Feeling Heartbroken
@cacay1 (84140)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
August 19, 2022 1:30am CST
After feeling happy of the differential I received, entered the unexpected feeling of loneliness. I'm lonely this moment, i fact I shed my tears can't help it. What is the reason behind?
Because we're on WFH, on online classes I don't know what's going on with my co teachers. I've just learned awhile ago that 2 of my colleagues resigned from work. They're full time regular faculty with standard rate as Ph.D's. They're now teaching in Arizona , United States. They left August 16. My heads were shocked.
They applied teaching direct to the school management at Miami High School. Please if you're from Arizona do check them there. One is Liz Mortola Barangot,
28 years old, MA in Physics and the other one Fiona Mary Cabrillos , Ph. D in Mathematics. Dr. Cabrillos brought with her her family husband and 2 kids.
They have shown to us their classroom very cosy nice, clean, wide. Hoping they won't experience Hate Crime Lord, protect them. Is there here from Arizona?
Image shown here their classroom in Miami High School.
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@sjvg1976 (41627)
• Delhi, India
20 Aug 22
@jefferson126 We are not paid here as per the work we do. In the US and Europe, people are paid better.
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@jefferson126 (3365)
• Shenzhen, China
20 Aug 22
@sjvg1976,that's true,most of people change job for higher salary or better future.I also wanna work in Europe if having a satisfactory job.
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@DaddyEvil (141219)
• United States
19 Aug 22
Why would they experience hate crimes in Arizona? I don't understand.
I have family in Arizona.
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@DaddyEvil (141219)
• United States
19 Aug 22
@yoalldudes Hmm... maybe? But I haven't heard of anything like that since the US claimed the pandemic was over.
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@cacay1 (84140)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 Aug 22
@DaddyEvil it's always on news.
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@yoalldudes (35035)
• Philippines
19 Aug 22
Perhaps because of the videos earlier this year or late last year about attacks to asian in the streets and commute etc mostly with chinese eyes or something like that
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@cacay1 (84140)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Aug 22
@LadyDuck, Liz went ahead for a matter of 2 weeks. Fiona followed after. She was allowed to bring her family. She has 2 kids. Her husband is A PE teacher and Miami High school promised him employment next term for there are 2 Miami high school teachers to retire.
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@yoalldudes (35035)
• Philippines
19 Aug 22
I feel so jealous. My dream when I was young was to move abroad but I didnt succeed. But now I am finding contentmment to where I am. I am happy that you have good relations with your coworker.
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@cacay1 (84140)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 Aug 22
@yoalldudes we're all having good relations in the faculty. They're still young Liz 28 Fion 34.
@Butterfingers (66607)
• India
19 Aug 22
There is nothing to feel sad about and they are doing well applying for a better job and pay
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@cacay1 (84140)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 Aug 22
@Butterfingers, this feeling is just temporary. We still connect thru Facebook.
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@cacay1 (84140)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Aug 22
@jefferson126 yes, we did the group chat this morning. They're still adjusting.
@jefferson126 (3365)
• Shenzhen, China
20 Aug 22
@cacay1 ,that's the point yous still can connect each other,it means they were still with you.
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@snowy22315 (185069)
• United States
20 Aug 22
I know you will miss your friends, but I am sure they will be fine.
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@snowy22315 (185069)
• United States
23 Aug 22
@cacay1 Good, don't worry abou them, they will be fine.
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@cacay1 (84140)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Aug 22
@snowy22315 yes, you're so right. I'm at ease now. 
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@cacay1 (84140)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Aug 22
@snowy22315, liz messaged me this morning she said she's okay.
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@allknowing (140561)
• India
20 Aug 22
Seems you were so attached to those teachers that you miss them.
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@cacay1 (84140)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Aug 22
@allknowing yes, Liz is also living in the same place where I live aside from being a co teacher. The other one is also close to me. We do exchange gifts every Christmas 
. I missed Fiona the most.
. I missed Fiona the most.2 people like this
@cacay1 (84140)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Aug 22
@jefferson126 
I doubt if we could still do. She might not like it anymore m
I doubt if we could still do. She might not like it anymore m@jefferson126 (3365)
• Shenzhen, China
20 Aug 22
@cacay1 ,No worries,you can exchange gifts with them at Christmas all the same.Now express service can reach all over the corner of world
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@RebeccasFarm (91963)
• Arvada, Colorado
20 Aug 22
My bad sister lives in Arizona..they will be absolutely fine there.
