I just can't be fudged being myself anymore!
@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
Perth, Australia
August 21, 2022 6:47am CST
I don't even want to tell you all that's being going on. Let's just say, I've been hurt in a major way, again. Please don't ask. And maybe this is a phase but I just feel like making changes. Some positive, some negative and just changes.
It's like my brain keeps saying "Well, you have been this way this whole time and look where it's got you!" 
Like "Bye Danielle." Did anyone ever see the movie "Falling Down" with Michael Douglas? It's like that feeling only way less....violent.
Anyway blah blah blah, I have a question and in all honesty, I will probably do this anyway but I am thinking of going blonde. So I would LOVE people's opinions. I have attached a photo of me (you can see someone there sorry, she's an ex friend, true spawn of Satan she is) anyway judging from this photo with my brown hair, do you think, blonde will be ok for me?
I ask because, I usually suck at deciding these type of things for myself. Like I said, will probably just do it anyway but advice and opinions is something I always welcome. Especially if you have a knack for beauty things.
So thank you in advance and if there are any other tips regarding hair, I thank you for it!
As far as what's been going on? I may explain another time. I just feel I don't want to be "Danielle" right now!
****photo is of moi****
Like "Bye Danielle." Did anyone ever see the movie "Falling Down" with Michael Douglas? It's like that feeling only way less....violent.
Anyway blah blah blah, I have a question and in all honesty, I will probably do this anyway but I am thinking of going blonde. So I would LOVE people's opinions. I have attached a photo of me (you can see someone there sorry, she's an ex friend, true spawn of Satan she is) anyway judging from this photo with my brown hair, do you think, blonde will be ok for me?
I ask because, I usually suck at deciding these type of things for myself. Like I said, will probably just do it anyway but advice and opinions is something I always welcome. Especially if you have a knack for beauty things.
So thank you in advance and if there are any other tips regarding hair, I thank you for it!
As far as what's been going on? I may explain another time. I just feel I don't want to be "Danielle" right now!
****photo is of moi****18 people like this
21 responses
@RebeccasFarm (89832)
• Arvada, Colorado
21 Aug 22
I think you'd be stunning as a blonde Dani!
Hairdresser here..of course, only if I were to do it for you
I am sorry for whatever happened Dani
I am sorry for whatever happened Dani5 people like this
@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
1 Sep 22
@RebeccasFarm aw thank you kindly for your whole comment! I would so love to have you do it! That would be so cool!
Thank you. I truly appreciate that!
I truly appreciate that!3 people like this
@much2say (55507)
• Los Angeles, California
21 Aug 22
You are so cute, Dani! Change can be a good thing - a new look can help perk things up 
! I personally don't color my hair, not even to cover the grays, but I do like trying out new cuts. That is, if I ever do (my hair is super long now). Maybe time for change for me too 
.
! I personally don't color my hair, not even to cover the grays, but I do like trying out new cuts. That is, if I ever do (my hair is super long now). Maybe time for change for me too .2 people like this
@much2say (55507)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Sep 22
@VivaLaDani13 So did you do it ???
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
3 Sep 22
@much2say haha nah not yet. I am waiting for a little bit as it's not going to be cheap. I will let you all know when I do it.
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@Torunn (8607)
• Norway
21 Aug 22
How blonde do you want to go?
If you just go blonder, no need to worry, I think that'll be fine. But if you want to try the really blonde, nearly white or the other trendy one, the nearly grey, I would try a wig or maybe some photoshopping first. I've got students with the nearly greyish blonde. One some it's striking in a good way, on others it's not.
But if you know someone with good photoshop-skills, you could try all of it first. Or maybe the hairdresser has something like that?
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@Torunn (8607)
• Norway
1 Sep 22
@VivaLaDani13 That's a not too blonde blonde, I think that should work.
And a good hairdresser can probably adjust the tone so it suits you. I'd say try it and see what happens. If it really doesn't work for you, you can colour in some other colour :-)
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
1 Sep 22
@Torunn Not too blonde. I don't want it to be bright and like that almost white looking kind. I found a picture of that actress Rachel Mcadams (I will attach it) and I was thinking that sort of blonde.
I would love to try on a wig or try some photoshop thing first if possible. I for sure will have a serious talk with a hairdresser first too before I decide. I'm nervous and excited. I have had honey blonde hair before. I keep looking at that photo to see if I can pull off a different blonde.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Aug 22
I'm sorry for whatever happened and I will keep you in my prayers. Ill be praying for healing over your heart.
I think you're beautiful either way!
I think you're beautiful either way!2 people like this
@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
1 Sep 22
@LovingMyBabies Thank you so much Jennifer. That's so sweet of you, truly!
And thank you again! I appreciate your sweet comments!
That's so sweet of you, truly!
And thank you again! I appreciate your sweet comments!2 people like this
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
1 Sep 22
@VivaLaDani13 You're very welcome, you're always in my prayers!
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
7 Sep 22
@CarolDM I am glad you're still just getting better and better. You've been in my thoughts.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
6 Sep 22
@CarolDM Thank you kindly for that. Been a bit rough. And I agree with you. Will just change it if I don't like it.
How are you doing?
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
6 Sep 22
@VivaLaDani13 Better. Still recovering from my surgery but getting stronger every day. A few setbacks but i will get there. Thanks for asking.
