Why do people leave the church before the priest?

@peachpurple (13961)
Malaysia
September 24, 2022 7:09am CST
I had just attended the evening saturday mass at our local church, Church of Immaculate Conception. At the end of the mass, when the priest said Go In Peace, i see people started to leave the church before the priest. Isn't it rude ? It should be proper to allow the priest to leave the church as he is the head, he leads the prayer. We should respect him. I believed those people were hurrying for dinner and beat the traffic jam ! Would you do that ? Why?
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@LadyDuck (471989)
• Switzerland
24 Sep 22
No, it is not rude, from the moment the Priest says "Go in peace" we can leave the church.
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@peachpurple (13961)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 22
Oic. Thanks.
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@sjvg1976 (41289)
• Delhi, India
24 Sep 22
Most people are in hurry these days. They don't want to waste a minute that's why they go before the priest.
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@peachpurple (13961)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 22
Yeah, i agree with you 100%, they are in hurry for dinner
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@RebeccasFarm (90294)
• Arvada, Colorado
25 Sep 22
Hmm I do not recall ever doing that.
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@peachpurple (13961)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 22
Me neither
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@josie_ (10032)
• Philippines
24 Sep 22
If you want to wait until the priest change from his liturgical garments into street clothes.
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@peachpurple (13961)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 22
Ha ha ha, you are cute
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29 Sep 22
It's custom and tradition that priests or pastors stay behind or are the last ones to go. Sometimes, parishioners or church goers wait for people to leave when they need to talk to their pastor or priest for some prayer or counseling.
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@peachpurple (13961)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 22
Oic, thanks for explaining to me
• Philippines
24 Sep 22
we do go out while the pastor is on the front door greeting us and saying goodbye it is normal I guess?
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@peachpurple (13961)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 22
Yes but after the pastor is out first
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• Philippines
1 Oct 22
@peachpurple well I guess that is what yall doing there? idk?
@popciclecold (39461)
• United States
24 Sep 22
People are in a big hurry all the time.
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@peachpurple (13961)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 22
Yeah, people are in hurry, no patience
@shaggin (72183)
• United States
2 Oct 22
Maybe they aren’t aware of the custom to let the priest go first. I would have taken what he said literally and left to
@crossbones27 (49703)
• Mojave, California
24 Sep 22
That is interesting maybe they just wanted a quick word with god without the sermon.
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@peachpurple (13961)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 22
Yeah i think so too
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@FourWalls (68884)
• United States
24 Sep 22
I heard a minister say, “How do we sit in here listening to Christian love then try to kill one another in the parking lot trying to get out?” It’s funny about that, in a sad way, isn’t it. We have a lot of sports facilities here, and (except in Los Angeles, where it’s almost a tradition to come late and leave early) you don’t see people leaving early. No, they’ll come 2-3 hours before a football game (our football, not soccer) and “tailgate,” then they’ll stay after the game and celebrate. Only when it’s a “blowout” might people leave early. But they can’t give God 45 minutes?
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@peachpurple (13961)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 22
Yeah, why cant they spend more time with God? Evrryone will meet Him one day, not the games
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