It's time to have another kid

And no one knows the circumstances of others. Maybe that person is having problems conceiving. Maybe they miscarried. Maybe, just maybe, they are done, and don't want another child. It's no one else's business. I remember when I adopted my son. We had buried one baby, and I had 3 others. I had always wanted to adopt a child, but it had not worked out and I just thought it never would, had long given up the idea. So when he needed a home and fit so perfectly in to ours, it seemed meant to be. People would ask the rudest things, like what in the world are you thinking, isn't 3 enough, how do you know what kind of background he came from, or if he has any Negro blood (he doesn't, but who cares??) I finally snapped one day on a nosy busybody and told her it was none of her business. And it wasn't. He is a grown man now, he is my child, always will be. Some people just need to mind their own business. It's not their decision to make.

Yeah I know what you mean. One of the Filipino culture I do not like

Yes, it is typical for older people to make jokes about having additional children, especially with young couples. They frequently emphasize that you need more blessings in your life, which I believe is because they believe children are a gift from heaven. However, in reality, they can be a burden, particularly in terms of costs.

You can always use humor and say "Sure if they are willing to shoulder the expense for the child's upbringing."

This case is very normal likewise in our culture.Lots of friends or relatives or workmates like inquire about other's things,and give advices regardless of other's will,though it's none of their business.I think you don't have to be upset about this case,just ignore it,live you own life.Make a sensible decision by youself.