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@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
26 Aug 22
Anything would turn bad for no one is perfect. But it's not permanent. I know no one wants that forever.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
1 Sep 22
@Nakitakona I'm so sorry but could you please explain what you mean by your comment? Just so I can make sure I understand what you mean. 
I think I understand but I want to understand completely out of respect.
I think I understand but I want to understand completely out of respect. 2 people like this
@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
6 Sep 22
@Nakitakona oh I see. Thank you for explaining. That is very true.
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@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
2 Sep 22
@VivaLaDani13 It's simple. Everything has a chance to be corrected or rectified. This, we learn from our mistakes.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
21 Aug 22
Honestly I think you are already beautiful just the way you are but you can try or experiment going blond anyway it's temporary.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
1 Sep 22
@louievill aw thank you so so much! 
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
21 Aug 22
I don't think of you as 'a brunette' (and I won't think of you as 'a blonde' or 'a ginger' or 'a grey-head' or 'a white-haired' or a 'blue/purple/orange/pink/whatever-color-you-choose'). Focus on 'making the world more the way you like it,' and any personal changes you feel like making will seem "necessary."
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
1 Sep 22
@mythociate Thank you kindly for your answer. I definitely have changes to make that are very necessary. So that is true. It's just something I would like to do also. For a big change.
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@1creekgirl (41387)
• United States
22 Aug 22
Bless your heart. If you don't want to go full into blond, maybe some blond highlights to see how you like it? Whatever happened, you keep being you.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
1 Sep 22
@1creekgirl Blonde highlights are nice too. I have done that before and loved it so it's definitely another option. Thank you so much for your caring comment too. I really appreciate that!
Was your grandson able to start school?
Was your grandson able to start school?2 people like this
@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
1 Sep 22
@JudyEv Thank you Judy for your caring comment and compliment.
I would love to try on a blonde wig as that would help me. I have been honey blonde before so I sort of know what I would look like. But a wig would be great to really see. Thank you so much.
I would love to try on a blonde wig as that would help me. I have been honey blonde before so I sort of know what I would look like. But a wig would be great to really see. Thank you so much. 2 people like this
@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
23 Aug 22
For those to whom you matter, it wouldn't matter even if you go bald and get horrible tattoos! (Kidding, don't ruin your beautiful skin. Gives me horripilation, in a bad way! 
)
)2 people like this
@Treborika (17661)
• Mombasa, Kenya
30 Jan 23
I guess this is your amazing photo.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
30 Jan 23
@Treborika That is me. Thank you kindly.
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@Treborika (17661)
• Mombasa, Kenya
30 Jan 23
@VivaLaDani13 Your so much beautiful
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@Treborika (17661)
• Mombasa, Kenya
23 Jan 23
I am so sorry for that. I too dislike being Hurt
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
24 Jan 23
@Treborika Thank you kindly for your comment. Yes, being hurt can be too much sometimes. It hurts more when it comes from people who are supposed to love you and take care of you.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
24 Jan 23
@Treborika How do you handle it when someone hurts you? 
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@Treborika (17661)
• Mombasa, Kenya
24 Jan 23
@VivaLaDani13 It's very disappointing to me too
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@popciclecold (38586)
• United States
21 Aug 22
I won't ask,but we all feel like that at times.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
1 Sep 22
@popciclecold Thank you for your comment. I completely agree with you there.
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@jstory07 (139494)
• Roseburg, Oregon
22 Sep 22
@VivaLaDani13 No problem I hope you do good in your life.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
22 Sep 22
@jstory07 Thank you Judy. I really appreciate your comment.
I really appreciate your comment.1 person likes this
@moffittjc (121540)
• Gainesville, Florida
6 Sep 22
Of course you should give it a try! You may love it. Or you may not. But you’ll never know unless you do it! And besides, you’ll probably look really cute as a blonde!
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@moffittjc (121540)
• Gainesville, Florida
13 Sep 22
@VivaLaDani13 Send me a pic when you finally do it!
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
13 Sep 22
@moffittjc Very true! I have wanted to try it for a very long time. I will when I get a bit more extra money.
Aww thank you. I mean, I hope so! 
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@JESSY3236 (19914)
• United States
6 Sep 22
Sorry of what you are going through. I think blonde would be great on you. Your are pretty anyway. I have dyed my hair blond, strawberry blond, red, and now I have been dying it purple.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
22 Sep 22
@JESSY3236 Thank you kindly for your comment.
I like all the different colours you've tried! I'm sure all looked amazing on you.
I like all the different colours you've tried! I'm sure all looked amazing on you.1 person likes this
@Treborika (17661)
• Mombasa, Kenya
26 Jan 23
It's very disappointing when the people that are supposed to give you some support are the ones that are drawing you back. I hate this so much. I too have experienced this multiple times
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
26 Jan 23
@Treborika I 100% agree with you! Well said!
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@Treborika (17661)
• Mombasa, Kenya
26 Jan 23
@VivaLaDani13 I consider this as so awfully
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@2ndchances24 (8782)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
20 Apr
I think a blond or red would look good either 1 would be a good
look & even change up the way you feel too, who knows? try it.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
25 Apr
@2ndchances24 Thank you for your feedback. I thought about it the other day actually about going red but I will have to do it later on.
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@2ndchances24 (8782)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
25 Apr
@VivaLaDani13 You go red & put a temper
with it & people will certainly take notice.
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