First salary

@Nevena83 (65277)
Serbia
January 17, 2023 1:22pm CST
Good evening friends As I already wrote, my brother was here with his children, he left today. I feel very tired, but I turned on the washing machine, as well as the dishes so that I have less to clean tomorrow. Since his children are 5 and 3 years old, then you know that the house is like a bomb. It is now 8:20 pm here and I have to make dinner for my son who comes home around 11:30 pm. Old members know that I have a son who is now 20 years old, and he got a job a month ago. I must admit that I was happier than him. At least it seemed that way. This is his first serious job, so I sincerely hope that he will only improve now. In a few days he should receive his first salary, and he has already planned how he will spend it. Do you remember what you spent your first paycheck on?
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
17 Jan 23
Glad to hear your son has a job! Is he still seeing his girlfriend? I’m sure I spent my first paycheck on nail polish. What else could I buy for $3 from babysitting.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
17 Jan 23
Oh, I'm happy to see you here. I heard you disappeared. How are you? He's not with that girl anymore. But I must admit that after that relationship he became more cheerful, and he started going out. I definitely think you spent that money in the best way.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
17 Jan 23
@Nevena83 Thank you! I stopped by some of your posts recently since my return three days ago. Happy to hear about your son. Now is the time for him to experience lots of dating. And lol! Of course I would start with nail polish!
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
17 Jan 23
@DianneN I am also happy that we will chat about everything together again. Of course you will talk about beautiful things, and I will talk about other things. Just kidding.
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@Shivram59 (36452)
• India
19 Jan 23
@Nevena83 Congratulations to both you and your son.I wish him a dazzling success in his life .Also I wish you the pride of being the mother of a good son.
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@Shivram59 (36452)
• India
19 Jan 23
@Nevena83 Of course;he will.He has a bright future ahead.Never forget to encourage him.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
19 Jan 23
@Shivram59 I appreciate your support. You always knew how to give me hope.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
19 Jan 23
Thank you so much. I am very happy for him and sincerely hope that he will improve.
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@LadyDuck (472114)
• Switzerland
18 Jan 23
I am sure your son will be so excited to receive his first salary. I remember very well how I spent my firs paycheck, a gift for my mom, one for my dad, one for my brother and another for my grandmother who lived with us. I was so proud that I could finally buy something for them with my own money.
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@LadyDuck (472114)
• Switzerland
18 Jan 23
@Nevena83 You "suggested" now let's see if he is going to buy you something.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
18 Jan 23
@LadyDuck I think that would be really nice of him, especially since my birthday is coming up soon.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
18 Jan 23
Yes, I think many of us used our first money to buy gifts for our loved ones. I'm not sure that today's kids think like that. I have to admit that I expect something small from my son, and I told him that, and he just smiles.
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@DaddyEvil (137636)
• United States
18 Jan 23
I'm sure he's really happy to have a real job. My memory doesn't go back far enough to remember what I did with my first paycheck 42 years ago.
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@DaddyEvil (137636)
• United States
18 Jan 23
@Nevena83 Good luck with that.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
18 Jan 23
I'm not sure how happy he is, but I believe that will change when he sees the money in the account. I expect a gift.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
18 Jan 23
@DaddyEvil I hope to write here about how I got the gift.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
17 Jan 23
Getting the first salary is always memorable experience..glad that your son got job .
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
17 Jan 23
@Nevena83 what is the job he is doing?. Did he say his plans to you about what he is going to purchase
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
17 Jan 23
@Icydoll He works in a factory for the production of solid wood furniture. I don't know the details, but he says they are expensive pieces. Oh yeah, he said he wanted to invest in fixing his car. Of course I rebelled and asked him if he would buy me something too.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
17 Jan 23
Thank you. Yeah, I definitely think he'll only be excited when he gets his first paycheck.
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• China
17 Jan 23
Your question reminds me of my first job, which was a sweatshop. I went to work at 8:00 in the morning and got off work at 10:00 in the evening. I resigned after working for three months. My money was spent on food, clothing and use.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
17 Jan 23
Ugh, that's really a lot of hours of work. Was it hard?
