Is there anything wrong with the picture?

Comparing a child is frustrating for the parents and for the child. My youngest daughter did not talk much until she was 3. I did not worry until a friend who was studying medicine told me that she was ill. I took her to her pediatrician and the doctor told me that my friend was stupid. Just give her time, he said. Claudia now is a lawyer and a judge. Ans she talks sometimes more than her share

Sometimes kids have the tendency to color things with their favorite color. My daughter when she was young colored most things pink which was her favorite color. She grew up to be a young lady with extraordinary intelligence . At present she's a Dean's lister in her college chosen field and at one point even entered the President's list.

Well what is that top second one? Santa Claus? Yeah I know how she feels, I never talked to any of them when my son was in school.

Question: are you sure that your niece has not a problem with colors? Those tests are often useful to detect problems early. This test would be now considered "discriminatory" here, as both girls and boys can enjoy and use the same things.

Most of those things should have been colored both blue and red... But your cousin's daughter identified all the things a girl could/would use correctly. She can either ignore the other mothers or get snarky with them. Women are kinda weird, though. In my opinion, of course!

Thats fine, do not compare our kid with others, every kid are special and we have to help them to find theirs.

Well it seems she is not yet conscious of gender differences that she thinks all of the items are identical to any gender but I guess that is normal for their age they do not have the idea of things that are for girls or boys. With regards to mothers who like to compare their kids to others, I think they are really wrong in there since each child is unique and they should not compare it with others since they also have their own unique characteristics and just be happy with what they have instead of comparing it with others.

Parents should not compare their kids with others but that doesn't happen actually as that is the only thing they have to know about how their kids are doing things. Your niece is fine, she will learn it soon. Few kids have a slow pace of learning things.

It is okay as you said. And also, kids have learning curve. We should not force them or else they won't perform well.

Ihope they don't do that in front oftheir kids or they will feel the pressure. They should just focus in feeding, taking care and raising those kids instead.

I agree with you that children learn at their own pace. Plus, there could be medical or cognitive factors that affect educational development, but that doesn't always mean there is something wrong with the child. Ultimately, we have to understand that we can't box a child in or paint them in a corner and force them to learn at a pace they can't handle or aren't ready for. Children should be nurtured and guided. Funny how people will quickly judge in a negative way a child who learns slowly, but are thrilled with children who learn at an accelerated pace. Like you said, it's not a race. Children have enough pressure on them already, we don't need to add to it. Learning should be something exciting and fun and curious that children naturally want to do. Forcing them to learn at a certain pace or level isn't exactly making it fun for them.

There’s not much she can do. Parents do compare children.

I think your cousin should be patient and give the child to learn.

I would tell your cousin to stay calm if any parents mention it to her, and to quote you: "Kids learn at their own pace. It's not a race." I'd also suggest that she do some color games/books at home with her daughter. Make it fun, no pressure.

If she talks about the colors of things regularly, and the child is not colorblind, she will learn. I would do things with my children like saying "Let's put on your green striped shirt". "That is a pretty white dog." "I am having red jello". Not teaching really, just giving examples in everyday language.

Let your child develop at their own rate. They will catch up when they are ready.

Kids learn at their own pace.

No, there’s nothing wrong with the pictures. If your cousin always compare her child to the other kids, it is not good. Everyone is unique in its own way.

Everything is colored red!

For preschooler kids, I don't think there is any to worry. You need to pay more attention only if it continues till she becomes a teenager. There are some possibilities.. one of them may be she is a tomboy...