WHY DO PEOPLE DO THIS?

@BabeSays (8575)
Mauritius
January 24, 2023 12:44am CST
I've been friends with a Bulgarian Girl almost over a year now. We met through pubG mobile. We had such a beautiful bonding. She used to call a lot and we talked for hours. Whenever she needed help to make a video or need my pubg account, I always gave her and said YES. I quit pubG last year and haven't open my account for a while. I got some close friend asking me for my pubG account and I said NO to all of them because it only bring more friend to ask. The Bulgarian girl stopped talking to me ever since I quit pubG. She only reply to my messages. Last year she asked me for my account and I said NO. First time and the only time I ever said NO to her. Ever since she ignore me and talk bad about me to our mutual friends. She made a very close friend of mine distancing themselves from me. She told I got an attitude. She forgit I was the one who was there for her in her bad time and stood up for her. Why do people forget about all the good we once did for them and remember only the one time you say NO? She starts hating on me and spreading lies.
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@YrNemo (20255)
24 Jan 23
I had friends like that too. It hurts when they suddenly try back stabbing us in the end.
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@YrNemo (20255)
25 Jan 23
@BabeSays I still think of those traitors at times. (and curse them silently .)
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@BabeSays (8575)
• Mauritius
25 Jan 23
@YrNemo Yes I can understand they have been part of our life and were once very close to us.
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@BabeSays (8575)
• Mauritius
24 Jan 23
Yes it hurts badly...specially when they used to be very close.
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@manasamanu (3746)
• Bangalore, India
28 Jan 23
Ignore such people, they are not worth of your friendship and goodness. People like them only be with us for the advantages they get from us. Once they find someone new they will brutally throw us away. If your friends believe her then that means they have never known you at all. Cheer up. The world is very big, you will surely find a true friend
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• Bangalore, India
29 Jan 23
@BabeSays sure you will find.
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@BabeSays (8575)
• Mauritius
29 Jan 23
Thank you for these beautiful words. It really cheers me up. I hope I do find that friend.
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• Canada
25 Jan 23
We live in a "what have you done for me lately?" world
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@BabeSays (8575)
• Mauritius
25 Jan 23
This mentality of people really suck. Always taking advantage on the nice people and get what they want.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
24 Jan 23
Thats sucks and I’m sorry about what happened to your friendship
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@BabeSays (8575)
• Mauritius
24 Jan 23
Indeed it sucks
@Icydoll (36717)
• India
24 Jan 23
Change is only constant and nothing else is permanent.People like this always change,They does not care about us and our feelings, Glad you got to know about her .Ignore her and move on .
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@BabeSays (8575)
• Mauritius
24 Jan 23
Thank you doll. I did take this decision today since I had enough of her drama and lies.
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@Adie04 (17360)
25 Jan 23
For me, you have a good chance of revealing one to their true selves. Usually when you are at your low point, or saying no, money involved will reveal true self of people. I also had the chance last year when I said no and at my lowest point, and revealed many 'friends' true selves. I am happy I have that chance, and this year I started my mental on a good note.
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@BabeSays (8575)
• Mauritius
25 Jan 23
Likewise I was always saying yes to her...all the time she'd ask my help or for my account I always say yes...This time I mustered courage and said NO and here's the result.
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@Adie04 (17360)
30 Jan 23
@BabeSays Yup.. There are things or areas that we may need to look into if we want to keep someone as our friend too.
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@quantum2020 (12041)
• Ciudad De Mexico, Mexico
24 Jan 23
That´s very human. We, humans, tend to be ambivalent in our thinking and decisions
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@jstory07 (139779)
• Roseburg, Oregon
24 Jan 23
I hope you are able to ignore her. She sounds like a user.
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@BabeSays (8575)
• Mauritius
24 Jan 23
We were so close, it hurts so bad to see people's real face.
@florelway (23286)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 Jan 23
I am sorry it happened to you.
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