I am worried in fact. But I just think positive that I just think Pretty ground him

so yea lets just hope for the best for those people who you mentioned.

Hmm so you dont want to have emotions? hmm like a cold person huh?

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@sjvg1976 (41281)

• Delhi, India

28 Jul 22

There is a reason behind it, sometimes you get over emotional and things get worse.

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Sam The Godfather

@DevMrSamEleazar (14058)

• Philippines

28 Jul 22

@sjvg1976 Yep, I can agree with you.

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@snowy22315 (180399)

• United States

28 Jul 22

Yes, it is hard not to worry about other mylotters. It shows you are human.

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@sjvg1976 (41281)

• Delhi, India

28 Jul 22

I used to think differently in the past.

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@RebeccasFarm (89831)

• Arvada, Colorado

29 Jul 22

Well I think we are all very close here and do of course worry for eachother. And we notice, thanks for noticing Sanjeev. I too am more logical than emotional though. I understand.

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@sjvg1976 (41281)

• Delhi, India

29 Jul 22

Glad to see you here. Yes we are all like a family.

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@sjvg1976 (41281)

• Delhi, India

31 Jul 22

@RebeccasFarm (89831)

• Arvada, Colorado

30 Jul 22

Always glad to see you Sanjeev

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@jstory07 (139504)

• Roseburg, Oregon

29 Jul 22

It is good to care about other people. A lot better than being hateful.

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@sica98 (2441)

• Malaysia

29 Jul 22

I agree with you

.Better to care than hate.

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@LadyDuck (471294)

• Switzerland

28 Jul 22

I was also worried for Ocean Tiara and I feel worried when a myLotter has health problems. Carol had surgery, I hope she is well.

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@sjvg1976 (41281)

• Delhi, India

29 Jul 22

I was also equally worried for mylotters. It hurts when people suddenly disappear with whom you interact daily.

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@sjvg1976 (41281)

• Delhi, India

29 Jul 22

@LadyDuck I know, I read her post, and hope she is doing fine now after the surgery.

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@LadyDuck (471294)

• Switzerland

29 Jul 22

@sjvg1976 Carol had a serious surgery, the doctor told her not to be online for several weeks. I hope she is fine.

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@JudyEv (339464)

• Rockingham, Australia

29 Jul 22

Once you've been here a few years and interacting with the same people, you can't help but worry about them when they go missing. It's good to see Tiara back on board but, like you and others, I worry about Yvonne.

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@sjvg1976 (41281)

• Delhi, India

29 Jul 22

Same with Carol and DianneN who are not here on the site these days.

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@sjvg1976 (41281)

• Delhi, India

31 Jul 22

@JudyEv she is back, you should read her latest post.

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@JudyEv (339464)

• Rockingham, Australia

31 Jul 22

@sjvg1976 Carol is getting over an operation so I'm sure she'll be back soon.

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Anindita Sengupta

@aninditasen (16377)

• Raurkela, India

29 Jul 22

I do believe in emotion and I do have to control them sometimes. I have developed a bond with friends here and love interacting with them.

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@sjvg1976 (41281)

• Delhi, India

29 Jul 22

That's good. Whom you consider being your good friends here.

@nitirrbb7 (4317)

• India

31 Jul 22

Yeah I am emotional and that makes me weaker at times to make decisions, it's part of being human.

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@sjvg1976 (41281)

• Delhi, India

31 Jul 22

That's what I wanted to say some people are emotional to an extent that their emotions dont let them take the right decision sometimes.

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@misunderstood_zombie (8142)

• United States

31 Jul 22

There are many people on this site that feel like friends.

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@sjvg1976 (41281)

• Delhi, India

31 Jul 22

Yes, that's true.

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@shaggin (72110)

• United States

17 Aug 22

I come and go when I have time but I do miss others and worry when they aren’t around. So nice the friendships we have developed here isn’t it!

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@shaggin (72110)

• United States

17 Aug 22

@sjvg1976 I would be so lost without this site to come too.

@sjvg1976 (41281)

• Delhi, India

17 Aug 22

True. There is sort of a bonding I have developed with the people over here.

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@Jenaisle (14078)

• Philippines

29 Jul 22

That's touching.

worrying about your MyLot friends. We do develop an attachment to persons whom we feel an emotional connection, especially if we're aware of their circumstances. I hope you're doing fine as well and having fun here on the site.

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@sjvg1976 (41281)

• Delhi, India

29 Jul 22

Thanks, hope I may not get over emotional. Hope you're doing fine.

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Anne Marie Guyer

@LeaPea2417 (37350)

• Toccoa, Georgia

29 Jul 22

I'm very emotional. Yes I care about my online friends.

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@Daljinder (23236)

• Bangalore, India

2 Aug 22

What is there to hate emotions for? Just embrace them. You will feel better.

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@sjvg1976 (41281)

• Delhi, India

4 Aug 22

@Daljinder yes I am learning it. I made a mistake and have got a lesson from it.

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@sjvg1976 (41281)

• Delhi, India

2 Aug 22

I hate emotions when I am going with it. Sometimes it happens we forget what is right, after being emotional.

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@Daljinder (23236)

• Bangalore, India

4 Aug 22

@sjvg1976 You are talking with someone who is ALL emotions.

With all these emotions, you learn to manage them as you grow with life experiences. When you forget what is right and do something that is not right, you learn from that mistake and try not to repeat it.

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@thelme55 (76890)

• Germany

31 Jul 22

I feel the same. Though I have only interact with them online, I still consider them friends. I learned how their lives are through interactions. I hope they are all fine.

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@sjvg1976 (41281)

• Delhi, India

31 Jul 22

It happens normally with people, they dont know much about their personal lives except what they know from the interactions on the site.

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@sica98 (2441)

• Malaysia

29 Jul 22

I might be new here but I like socializing here with many other mylot user including you Sanjeev.I don't seem to know everyone here that well but I'd like to get to know them over the time.

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@sjvg1976 (41281)

• Delhi, India

29 Jul 22

It's always good to interact with you here. We have one of my friends @Jlyn10 who's also from your country. She is busy in her offline life so doesn't come here much.