How Can You Fix It? / myLot

Philippines

October 12, 2022 8:41am CST

There are different ways on how people deal or fix their problems. Most of the logical advice I see being shared, by many people, is to remove or move away from the source of your stress or problems, that is of course, after you dealt with the problem. What happens if you find out that you are the problem? How would you try to fix things? Would you just walk away? Will it be okay to just change yourself to fix the problem? Change doesn't happen overnight, though...

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@DaddyEvil (137257)

• United States

12 Oct 22

All you can do is your best... And treat your friends a little better for being willing to put up with you.

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cutelilbastart

@hexeduser22 (7419)

• Philippines

12 Oct 22

I guess that's the way to do it. So, please, treat me better

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cutelilbastart

@hexeduser22 (7419)

• Philippines

12 Oct 22

@DaddyEvil I know, you got me covered. Thank you

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@DaddyEvil (137257)

• United States

12 Oct 22

@hexeduser22 You've been getting the best treatment from me you can expect, bastart.

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Sanjeev

@sjvg1976 (41281)

• Delhi, India

12 Oct 22

I will walk away as simple as that. I cannot be the reason for others' problems.

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cutelilbastart

@hexeduser22 (7419)

• Philippines

13 Oct 22

What if walking away is not an option? What would you do? There are situations in life where walking away could also mean... giving up.

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cutelilbastart

@hexeduser22 (7419)

• Philippines

14 Oct 22

@sjvg1976 that's a brave thing to do

Sanjeev

@sjvg1976 (41281)

• Delhi, India

13 Oct 22

@hexeduser22 I will give up, no issues but I won't be a problem for someone else.

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Hanni Harel

@Hannihar (130218)

• Israel

12 Oct 22

@hexeduser22 If one finds out they are the problem then they have to find ways to improve themselves and that is not easy. You are so right that change does not happen overnight. Sometimes it takes a long time to improve oneself.

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cutelilbastart

@hexeduser22 (7419)

• Philippines

12 Oct 22

What if the changes takes a while and by then everything is too late... Can change still fix things?

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Hanni Harel

@Hannihar (130218)

• Israel

12 Oct 22

@hexeduser22 I have no idea. I am at the beginning of trying to fix my life and it is very hard. It is a spirit causing me so much grief.