Relationship Partner
@Peterlight (64)
August 7, 2022 12:41pm CST
I have been a toxic relationship before and I almost lost my mind because she actually made me to hate ladies. She would actually frustrate my life especially when I don't have money to give to her, she would go out with other dudes and tell me they are just friends and I keep on meeting them in a very odd position.
Having a partner in a relationship is to become one, fall in love and make sacrifices for eachother but not in our relationship, she would want me to do insane things for her but, she will never do anything for me. It felt like I am the only one in the relationship.
For those who have experience in relationship, how should a relationship feel like?
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@flapiz (23148)
• United Kingdom
8 Aug 22
@Peterlight Well if she cannot give it then she is not worth it.
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@gtdoss (1013)
• United States
7 Aug 22
Yes, I have experienced a toxic relationship like this very far back into the past. It made me very distrustful of men. But then I made a list of the attributes a man should have to be in a relationship with me. There was nothing about good looks or anything like that. It was all about how they should treat me, their personality, and their kindness. After I made that list, I met my husband, who fit all of the criteria, and we've been happily married for 26 years!
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@Peterlight (64)
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8 Aug 22
Congratulations... I wish you many years to come , I just wish I find someone I can spend my life with
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@kaylachan (69714)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
8 Aug 22
If you feel its toxic get out, it's not worth it. Relationships should not make you feel less of yourself.
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@Peterlight (64)
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7 Aug 22
Not really but going to an extreme length to please her financial and bed wise but it seems she is not satisfied with anything
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@askme123 (6150)
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7 Aug 22
@Peterlight Well you need to get yourself financially stable and then start dating again.
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@Greencindere (669)
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7 Aug 22
Depends on what a person needs or expects from the relationship. In any case it shouldn’t make you feel less than like yours did so good riddance!
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@Peterlight (64)
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7 Aug 22
I don't feel like we should expect much from relationship after having someone that is loving and caring because I don't see anything more serious than that
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