Picky Eating and Autism?

Rupert, Idaho
August 5, 2022 12:30am CST
I read earlier in a Facebook group that I am part of for picky eaters that someone was diagnosed with autism and ADHD while being an extremely picky eater. I never thought of picky eating being a part of autism. My husband however has wondered if I was autistic though because of how I am in other ways. But I am extremely picky with eating. I have problems with textures of foods, especially fruits and vegetables. Also the smell of a lot of vegetables bother me to the point they make me nauseated. So when my endocrinologist says just eat them anyway...my mind is just saying I can't do that. Just never thought they were connected before
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@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
5 Aug 22
There is evidence that picky eating in children is part of the signs of autism. There's been no scientific testing to see if that still holds in an adult's life... but I can see where it could. Have you thought about talking with a doctor about it? Maybe they can shed some light on the subject for you.
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• Rupert, Idaho
5 Aug 22
Well in the past it was always just thought of something a child would grow out of. For me, I never did. I have extreme anxiety so I don't talk to my doctor about anything....I hate going to appointments and talk the least I have to....so asking about that is a no
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@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
5 Aug 22
@MommyOfEli2013 True, it still is considered something children will grow out of... Oh, I'm sorry about that. I didn't like talking with a doctor, either, but my daughter is willing to talk about my problems with my doctor and is helping me get treatment for things I didn't realize could be treated.
• Rupert, Idaho
5 Aug 22
@DaddyEvil and some will for sure.....but I guess when something else is going on that don't happen. I always wondered why I was "different". It is okay, I am used to it....just know I must live with my anxiety, depression, and now possibly this? They aren't killing me so I don't see them as something that I have to take care of right this second. That's good that she will talk to them about your issues and you can get help that way. My husband will sometimes, but sometimes I feel too embarrassed and don't want him to bring them up
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@LadyDuck (471498)
• Switzerland
5 Aug 22
I know that I have your same problem with food, but I am sure I am not autistic.
@LadyDuck (471498)
• Switzerland
6 Aug 22
@MommyOfEli2013 It is possible that the two things may be connected.
• Rupert, Idaho
6 Aug 22
Well could just be picky eating too...just read about the two of them being connected sometimes
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• Rupert, Idaho
6 Aug 22
@LadyDuck Yes, it is for sure. But I am not going to say I am without being diagnosed. However, I won't go get diagnosed either lol
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@JESSY3236 (19941)
• United States
9 Aug 22
I'm a picky eater. I was diagnosed with mild cerebral palsy and being on the autism spectrum.
• Rupert, Idaho
10 Aug 22
I am sorry to hear that... I am glad to know I am not the only picky eater out there, I always thought I was weird because of that...but it seems more common
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@LindaOHio (178869)
• United States
5 Aug 22
Only a trained physician can tell if your picky eating is connected to something else.
@LindaOHio (178869)
• United States
6 Aug 22
@MommyOfEli2013 It was interesting. I just want you to get the best care that you can get.
• Rupert, Idaho
7 Aug 22
@LindaOHio Well I am not going to talk to a doctor about it because I don't see me ever trying the foods I don't like and I am still functioning. I just wondered what other people thought on the subject
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• Rupert, Idaho
6 Aug 22
Alright. Just thought it was an interesting subject. Sorry if it is not
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• Defuniak Springs, Florida
5 Aug 22
A lot of times the picky eating that comes along with Autism is because of textures of foods, which would make sense in your case.
• Rupert, Idaho
6 Aug 22
Yes, I have read into that....and texture is a big thing for me with food
@MarieCoyle (37610)
5 Aug 22
I have a friend who has an autistic grandson. He started out in life underweight and skinny. His parents let him eat whatever he wanted, he now only eats junk--and I mean junk. He lives on chips, french fries, fast food nuggets and cheeseburgers, mac and cheese, and cookies. That's all he ever wants and if he doesn't get that, he throws a massive fit and throws things all over the house. Almost all of his anger issues seem to be about food, what he wants and when he wants it. The main problem with this eating is he is now absolutely huge, he weighs close to 300#. And when he throws an angry fit over not getting what foods he wants, you know it. He has broken windows and doors and his dad's arm. He is 16 and just gets bigger and bigger from this diet of junk. He can be so sweet, but when he doesn't get what he wants, you don't want to be there. My friend is sad because she is a small woman, and can't stay with him anymore by herself as he is hard to handle. There are many, many forms and degrees of autism, and many people know way more about it than I do. Some people never get properly diagnosed, as they don't follow the pattern people have seen. Problems with textures are fairly common in all people, most have at least one texture they can't stand. So is it only cooked vegetables that you hate so much, or can you eat raw ones, like carrot sticks? Just curious. How do you manage vegetables for your family? Do they hate them, too? I know some families like mine love them, and some hate them.
• Rupert, Idaho
5 Aug 22
That sounds like my diet growing up....though I don't know that I ever threw fits about it. However it did affect my weight and health. Sorry to hear that though.... I do know there are lots of kinds, and degrees and all that...I am still very functioning if I am. But I do not like change one bit, and like things to be a certain way, etc....not "perfect" like a perfectionist but just a certain way. And pretty much the only vegetable I can stand are potatoes. I don't like them cooked verses raw or vice versa...I just can't stand it at all. Not sure why potatoes are different. I've tried things that people said were similar and couldn't eat them. For my husband and son? They are not too picky....but we really don't eat them at home. My son gets them at school and when he eats at his grandparents.
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• Rupert, Idaho
6 Aug 22
@MarieCoyle Well I wasn't saying I was like him...just that it sounded like my diet. Having severe autism would not be very fun, I imagine. I never imagined having it myself, and I may not...just know that I have some "symptoms". The vitamins are important, but don't need to eat vegetables to get them. There are vitamin supplements and I take electrolytes and if I drink/eat things with Keto chow I get all the vitamins I need
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@MarieCoyle (37610)
5 Aug 22
@MommyOfEli2013 This young man has many problems, he is in special education in school, and his mother brings his lunch to him every day to try to keep him from throwing things in the school lunch room. I kid you not. He won't ever be able to live alone, manage money, hold a job...he just won't. You are not like him. Like I said, and I know you are very aware, there are many degrees of autism, his is severe. I just wish he had not just been given only those foods, for so long, and didn't ever even try other foods. But it's not my business, I just hear about it all from my friend who is frustrated she can't be of more help to him. The vitamins we get from vegetables are important, but I am sure you've heard that, too. I take vitamins and such to make up for any lacks from day to day, but for the most part I keep it balanced if at all possible. Some days with appointments and commitments, it's kind of hard.
@TishaMears (1026)
• United States
5 Aug 22
My daughter is autistic and I suffer from bi-polar disorder. So I understand what you're going through. I was a picky eater as well when I was growing up but I did kind of outgrow it. As for the depression, I have my ups and downs as well. Fortunately, my daughter actually didn't have the common "picky eater" vibes as a child. There are different levels and symptoms of being autistic. One key thing that I do know is sensitivity issues. And since you expressed that you do realize that textures and things may offend you and such with food, This may be a symptom. I see that you've gotten other good advice from people here about consulting a doctor. I hope that you will follow up with that advice.
• Rupert, Idaho
6 Aug 22
Sorry that you both deal with issues....but it is good to know I am not the only one. Yes, I do know there are many different types/degrees of autism. But yes sensitivity and issues with textures and such is a big thing for me.... I probably won't talk to a doctor about it because of my severe anxiety
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