Past Loves ...... Significance...

I don't think I would have a problem with it for the fact that I still keep in touch with most of my ex's. It would be wrong of me to get mad at them if I am doing the same thing. Plus as long as he is not cheating on me i really don't care who he talks to.

The only time I think that would be completely acceptable is if they had a child together. If not, move on

i think it is nice for a partner to be able to keep memories,pictures,ticket stubs and the like,,,they valued that time in their lives and they were made into the person you have now,,why would anyone want to change that,,personally i think that only jealousy makes some people discard there partners possessions,that and being insecure but it is someones life thay are throwing away,,to do that would mean that part was worthless and that is never so,,good bad ,ugly ,,all memories are valid and should be treated as such.

if this is the case, marriage life will get a severe hit

IT DEPENDS. THEY CAN BE JUST GOOD FRIENDS. IT OFFEND ME IF HE HIDES IT.

THERE ARE TWO THINGS MY MAN CAN DO TO HURT ME, AND ONE IS TO LIE TO ME. I JUST FEEL THIS INTENSE PAIN RIPPING MY HEART OUT WHEN I FOUND OUT THAT I AVE BEEN LIED TO. THE TRUTH WILL HURT SOMETIMES BUT I THINK ITS EASIER TO DEAL WITH THE PROBLEM THAN COVER IT UP. THAT WHEN IT WILL HARM YOU.

I am married and I still have cards and pictures from my past relationships. I really am not sure why I keep them. Pictures I will keep but I could probably toss all the cards and letters. I don't think my hubby has ever found them. If he has he hasn't said anything. i would feel kinda hurt if I found old letters and cards from his exes. So I probably should throw them out soon!

all have certain moments nad memories...so its ok.

talking about urself?

My now Husband threw all pictures from his ex away - I still keep pictures (no letters or cards) and I refuse to throw them away. My past loves are part of who I am today but they are not playing any role in my todays life