My "payment" for helping my Nanny....

Perth, Australia
September 26, 2022 11:19pm CST
Hello everyone. Hope you're all doing well. I'm using today to catch up more on MyLot. I'm still here everyday, but not always active. The other day, my dad and I went to my Nanny's house. She needed help moving things around and cleaning some shelves that were too low for her. As my Poppy isn't living with her anymore, she is using this time to go through things and get rid of things she doesn't need or use. I'm glad she asked me if I could help her because I didn't want her going on the ground so low to bring all these heavy things out. So I brought everything out, wiped down the shelves and put back what she wanted to keep. She kept saying to me that she would give me money. I told her "No thank you, it was a quick job but either way I don't want you to pay me for helping." To that we had about a 10 minute friendly argument about it. She is sweet to offer but I didn't want money for helping her. I couldn't! My dad then entered the room and was going through something else for my Nan (his mum) and he found all of these candles. My Nan said "Oh we can throw them out too, I won't use them." To which she decided to give them to me because I LOVE candles. I said to her "There we go, that can be my payment." I think it's fine in a lot of cases to take payment but otherwise, I just can't. I remember when I was younger I found someone's phone and the mother offered to give me money for getting in touch with her but I didn't want it. I didn't want to be paid for helping another person. ****photo is of the candles**** - No idea what shape I was trying to do. Kinda looks like a big candle or a cake.
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@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
27 Sep 22
I totally understand. I don't mind helping people who can't do things for themselves and never take payment for doing that. The old couple next door have had Covid. When we found out, we offered to pick things up from Walmart that they needed. We found the old man in our yard a few days ago pulling up weeds. When we asked what he was doing, he told us since we wouldn't take money for helping them, he wanted to do something nice for us. (We don't care if there are weeds in our yard but we thanked him and let him pull until he was tired. We made sure he made it home okay and thanked him several times for helping us out.) The old couple are really nice but maybe not quite all there. *shrug*
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@MrDenata (12248)
• Indonesia
27 Sep 22
The sweet and innocent man that we all talk about
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@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
28 Sep 22
@MrDenata Did you really doubt me, Angel?
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@MrDenata (12248)
• Indonesia
28 Sep 22
@DaddyEvil no, ofc no, why would i do that?
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@moffittjc (121604)
• Gainesville, Florida
29 Sep 22
That’s a lot of candles! The first thought that came to my mind was to light all of them, place them all around your bathtub, and enjoy a nice relaxing bubble bath!
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@moffittjc (121604)
• Gainesville, Florida
19 Oct 22
@VivaLaDani13 I can just imagine you relaxing in the bath with a bunch of candles around you. Such nice thoughts…
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• Perth, Australia
20 Oct 22
@moffittjc Well it is a really nice time! I love my baths hot. And the candles make the room feel much nicer. Gives a "spa like" atmosphere.
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• Perth, Australia
19 Oct 22
@moffittjc Oh for sure! I light candles every time I have a bath. I love baths at night just so I can light some. It's very relaxing for sure.
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@LadyDuck (471456)
• Switzerland
27 Sep 22
Those candles are so cute. You are right not to want money. I helped my Mom when she needed and I gladly helped and I would have never accepted money from her.
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• Perth, Australia
19 Oct 22
@LadyDuck You're a kind hearted person. I know that's the type of person you are. To help those in need.
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@LadyDuck (471456)
• Switzerland
19 Oct 22
@VivaLaDani13 You are too kind Dani and I know you are the same.
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• Perth, Australia
20 Oct 22
@LadyDuck Thank you for that Anna. I appreciate your comment!
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
27 Sep 22
How sweet to get these candles and for you to help her. I know she appreciates you.
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• Perth, Australia
19 Oct 22
@CarolDM Yeah it was really nice of her to let me have them. I love using them.
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• Perth, Australia
20 Oct 22
@CarolDM 100%! It's a lovely feeling.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
19 Oct 22
@VivaLaDani13 So nice to be loved and appreciated.
