Don’t expect praise or compliments from your children!

@Fleura (31080)
United Kingdom
December 19, 2022 7:26am CST
I’m sure most parents have lived through experiences like this – you spend hours preparing a delicious meal only to have your children give it one look and say ‘Yuk I’m not eating that!’ Sometimes though it’s even more personal. Last week a friend, who has two young children, was going for an evening out with her partner for a special Christmas meal, a real black-tie affair. The children were coming to us for a sleepover so they would have a whole night free (and guilt-free!) She was going to drop the children off on the way out. As she was getting ready, putting on a dress and some fancy shoes – a rare thing – the littlest girl looked at her and said ‘Mummy, you look…..’ The friend waited, thinking perhaps her daughter might say ‘You look lovely’ or even ‘You look like a princess! But instead what came was ‘Mummy, you look like an old lady!’ Luckily the evening did get better after that. All rights reserved. © Text and image copyright Fleur 2022.
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@JudyEv (347165)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Dec 22
Poor soul. I can totally understand how she must have felt.
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@Fleura (31080)
• United Kingdom
19 Dec 22
At times like this you just hope that in 20 years or so, your own children will have their own children and go through a similar experience and then they will finally understand
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@Fleura (31080)
• United Kingdom
21 Dec 22
@JudyEv Ha ha I hope you enjoyed that!
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@JudyEv (347165)
• Rockingham, Australia
21 Dec 22
@Fleura Our boys were well into their teens and Vin and I went to a dance with friends then on to the casino. We arrived home tipsy and very late (make that early!) to find both boys pacing the house. We got a roasting for not telling them or leaving a note saying where we were going. Talk about chickens coming home to roost!
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@wolfgirl569 (112147)
• Marion, Ohio
19 Dec 22
Children say some wild things
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@wolfgirl569 (112147)
• Marion, Ohio
20 Dec 22
@Fleura That comes with age.
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@Fleura (31080)
• United Kingdom
20 Dec 22
@wolfgirl569 Not always, I still remember going to a party when Big One was little, she could talk but didn't know too many words. When I was dressed she took my hand, led me to the mirror and said 'Nice!' Very touching. She was 21 months old, I know because I just looked up my account of it in the notes I kept!
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@Fleura (31080)
• United Kingdom
19 Dec 22
Don't they just? At least mine are a bit more tactful
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@allknowing (141427)
• India
19 Dec 22
How old is the girl who said it?
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@Fleura (31080)
• United Kingdom
20 Dec 22
She's seven.
@LadyDuck (472499)
• Switzerland
19 Dec 22
Oh my goodness, may be she wore make up and the young girl had not the habit to see her with an elegant dress and wearing makeup.
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@Fleura (31080)
• United Kingdom
19 Dec 22
Maybe that was it, it certainly didn't lift her spirits much!
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@LadyDuck (472499)
• Switzerland
20 Dec 22
@Fleura I can imagine that, but often also our husbands think that with make up on we look older than younger, but they do not dare to tell us.
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@Tampa_girl7 (51724)
• United States
22 Dec 22
Oh no, that was a difficult moment.
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@Fleura (31080)
• United Kingdom
22 Dec 22
Not what you hope for is it?
@BloggerDi (3113)
• United States
23 Dec 22
I raised a son and a daughter. Now I have 5 grandchildren, ages 10 and under. I've certainly heard a few similar comments through the years! To quote my mom..."I wasn't sure whether I should laugh or cry!".
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@Fleura (31080)
• United Kingdom
23 Dec 22
Definitely one of those moments!
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@aninditasen (16778)
• Raurkela, India
19 Dec 22
I think we should dress according to our age. That which suits us. Of course I wear the usual Indian saree whenever I go out. So there's no question of compliments. I look the same.
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