Respect in relationship
@Peterlight (64)
July 28, 2022 5:03pm CST
I found myself in an argument between my brother and his wife which I later found out that his wife went out with one of her old friend without telling my brother and which my brother later found out.
Meanwhile her old friend is a tall handsome fellow. My brother caught them in a expensive restaurant, laughing and blushing "lol" which actually got me wondering because they have been married for 5 years with 2 kids.
Well, to me I will want my wife to tell me when she is going out because the drama that happened between my brother and his wife has actually created a pot hole in the relationship and I am afraid they might divorce soon.
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@marguicha (223795)
• Chile
28 Jul 22
Do you tell your wife where you go all the time?
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@marguicha (223795)
• Chile
29 Jul 22
@Peterlight I did not ask my husband where he went and he did not ask me where I went. We were grown ups and we loved each other.
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@Peterlight (64)
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29 Jul 22
@marguicha that's love but look at the scenerio were he meets you laughing with another man in a restaurant and looking at the other man like you want him.. men do get extremely jealous, that's our nature.
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@Peterlight (64)
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29 Jul 22
I am not married but if my wife will be going out, I would like to know where she is going out to, and what the purpose is
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@Peterlight (64)
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29 Jul 22
I can't say but it will start from somewhere.. because why pick up a fight with him when she can simply apologize and let it settle
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
30 Jul 22
@Peterlight Maybe she didn’t have anything to apologize for.but it does sound suspicious.
@Fa_Maverick (9487)
• Australia
29 Jul 22
Two people that were old friends had dinner at a nice restaurant. If it was agreed upon that they would communicate about whenever they meet up with friends then I would say there was an issue if not I dont see an issue here. People can have crushes without needing a divorce it is part if human nature.
If he doesnt tell her every time he meets someone then it is a double standard and disrespectful to her. Not to mention if he accuses her of cheating without proof.
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@Peterlight (64)
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29 Jul 22
Well she actually woe a sexy clothe out that day which means it was planned
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@Ladanger (14578)
• United States
29 Jul 22
It becomes disrespectful when you are being sneaky about it. A person has all the right to suspect something. Now if she is gaslighting and making him feel like his feeling aren’t valid, that’s a sign to leave.
