The olden days - shielding children from the facts of life

@JudyEv (343439)
Rockingham, Australia
January 9, 2023 4:37pm CST
A myLotter wrote asking what was our favourite book as a child. My apologies but I’m not sure who wrote the discussion. My favourite books were always about animals and the book ‘My Friend Flicka’ by Mary O’Hara was mentioned. I was always a good reader and remember reading it as a child. The first page was missing which seemed very odd. Some years later, I read the book again, maybe a copy from the library, and the first page describes the birth of a foal. In those days, children were shielded from such things which seems pretty incredible in this day and age. I also remember my mother being horrified that her small grand-daughter had taken an ultrasound to school showing her unborn sibling in her mother’s womb. How times have changed. The photo is mine of an Arab stallion strutting his stuff.
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@LadyDuck (472373)
• Switzerland
10 Jan 23
You are right, not only we were shielded, but adults used to tell us a lot of lies to avoid some topics, that is absolutely ridiculous.
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@LadyDuck (472373)
• Switzerland
10 Jan 23
@JudyEv I used to spend a couple of weeks at the farm of my grandmother, I also knew more that my classmates.
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@JudyEv (343439)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Jan 23
@LadyDuck My father would tell my friends that black and white cows gave black and white milk.
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@JudyEv (343439)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Jan 23
Yes, that is true. Living on a farm I learnt some things through observation but kids brought up in the cities sometimes knew very little.
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@kaylachan (73401)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 Jan 23
We still try to shield our children from reality, and it does more harm than good.
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@JudyEv (343439)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Jan 23
I think there is a middle road there somewhere.
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@kaylachan (73401)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
10 Jan 23
@JudyEv There needs to be, but there isn't.
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@allknowing (138844)
• India
10 Jan 23
Looks like the missing page was intentional as you say it described the birth of a foal.
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@JudyEv (343439)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Jan 23
Yes, it would have been intentional.
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@allknowing (138844)
• India
10 Jan 23
@JudyEv I remember as a child when a bull and a cow were together mother would chasse us away (lol)
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@JudyEv (343439)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Jan 23
@allknowing Yes, that happened on our farm too.
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@rebelann (113130)
• El Paso, Texas
10 Jan 23
What a beautiful stallion. I recall reading Black Beauty and several books that I can't remember the titles of where the main character was either a wolf or a dog. I also liked to read about ancient history. What I don't recall is anything about how a baby animal was born and I'm not really sure why.
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@rebelann (113130)
• El Paso, Texas
10 Jan 23
Maybe that was one of them, I do remember it made me cry, I hated that.
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@JudyEv (343439)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Jan 23
@rebelann Old Yeller had a terrible ending too.
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@JudyEv (343439)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Jan 23
Call of the Wild was about a wolf. I remember reading that as a child.
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@wolfgirl569 (109657)
• Marion, Ohio
10 Jan 23
Things have changed a lot. It seems funny to think about an ultrasound picture being bad
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@wolfgirl569 (109657)
• Marion, Ohio
10 Jan 23
@JudyEv I still have a neighbor that won't hang hers outside . She is in her 60s so should not be that bothered by it. Unless it's something to do with being from England
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@JudyEv (343439)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Jan 23
@wolfgirl569 Some of the old habits die hard I guess.
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@JudyEv (343439)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Jan 23
I know! It's really weird but things were so different then. My grandmother would hang her bloomers on the line so that you couldn't tell they were bloomers (at least that was her hope!) It's sad in a way.
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@Sojourn (13837)
• India
10 Jan 23
Yes, back in the days even some decades ago, people were afraid to disclose these kind of things to toddlers as they wanted to preserve their innocence.
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@JudyEv (343439)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Jan 23
I think there is a middle road when it comes to imparting information to small children. At least, they shouldn't be lied to.
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@JudyEv (343439)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Jan 23
@Sojourn I think that's why many children weren't taught much in my era.
