Am I the a$$ or at fault??

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Am I the a$$ or at fault?? Opinions are welcome. So today, 12/19, I got a text from my dads wife Monica who literally hates my guts. Mostly because I don’t put up with her crap and call her out on it. Well today we got into an argument through texts and she made me feel like I was the bad guy and just wanting to cause trouble. It all started when she text me to ask about Christmas dinner. We always have the big holidays at my sisters because we don’t like to have my oldest nephew out in the cold if we can help it because he is bed bound and on a ventilator but thriving!! Monica told me she hoped to eat by 3-4 because my dad had to work a bit on Christmas. All I said was that she should contact my sister to make sure that time is okay with her. Then Monica said “oh are you having a bad day” and then she proceeded to send me multiple emojis with their tounge sticking out. Below is the conversation that followed the emojis. ME No. It's just common sense. Sorry that seems to be a hard concept for some people. We are all going to Heidi's house. It makes sense that you would ask her too Seriously you need to grow up. HER I give up I'm done...I don't want anything from you for Christmas, birthday God bless ME You're the one that started this. But whatever. I've tried. I can't deal with you acting like a child. Maybe you should act your age. All I said was to ask Heidi about the time to eat as it's HER house. Would you like it if we planned a dinner at your house and I told you what time we had to eat? I don't think so. You would tell me that it was your house and you would decide when we all ate. But no you had to ask if I was having a bad day. What for? To piss me off? That's something you really like to do and for NO reason. HER Go back and reread about Christmas day... I said your FATHER has to work Christmas morning, and depending if he has to work into the afternoon I was hoping to eat around 3-4.... That's all I was saying...I was telling anybody I was going on what happens with his work schedule.... Never once did I call you names. ME And who's calling who names? I called you a child because you kept sending emojis after you asked if I was having a bad day. And All I said was to ask Heidi cuz it's HER house. Maybe that time won't work for her. I'm trying to be considerate because I wouldn't want someone to do that to me. But then you wanted to ask me if I was having a bad day. Why because I said you should ask Heidi? It's common courtesy to ask the owner of the house you're going to about the dinner times. HER Your not going to believe me anyways...so I'm not going to say anymore… I sent her a text and told her to leave me out of everything. If she has a question about a holiday, contact Heidi. I’ll coordinate with my sister and my dad only for now on. This whole conversation with Monica got my blood boiling all day. And it’s weird but while I know all I did was point out some common sense but she made me feel like the villain. And now I have a dilemma. She told me she don’t want anything from me for Christmas or her birthday so what do I do with the stuff I already bought her? I’m planning on taking it when we all do our gifts but what happens if she throws it in my face or rejects it or later on throws it on my yard??