No worries of hate crime.
Yes, I can imagine you were shocked.
I am here for you Erly, do not be lonely.
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@cacay1 (84140)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Aug 22
@RebeccasFarm, thanks my friend. I'm happy that they're safe in Arizona.
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@jobelbojel (36450)
• Philippines
19 Aug 22
All the best for them in the US.
Did they keep it a secret that they are leaving?
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@jobelbojel (36450)
• Philippines
20 Aug 22
@cacay1 That's always the reason why people in the workforce secretly plan for resignation. I believe the head will understand their reason for leaving the school.
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@cacay1 (84140)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Aug 22
@jobelbojel, yes, for there are also many qualified candidates awaiting. There are many new teachers in our department now almost 13 and haven't met them yet. I saw them during our zoom. There are many huge 'dambuhala' teachers almost all the new ones
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@cacay1 (84140)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Aug 22
@jobelbojel, yes, they're so secretive. They're afraid the school heads won't allow, plus they just waited for the bonuses to be released. The last is the differential. It's their parents to receive or withdraw it. They only submitted their resignation when work visa and plane tickets were on hand, so they can't accept the resistance.They submitted it August 16 and many were shocked and sad.
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
19 Aug 22
I'm sorry you feel lonely, pray and ask God to take care of this:) And he will!
Half the news you hear, isn't even the truth. I know this is a fact.
Half the news you hear, isn't even the truth. I know this is a fact.1 person likes this
@cacay1 (84140)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Aug 22
@kobesbuddy, I'm so glad all those news on hate crimes fake. Yes, we pray here for their safe journey and destination in Arizona.
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@cacay1 (84140)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Aug 22
@kobesbuddy is your husband 5th from left or right. This time many fabricate stories just to garner viewers. Thanks for the clarification.
@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
20 Aug 22
@cacay1 Those reports on the news are usually lies, to get people upset! Have you seen my husband? He gets treated good, wherever we go:) Jay is #5 in this row of bikers.
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@oahuwriter (26777)
• United States
19 Aug 22
You miss your colleagues, that transferred....
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@cacay1 (84140)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 Aug 22
@oahuwriter, yes, so much. We're so excited to meet together f2f come September 2 for the face to face classes.
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@oahuwriter (26777)
• United States
20 Aug 22
@cacay1
Nice. I'm sure your friends miss you too.
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@cacay1 (84140)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Aug 22
@oahuwriter we had a group chat this morning and they said they felt nostalgic.
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@jefferson126 (3365)
• Shenzhen, China
19 Aug 22
It sounds your colleagues jump from one job to another better job,there always are job-hopping happening among my colleagues,some of them jumped to better company.Honestly i also want a job-hopping,but i was mid-aged now,at this age,people no longer fit a job-hopping.I have to stay put until company laid off me or i retired.
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@cacay1 (84140)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 Aug 22
@jefferson126 , agree with that. It's not good unless the intention is to tour not work. My vo teachers are still young Liz 28 and Fion 34. With her , her hubby and 2 kids so she won't feel nostalgic. As for me I'm afraid to venture far.
@averygirl72 (38401)
• Philippines
25 Aug 22
I'm impressed they are able to teach in the US. I hope no hate crime
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@cacay1 (84140)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Aug 22
@averygirl72, they apply direct to the school administrators.
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@aninditasen (16658)
• Raurkela, India
19 Aug 22
Hope everything goes fine with them. Try to enjoy your online classes.
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@cacay1 (84140)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Aug 22
@aninditasen, thanks so much. We're now on face to face classes
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@cacay1 (84140)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Aug 22
@aninditasen, yes, you're so right.
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@aninditasen (16658)
• Raurkela, India
20 Aug 22
@cacay1 That's nice. You can now enjoy the company of both your colleagues and students too.
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@ketinaharriet (397)
• Nairobi, Kenya
19 Aug 22
It's all about putting then in prayers and another thing fear can make us not archive things in life
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@cacay1 (84140)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Aug 22
@ketinaharriet, yes prayers are the best instrument for safety and protection. Thanks Ket.
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