The olden days - shielding children from the facts of life
By Judy Evans
@JudyEv (343439)
Rockingham, Australia
January 9, 2023 4:37pm CST
A myLotter wrote asking what was our favourite book as a child. My apologies but I’m not sure who wrote the discussion.
My favourite books were always about animals and the book ‘My Friend Flicka’ by Mary O’Hara was mentioned. I was always a good reader and remember reading it as a child. The first page was missing which seemed very odd.
Some years later, I read the book again, maybe a copy from the library, and the first page describes the birth of a foal. In those days, children were shielded from such things which seems pretty incredible in this day and age.
I also remember my mother being horrified that her small grand-daughter had taken an ultrasound to school showing her unborn sibling in her mother’s womb. How times have changed.
The photo is mine of an Arab stallion strutting his stuff.
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@kaylachan (73401)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 Jan 23
We still try to shield our children from reality, and it does more harm than good.
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@kaylachan (73401)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
10 Jan 23
@JudyEv There needs to be, but there isn't.
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@allknowing (138844)
• India
10 Jan 23
Looks like the missing page was intentional as you say it described the birth of a foal.
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@allknowing (138844)
• India
10 Jan 23
@JudyEv I remember as a child when a bull and a cow were together mother would chasse us away (lol)
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@JudyEv (343439)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Jan 23
@allknowing Yes, that happened on our farm too.
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@rebelann (113130)
• El Paso, Texas
10 Jan 23
What a beautiful stallion.
I recall reading Black Beauty and several books that I can't remember the titles of where the main character was either a wolf or a dog. I also liked to read about ancient history. What I don't recall is anything about how a baby animal was born and I'm not really sure why.
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@wolfgirl569 (109657)
• Marion, Ohio
10 Jan 23
Things have changed a lot. It seems funny to think about an ultrasound picture being bad
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@wolfgirl569 (109657)
• Marion, Ohio
10 Jan 23
@JudyEv I still have a neighbor that won't hang hers outside . She is in her 60s so should not be that bothered by it. Unless it's something to do with being from England
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@JudyEv (343439)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Jan 23
@wolfgirl569 Some of the old habits die hard I guess.
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@snowy22315 (183537)
• United States
10 Jan 23
That is a beautiful horse. I liked reading Black Beauty when I was a child. It was very vivid. Have you ever read All Creatures Great and Small, and the other James Herriot books? I read those when I was much older maybe 18 or so. ...beautiful and touching. You would love them. PBS has a series now based on those books. I try to catch it when I can.
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@LeaPea2417 (37428)
• Toccoa, Georgia
10 Jan 23
I agree. I was naive and protected. When I was around age 10 wanting my Mom to tell me about the birds and the bees, she explained but I didn't get it. Then I started looking through a reproductive life cycle book we had on one of our bookshelves and I still didn't get it. I think at the age of 10 when I was so naive is good. Kids don't need to know about the birds and the bees, too young, let kids be kids.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50924)
• United States
10 Jan 23
Did you ever read “Black Beauty” ? It was one of my favorite books.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50924)
• United States
10 Jan 23
@JudyEv I still have my “Black Beauty” book. The pages are quite yellowed.
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@JESSY3236 (20141)
• United States
10 Jan 23
pretty stallion. When I was really young, my favorite book was about bears eating blueberries.
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@Deepizzaguy (105255)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
9 Jan 23
My late parents did their best to shield from the facts of life since they were protective due to my innocence of life when I was a child.
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@Deepizzaguy (105255)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
10 Jan 23
@JudyEv It is good since are not ready to deal with subjects made for adults.
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@LindaOHio (183956)
• United States
10 Jan 23
I was so sheltered as a child and as a teenager. It didn't prepare me for the world when I finally did get my freedom. That's a great photo.
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@LindaOHio (183956)
• United States
10 Jan 23
@JudyEv My mother screened what I read very carefully.
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@Beestring (14782)
• Hong Kong
10 Jan 23
When I was a child, my English is not good enough to read a English book.
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@JudyEv (343439)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Jan 23
I'm sure there were many excellent books in your own language.
@Beestring (14782)
• Hong Kong
11 Jan 23
@JudyEv There were quite a few good ones.
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@RasmaSandra (81561)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 Jan 23
Beautiful horse. Yes, in the old days children could still keep their innocence now it seems they are growing up at alarming rates,
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@JudyEv (343439)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Jan 23
I remember reading Heidi. That was a great book too.