Happy Birthday
By Eva James
@wolfgirl569 (105945)
Marion, Ohio
December 8, 2022 10:34pm CST
Its hard to believe you have been gone for 20 years. You are 39 today. I can still hear you saying Mommy Im Hoommme when you would come in from work or school. I remember you bringing a kitten home that you almost hit with your bicycle. We had a barn full but you knew it could stay. I will love and miss you always.
For those who dont know. This is my oldest son Chris. He passed away in a car wreck. That is why I say I had 2 kids but usually only talk about one. I know this is why I was not interested in doing anything today.
Which is exactly what I did. Except I did make a good dinner. We had sausage gravy over fried potatoes with buttered peas. I do plan on doing the vacuuming yet before I go to bed.
Hope you had a good day.
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23 responses
@Brandford (49)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Dec 22
I feel your pain too,Let him continue resting in peace.
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@sallypup (61000)
• Centralia, Washington
9 Dec 22
@wolfgirl569 This would have been my brother Frank's birthday, too. God bless you.
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@FourWalls (67775)
• United States
9 Dec 22
I hope good memories got you through the day.
I also wish there was something that would make the pain better. I’d buy it and give it to you. 3 people like this
@wolfgirl569 (105945)
• Marion, Ohio
9 Dec 22
They often do.
It is something I dont wish on anyone.
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@Deepizzaguy (102624)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
9 Dec 22
I am sorry to learn about the loss of your son. I did enjoy my work at home sharing good news stories here as well as doing surveys on Branded Surveys.
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@oahuwriter (26777)
• United States
9 Dec 22
Understood in I'm that way, on my Mom's birthday, she passed 2017. So, ...
My day, nice. My important letter mailed, customer service answered my questions, about, new benefits card, done.
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My day, nice. My important letter mailed, customer service answered my questions, about, new benefits card, done.3 people like this
@allknowing (136098)
• India
9 Dec 22
What a good looking boy that was. Never knew you had two. We have to thank our memories that keep us alive
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@wolfgirl569 (105945)
• Marion, Ohio
9 Dec 22
So sorry. Ys even if they are 80 we are supposed to go first.
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@LindaOHio (178131)
• United States
9 Dec 22
Happy Heavenly Birthday to Chris. I am so sorry he's gone Eva. I hope you have many good memories of him.
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@MommyOfEli2013 (83975)
• Rupert, Idaho
9 Dec 22
I am sorry to hear about your loss. But yes that is very understandable why you were not interested in doing much
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@MarieCoyle (37227)
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9 Dec 22
No parent wants to bury their child, ever. The pain is never ending...Eva, I'm truly sorry. I am glad you have some good memories of your son.
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@wolfgirl569 (105945)
• Marion, Ohio
9 Dec 22
Thanks. It is something I would not wish on my worst enemy.
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@Brandford (49)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Dec 22
@marie coyle it's true because it's painful and hard to forget.
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@Treborika (17661)
• Mombasa, Kenya
11 Dec 22
Sorry for that my friend. I too in deep sorrow for remembering my mother who passed on last year On a month like this. I can remember her as loving, caring and a very humbled mother surely rest in peace my mam
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@Treborika (17661)
• Mombasa, Kenya
11 Dec 22
@wolfgirl569 Thanks my friend for your kind words
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@wolfgirl569 (105945)
• Marion, Ohio
9 Dec 22
Yes the ones that have been here know. Thanks
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@DaddyEvil (137257)
• United States
10 Dec 22
I understand... I lost one of my sons 35 years ago. I'm sorry that happened to you.
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@RasmaSandra (79714)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
10 Dec 22
Virtual hugs to you, I wish all the best for you and I know he is near you and watching over you. It can help you I think as it helps me always knowing that one day we'll be reunited with our loved ones.
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@Marilynda1225 (82710)
• United States
9 Dec 22
I can't imagine the pain of losing a child but I do understand how his birthday will bring around melancholy. He was a very handsome young man and I'm so sorry for your loss Eva. Now I understand why you only talk about your one son. I didn't know you had suffered such a terrible loss.
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