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@Treborika (17697)
• Mombasa, Kenya
26 Jan 23
You are one in a million I must say that. Nowadays most people stopped doing good to others.
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• Perth, Australia
26 Jan 23
@Treborika That is very nice of you to say, thank you so much!
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• Perth, Australia
26 Jan 23
@Treborika I am in your life in MyLot world.
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@Treborika (17697)
• Mombasa, Kenya
26 Jan 23
@VivaLaDani13 I wish I got you in my life
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@sickly09 (861)
• Indonesia
2 Oct 22
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• Perth, Australia
19 Oct 22
@sickly09 Thank you kindly for reading and answering.
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• Perth, Australia
20 Oct 22
@sickly09 Thank you. You too!
@sickly09 (861)
• Indonesia
20 Oct 22
@VivaLaDani13 It's ok danielle, Have a nice day.
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@divalounger (6123)
• United States
27 Sep 22
She wanted to take care of you like you were taking care of her I suspect--
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• Perth, Australia
19 Oct 22
@divalounger Yeah she is like that. She has that sort of nature.
@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
28 Sep 22
I see candles. It reminds me that All Soul's day is coming and candles are popular again. Sometimes if the person really insist on paying me for my help I do receive it and just hope that she will be bless
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• Perth, Australia
19 Oct 22
@averygirl72 I'm almost certain I've heard about All Soul's Day before. I would like to look into that. You're such a sweetheart! Sometimes people just want to pay because it makes them feel good. I can understand that for sure.
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
27 Sep 22
Good for you
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• Perth, Australia
19 Oct 22
@marlina Thank you kindly.
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@JESSY3236 (19941)
• United States
27 Sep 22
Yeah that does look like a cake. Pretty candles.
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• Perth, Australia
19 Oct 22
@JESSY3236 I don't even know what I was trying to do when placing them on the floor.
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@Neil43 (3313)
28 Sep 22
Your nanny is nice.
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• Perth, Australia
19 Oct 22
@Neil43 Thank you for your comment. She is very nice.
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@Treborika (17697)
• Mombasa, Kenya
30 Jan 23
When you do good what you normally do is that your building your treasure in heaven. The people of the world may not realise that but it's matter of you and your God
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• Perth, Australia
30 Jan 23
@Treborika Thanks for your response!
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@Treborika (17697)
• Mombasa, Kenya
30 Jan 23
@VivaLaDani13 When you realise that you will not blame the mean
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@Treborika (17697)
• Mombasa, Kenya
23 Jan 23
I am glad that you are always there to help your Nanny
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• Perth, Australia
24 Jan 23
@Treborika Thanks for your kind comment.
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@Treborika (17697)
• Mombasa, Kenya
24 Jan 23
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• Cloverdale, Indiana
19 Apr
Candles is a cool pymt for a little work, I don't mind working for a little small gift to just make the person happy.
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• Perth, Australia
25 Apr
@2ndchances24 Same here.
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@snowy22315 (180870)
• United States
27 Sep 22
Nice candles and good reward for helping.
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• Perth, Australia
19 Oct 22
@snowy22315 It sure was. I really appreciated them. I have still been using them.
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@jstory07 (139725)
• Roseburg, Oregon
27 Sep 22
That was nice that you got the candles that is a nice payment for something that you will use. I like the purple ones.
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• Perth, Australia
19 Oct 22
@jstory07 Thank you kindly Judy. I really like the purple ones too.
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@JudyEv (340254)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Sep 22
I hear what you're saying. Sometimes we just want to help someone. We don't want payment for it. It's enough to know that our efforts help someone else in a small way.
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• Perth, Australia
19 Oct 22
@JudyEv Exactly right.
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@Sojourn (13837)
• India
27 Sep 22
That's very sweet of you!
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• Perth, Australia
19 Oct 22
@Sojourn Thank you very kindly!
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27 Sep 22
It worked out great, both you and your Nanny are happy! You are a good granddaughter to spend time helping her.
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• Perth, Australia
19 Oct 22
@HomewardBound aww thank you very kindly for your sweet comment!