Have you visited the grave of your loved one this day, All Souls day?
@cacay1 (83295)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
November 2, 2022 5:52am CST
I didn't visit the grave of my parents, 3 brothers and Seg 
the memorial parks are so far and I don't drive long distance places this time afraid my head nerves ache that cause me to get dizzy. My niece drives her car but good for her mom and kids. My other niece from UK hitched the van of her brother in law good for two families.
I'm not happy for every year I don't miss to visit my beloveds who passed away. I'm so sure, God allows them to stay on their resting place to meet their living and loving family and I'm absent, hoping for their kind understanding. My deepest apology especially to my parents
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What about you?
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the memorial parks are so far and I don't drive long distance places this time afraid my head nerves ache that cause me to get dizzy. My niece drives her car but good for her mom and kids. My other niece from UK hitched the van of her brother in law good for two families.
I'm not happy for every year I don't miss to visit my beloveds who passed away. I'm so sure, God allows them to stay on their resting place to meet their living and loving family and I'm absent, hoping for their kind understanding. My deepest apology especially to my parents.
What about you?
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12 responses
@marguicha (219502)
• Chile
2 Nov 22
My loved ones are not in a grave as they were cremated.
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@marguicha (219502)
• Chile
3 Nov 22
@cacay1 We took the ashes to a hill and placed them there.
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@cacay1 (83295)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
3 Nov 22
@marguicha, 
so where did you place the cremated body?
so where did you place the cremated body?1 person likes this
@cacay1 (83295)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
3 Nov 22
@marguicha are the ashes placed on a solid jar? Why not in a cemetery so you can visit during their days.
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@yoalldudes (35037)
• Philippines
2 Nov 22
I wasnt able to go to my father's grave as well. The weather was awful and we were flooded. I spent the day washing wet clothes.
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@cacay1 (83295)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
3 Nov 22
@yoalldudes, that's understandable, your father surely understood your situation. There's a new storn Queenie.
@Nakitakona (56299)
• Philippines
22 Dec 22
Traditionally we're doing that. There's a bit delay for my family to visit our departed loved ones due to heavy rains in the morning.
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@cacay1 (83295)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 Dec 22
@Nakitakona that's the usual happening every All Souls day.
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@much2say (54715)
• Los Angeles, California
6 Nov 22
We can only do what we can from wherever we are . . . your thoughts of your loved ones are always present. I think they would understand.
My father passed away just over a week ago (this is why I haven't been around here in the past month). These are things I will be thinking about now as he is put in his final resting place soon.
