Be Appreciative

@magallon (19279)
Philippines
December 20, 2022 12:27am CST
Christmas celebrations are everywhere now. Companies, schools, different organization groups are already having their Christmas parties with full of fun. Games and exchange of gifts are never forgotten in every party. But, have you ever experienced that your exchange gift was rejected and returned by the receiver? A young pre-schooler cried so much when her gift was returned to her. She really felt hurt and frustrated. The bag in the attached picture was her gift. It is cute and girlie and liked by many little girls today. Children should be taught that gifts should not be rejected and should be appreciated no matter how it looks and what its value. We should always bear in mind that it is the thought that counts and not the price of it.
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@LadyDuck (471421)
• Switzerland
20 Dec 22
It never happened, as we did not exchange gifts with the school mates when I was a kid. Life was different.
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@cacay1 (83495)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Dec 22
@LadyDuck, we also didn't experience it during my primary and elementary level only in high-school but I didn't return a gift I disliked.
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@LadyDuck (471421)
• Switzerland
23 Dec 22
@cacay1 I never gave back something I received as a gift, it's very rude.
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@magallon (19279)
• Philippines
25 Dec 22
During our time in school, we also had this exchange gift but whatever things we receive we accept it no matter what it is.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
20 Dec 22
That's too bad! However, it had never happened to me yet and I hope it won't because I would feel frustrated and embarrassed
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@cacay1 (83495)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Dec 22
@cherigucchi it happened my exchanged gift was a wall clock hehe and didn't return it but somebody asked it so I gave.
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@cacay1 (83495)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Dec 22
@magallon it's insulting
@magallon (19279)
• Philippines
25 Dec 22
It is really frustrating if your gift was returned to you.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
20 Dec 22
That's sad. Gifts should be appreciated by the recipient. You're right. Children should be taught to accept gifts graciously although they may not like it because there are always uses for each gift. I hope the girl recovers from this experience with a positive attitude.
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@magallon (19279)
• Philippines
25 Dec 22
I read from facebook yesterday that many people reacted to her story. She received many Christmas gifts sent by other people
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@jobelbojel (35633)
• Philippines
23 Dec 22
It never happened to me when I was in grade school. We remember that we should be thankful that the person gone his or her way to go to the market to buy that gift.
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@cacay1 (83495)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Dec 22
@jobelbojel the kid's mom should have inspired her kid not to return the gift.
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@cacay1 (83495)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Dec 22
@magallon it's the mother's duty to instill good values. My sister also doesn't expect nice exchange gift her kids to receive bought gifts and wrapped them and give it to her kids who happen to have s bad gift so her child feels very happy.
@magallon (19279)
• Philippines
25 Dec 22
@cacay1 yeah right.. The mother should have taught her daughter to be appreciative of whatever things she had received.
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@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
20 Dec 22
Pre schoolers are quite young and so authentic with the way they react. We can only teach them through living the values that we want to pass on. But I don't expect a preschooler to behave perfectly. They learn with time and growing age. Not sure how the adults/ teachers reacted.
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@magallon (19279)
• Philippines
25 Dec 22
The teachers reaction were not mentioned but the girl's mother was with her when she returned the gift. The mother should have taught her daughter good values.
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• Philippines
20 Dec 22
It's so cute. Was it returned on the same day as the event? Did the receiver ask for a different gift?
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@magallon (19279)
• Philippines
25 Dec 22
It was returned after the party and no different gift was asked.
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@jstory07 (139742)
• Roseburg, Oregon
25 Dec 22
That is a very nice gift.
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@magallon (19279)
• Philippines
25 Dec 22
You're right it is really a girly thing. I just can't understand why it was returned to the giver.
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@cacay1 (83495)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Dec 22
The mom of the kid should have inspired her kid not to return the gift. That was unethical.
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@cacay1 (83495)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Dec 22
@magallon, it's Christmas so whatever is received should be treasured.
@magallon (19279)
• Philippines
25 Dec 22
She should have taught her child good values especially learning to appreciate the good things done to them by other people
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