Sadness Around Elvis
By Jim Bauer
@porwest (89914)
United States
January 3, 2023 12:06pm CST
One often wonders how iconic, and very famous people tend to have such tragic and short lives. On the one hand you would think, "They've got it all. Money, fame—pretty much anything they want." How could that be possible?
I write this as I think about the life of Elvis Presley, short as it was.
I remember having visited Graceland a few years ago and while it was an interesting experience, I also felt it was a sad one.
I mean, here was this guy who had it all, who died in his bathroom at the age of 42. But he was a shell of his former self. He was run down and tired, and he was on a very self-destructive path.
At just 42, passing him on the street, one might have thought he was considerably older than he was when he passed.
But he did love Graceland, even saying once in an interview that he would never leave there. For him it was his world. His paradise. It was where he could just be Elvis and not have to necessarily be Elvis Presley.
I think part of what did him in, and what does in a lot of people like him, was the isolation. And frankly, a deep sense of loneliness despite being surrounded by people who adored him.
But even among his closest people, how many really admired him as the person and how many just wanted to be in his presence and enjoy his money? One could easily say that perhaps Elvis was the most beloved loneliest person in the world.
Perhaps in an odd way his dying young forever sealed his place in history. His health was in deep decline. He was overweight. His singing voice was not what it was. And his star was dying.
Had Elvis lived, and not died, it is a wonder if we would still be talking about him today in the same way we do now. Perhaps his legend would not have outlived him. Perhaps he would simply be "someone who once made great music," but not see him as The King of Rock 'N Roll.
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@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
13 Jan 23
Elvis' passing away has created a great controversy if my memory won't fail me. Why? Elvis didn't die. He's alive. I have no proof but what I had read from the news.
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@porwest (89914)
• United States
17 Jan 23
@Nakitakona Yes. It was Elvis' only child.
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@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
17 Jan 23
@porwest I thought it was from Ann-Margret.
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@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
14 Jan 23
@porwest Lisa Marie is his daughter with Priscilla?
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@lovebuglena (44504)
• Staten Island, New York
3 Jan 23
The richest people are not necessarily the happiest.
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@porwest (89914)
• United States
3 Jan 23
I am not sure the money they have has much to do with their "condition." It's a very different kind of rich. Sure, they have all that money, celebrities. But can they enjoy it like you or I can? I can walk down the street and shop where I want and go where I want and enjoy my money. They are recognized and hounded and followed and constantly ensnared in the lenses of Papparazzi.
It has to be a very lonely, isolated life.
@lovebuglena (44504)
• Staten Island, New York
4 Jan 23
@porwest Not really having any privacy is definitely a disadvantage to being a celebrity. I wouldn't want that. Wouldn't want anyone snooping around or following me.
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@porwest (89914)
• United States
5 Jan 23
@lovebuglena Me either. Keeping a very low profile, aside from what I do online, is my preference.
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@1creekgirl (41387)
• United States
3 Jan 23
A very thoughtful post. We need money to live, but like they say, money won't buy you happiness. I'd rather have two people who love me for who I am than 50 people who don't know the real me.
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@porwest (89914)
• United States
5 Jan 23
They have a different kind of money of course. It's when you add in the fame that things get a bit ugly. I can have a million bucks in the bank and walk down the street and go where I want and do what I want without being followed, hounded by fans and Papparazzi—I can't even imagine how isolating fame can be. Not sure I want to know.
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@Jinbuyeon22 (65)
• Indonesia
7 Jan 23
so true. most people don't care how he might feel. they just see her happy. they already consider success.
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@moffittjc (121540)
• Gainesville, Florida
3 Jan 23
The lifestyle catches up to them sooner or later. If it’s not from living the fast life, it’s from loneliness and isolation like you said. Look how many up and coming stars end up crashing and burning before they’ve even reached the top of their star status (Brittney Spears, Lindsey Lohan). Some are able to overcome the dark side of fame and wealth, but many often continue down the dark path until it’s too late.