Learn to Become Conscious About Love Relationships

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Love relationships actually become full of wounds because unconsciously we think: "I love him, then I have to be attached to him." In that attachment, whether you realize it or not, there is more or less a sense of satisfaction that dominates it, there is a feeling of pride in owning it, followed by a fear of losing it, so jealousy arises. So the tighter the attachment, the greater the desire to have it. The mind is also easily tense, anxious, angry, which ultimately hurts. Unknowingly we understand that love is definitely followed by attachment. As a result, love relationships are unavoidable from tension, full of conflict and full of wounds. Because there is satisfaction in mastering, pride in owning, fear of loss, jealousy. Secretly we are actually trying to get away from a relationship that is so tiring. We feel embarrassed. We run from the thirst for excessive entertainment, addiction to various things, run to fanaticism, idolize it in such a way, to groups that justify hatred and violence against those who are considered different. It seems like we are stuck, keep on going in circles, never stop in that condition. A moment later. Have we ever contemplated, is it true that love must be followed by attachment like that? Or maybe we are unraveling our basic understanding of love? Without realizing it, the source of many problems, maybe we keep getting stuck in the mindset: Love must be followed by attachment. Hopefully we can all accept reality as it is. Have a conscious life. I love you all.