@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
17 Jan 23
@zhangxueying I understand. You definitely didn't like that job. Do you have a better job now?
• China
17 Jan 23
@Nevena83 The electronics factory is not difficult, but they require speed, and it takes a long time. My face is a little allergic, and I have a lot of pimples. It took me three months to recover after resigning
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@snowy22315 (182193)
• United States
17 Jan 23
Good for your son. I remember with my first real job i bought a nail buffer kit with all sorts of pastes and powders. I don't know what else.
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@snowy22315 (182193)
• United States
17 Jan 23
@Nevena83 Yes, it is.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
17 Jan 23
It always feels good to have your own money.
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@cherriefic (10399)
• Philippines
19 Jan 23
I bought a lot of snacks I'm not allowed to eat when I was still at home. It's exciting to have your first paycheck.
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@cherriefic (10399)
• Philippines
19 Jan 23
@Nevena83 Yeah, that's the ultimate treat for young adults.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
19 Jan 23
I believe that my son will also buy snacks from his first salary.
@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
19 Jan 23
@cherriefic But I sincerely hope that he will buy me something too.
@Tampa_girl7 (50528)
• United States
18 Jan 23
I bought a bedspread and curtains. I was 17.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
18 Jan 23
It is a very serious purchase. You were very mature at that age.
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@moffittjc (121715)
• Gainesville, Florida
19 Jan 23
I started my first job when I was 14 years old, working during the summer to earn money. I saved every paycheck from the time I was 14 to when I turned 16, so that I could buy a car when I received my driver's license.
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@moffittjc (121715)
• Gainesville, Florida
20 Jan 23
@Nevena83 No one told me to save. I just decided on my own that I wanted to buy a car as soon as I was old enough to drive.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
22 Jan 23
@moffittjc It's a really mature decision.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
19 Jan 23
Really? It is a very mature decision. Did someone tell you that you should do that or did you know it yourself?
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@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Jan 23
Getting a regular paycheck will probably be quite an incentive for him to continue working.
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@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Jan 23
@Nevena83 I wouldn't bet on it but it will be good for him to be earning his own money.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
18 Jan 23
@JudyEv I doubt it too, but I want to believe it. Yes, the most important thing is that he earns for himself.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
18 Jan 23
I think so too. He started planning how to spend it, so I hope I'm in on those plans.
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@florelway (23286)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
17 Jan 23
Congratulations to your son for his job. I also got my first serious jon around that age. I mean serious because I used to have part time working and practicing at my aunt's travel agency. I cannot recall anymore how I spent but I knew I bought gifts for my godchildren because it happened that I got hired towards Christmas time.
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@florelway (23286)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Jan 23
@Nevena83 I bet he will have something for you.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
18 Jan 23
@florelway That would be great.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
17 Jan 23
Thank you so much. I am waiting to see if there will be something for me from his salary.
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@Gguusia (398)
• Poland
22 Jan 23
I spent my first disentanglement on a trip/vacation to my favorite place. It was a 7-day holiday in the beloved mountains.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
22 Jan 23
Well that's wonderful. Does that mean the salary was high?
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@Gguusia (398)
• Poland
22 Jan 23
@Nevena83 For those times, yes, especially since I also received a large bonus at the time.
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@Beestring (14697)
• Hong Kong
18 Jan 23
I gave a portion to my mom. I also bought a dress and ate out with friends.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
18 Jan 23
That's really wonderful. I'm hoping for at least some gift from his first salary.
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@Beestring (14697)
• Hong Kong
18 Jan 23
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@RasmaSandra (80748)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
17 Jan 23
It is always hard to get used to the routine of a first job, I only remember that when I got my first paycheck I took my mom to dinner, But that was in the early 1980s and prices at restaurants were still reasonable,
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
18 Jan 23
That's really wonderful. I honestly expect something from my son from his first paycheck, but I'll see if he remembers me.
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