Have you ever fell in love with your bestfriend?

August 15, 2022 6:32pm CST
When i was 12 i have this male bestfriend that i look up a lot, we have realy good bond, so much in common, and we do fun together always... but the problem is i look to him as a BROTHER to me! But he not see me the same, he buried his feeling for 3 years and confessed to me like, i NEVER even think he would like me, im so scared that being in relationship with him will ruin our friendship that we build, so i reject him... Well i told him already... and the response kinda make me sad and dissapointed, he never the same person i see when i was 12 til now, he never talk to me, text me, call me, even to say hello... that suck because i adore him but i never cross my line to build that such relationship, i just have not the same feeling for him... Well i wish him well...
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@jstory07 (139508)
• Roseburg, Oregon
16 Aug 22
That is sad but you did the best thing for you.
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@ScotMac (1335)
• Edinburgh, Scotland
16 Aug 22
Sometimes it's hard to know what's best for both of you
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16 Aug 22
I think the same
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@RebeccasFarm (89832)
• Arvada, Colorado
16 Aug 22
Well I was very young so it was not actually falling in love but I thought it was. He was a great friend in school.
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16 Aug 22
:(
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
21 Aug 22
Sad to know it. He lost a good friend for his feelings. I had many friends but I never had been good bond with anyone like you had.
• Nairobi, Kenya
17 Aug 22
I have never had a male best friend but if he cut you off you should just accept it. You will meet other new friends in the future.
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• Nairobi, Kenya
17 Aug 22
@Natalie3126 maybe in future he will understand and maybe he will reach out to you.
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17 Aug 22
I accept it, we didnt even see each other again after that, its kinda sad tho
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17 Aug 22
@Hildasalom its been 5 years now, hope he doing fine now
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@ScotMac (1335)
• Edinburgh, Scotland
16 Aug 22
Yes - it did not end well.
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16 Aug 22
Exactly
@sica98 (2441)
• Malaysia
21 Aug 22
That's real sad to hear about your story you just told.It must be really hard losing a friend that way.