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@Sojourn (13837)
• India
10 Jan 23
@JudyEv Yeah, and it takes quite a bit of wisdom explaining these unpleasant things to children so that their young minds don't get affected.
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@snowy22315 (183537)
• United States
10 Jan 23
That is a beautiful horse. I liked reading Black Beauty when I was a child. It was very vivid. Have you ever read All Creatures Great and Small, and the other James Herriot books? I read those when I was much older maybe 18 or so. ...beautiful and touching. You would love them. PBS has a series now based on those books. I try to catch it when I can.
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@JudyEv (343439)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Jan 23
I have all the James Herriot books and watched the earlier version on TV. I've only caught a few of the newer version.
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@LeaPea2417 (37428)
• Toccoa, Georgia
10 Jan 23
I agree. I was naive and protected. When I was around age 10 wanting my Mom to tell me about the birds and the bees, she explained but I didn't get it. Then I started looking through a reproductive life cycle book we had on one of our bookshelves and I still didn't get it. I think at the age of 10 when I was so naive is good. Kids don't need to know about the birds and the bees, too young, let kids be kids.
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@LeaPea2417 (37428)
• Toccoa, Georgia
11 Jan 23
@JudyEv I agree.
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@JudyEv (343439)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Jan 23
You can give a young child too much information. There has to be a middle road somewhere.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50924)
• United States
10 Jan 23
Did you ever read “Black Beauty” ? It was one of my favorite books.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50924)
• United States
10 Jan 23
@JudyEv I still have my “Black Beauty” book. The pages are quite yellowed.
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@JudyEv (343439)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Jan 23
Yes, Black Beauty is a real classic.
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@JESSY3236 (20141)
• United States
10 Jan 23
pretty stallion. When I was really young, my favorite book was about bears eating blueberries.
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@JudyEv (343439)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Jan 23
I loved any books about animals.
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@Deepizzaguy (105255)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
9 Jan 23
My late parents did their best to shield from the facts of life since they were protective due to my innocence of life when I was a child.
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@JudyEv (343439)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Jan 23
Many parents try to do that I'm sure. They are just trying to protect their children.
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@Deepizzaguy (105255)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
10 Jan 23
@JudyEv It is good since are not ready to deal with subjects made for adults.
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@Shiva49 (26846)
• Singapore
10 Jan 23
With social media reigning supreme, children have access to all types of information nowadays. In fact, they are more adept than adults at accessing whatever they want and sharing them even.
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@JudyEv (343439)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Jan 23
That's very true. It's very hard to keep anything under wraps nowadays.
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@LindaOHio (183956)
• United States
10 Jan 23
I was so sheltered as a child and as a teenager. It didn't prepare me for the world when I finally did get my freedom. That's a great photo.
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@JudyEv (343439)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Jan 23
Luckily I grew up on a farm and was an avid reader so I think that helped a little bit.
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@LindaOHio (183956)
• United States
10 Jan 23
@JudyEv My mother screened what I read very carefully.
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@Beestring (14782)
• Hong Kong
10 Jan 23
When I was a child, my English is not good enough to read a English book.
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@JudyEv (343439)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Jan 23
I'm sure there were many excellent books in your own language.
@Beestring (14782)
• Hong Kong
11 Jan 23
@JudyEv There were quite a few good ones.
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@RasmaSandra (81561)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 Jan 23
Beautiful horse. Yes, in the old days children could still keep their innocence now it seems they are growing up at alarming rates,
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@JudyEv (343439)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Jan 23
It's all very well learning the facts of life but there is a time and place for some of those facts.
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@Ronrybs (19732)
• London, England
10 Jan 23
My favourite book as a youngster, was called 'Lad, a Dog'. All about a Collie.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
10 Jan 23
I remember My Friend Flicka. It was one of my favorites along with Heida of the Alps. I'm not sure that was the name of the Heida book, but I loved those Childrens books. Times have changed.
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@JudyEv (343439)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Jan 23
I remember reading Heidi. That was a great book too.