Sitting and Talking, What is the Use?

Mumbai, India
October 18, 2022 3:56am CST
That is the best thing for human beings to stay positive and to get reassurance. Unluckily for me there are no real friends in my native place, enemies are galore. Mylot is an option for me to seek friends who are in foreign countries, who are better than those here. I will write about why most people here are not that good.
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Anna
@LadyDuck (471253)
• Switzerland
18 Oct 22
I am sorry there is such a sad situation where you live. Most of the time is hard to find real friends.
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peachpurple
@peachpurple (13962)
• Malaysia
18 Oct 22
Nope, i do not find real friends here either. This is the real world we are living in
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Anna
@LadyDuck (471253)
• Switzerland
18 Oct 22
@peachpurple - Real friends are hard to find and it is becoming more and more difficult in our days.
Ranjith Narayan
@Surinamstar27 (315)
• Mumbai, India
18 Oct 22
Dear friend, this part of the world, Kerala is a separate entity. There are good, morally upright people, but the majority are venoms. Some of such venemous people also admit it. Only hypocrisy, enmity and jealousy thrive.
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josefina
@josie_ (10034)
• Philippines
18 Oct 22
There is a big difference between real and virtual friends. As well as friends and "real" friends. But wouldn't it be better to find the good rather than the "not that good" in a person?
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Ranjith Narayan
@Surinamstar27 (315)
• Mumbai, India
18 Oct 22
Here the problem is lack of good interpersonal relations. You know India gives importance to family and anything outside it is not accepted. But if you have money you get everything including the taboo things. The scene is bizzare here.
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Mano
@manandez (24)
• Petropolis, Brazil
18 Oct 22
So true, @josie_! Instead of only seeing the bad side, try and see the good ones (if they can be found). If not, move on and just let them be. We never need to get involved and all we have to do is try and maintain our mental health. If this is not possible and the environment is corrosive, the best option is leave for a better place.
josefina
@josie_ (10034)
• Philippines
19 Oct 22
@Surinamstar27 India banned social discrimination on the basis of caste. Is the system still being practiced in parts of India? Money talks anywhere in the world, as well as corruption.
Always smiling
@allknowing (135918)
• India
19 Oct 22
Sad that you have not found someone who you can talk to.
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peachpurple
@peachpurple (13962)
• Malaysia
18 Oct 22
People love to gossip about other people backside. This is human devil side. Online members are more honest compare to friends and foes next to you
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Mano
@manandez (24)
• Petropolis, Brazil
18 Oct 22
People gossip everywhere, even good people gossip. Not paying attention is a way out of suffering and maintaining a good and positive attitude can be a great weapon against them. Love always win!
Mano
@manandez (24)
• Petropolis, Brazil
18 Oct 22
There are all types of people and we all must try and deal with it the best way we can. I don't know which problems you are facing and all we can do is help talking to you and "try and make friends" with you so you feel less lonely (if that is the case). Moreover, this is a very sensitive case: human being relationships, not only in India, but everywhere in the whole planet. All I can say is try and avoid contact with them and be in peace with yourself.