Jubilee forties are coming / myLot

Serbia

January 30, 2023 5:26pm CST

Good evening friends I haven't been able to be active here in the past few days, but I'll be here soon. It's past midnight here right now and you won't believe it, but I'm cleaning the house. I'm like an owl, instead of going to sleep, I walk around the house.

I'm making a cake tomorrow. For me.

My birthday is on February 1st and I still haven't figured out what cake I'm making, but I will. I think I'll be busy all day tomorrow with the cake and decorating, as I want it to be special, because I'm turning 40 after all. I have to admit that this number sounds scary.

Are you afraid of age? Do you think they go too fast?

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Anna

@LadyDuck (472114)

• Switzerland

31 Jan 23

I remember when I turned 40 and I remember that I was almost depressed.

Now it sounds such a young age to me. Happy Birthday to You!

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Anna

@LadyDuck (472114)

• Switzerland

1 Feb 23

@Nevena83 When you change the "decade" is always a shock.

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Nevena Zivkovic

@Nevena83 (65277)

• Serbia

1 Feb 23

@LadyDuck Oh yes, that change is happening fast.

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Nevena Zivkovic

@Nevena83 (65277)

• Serbia

31 Jan 23

Thank you.

Oh, I absolutely understand how you felt now. I don't like this number.

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Judy Evans

@JudyEv (342099)

• Rockingham, Australia

31 Jan 23

Are you only 40? That sounds pretty young to me. A very Happy Birthday to you and I hope your cake turns out well.

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Nevena Zivkovic

@Nevena83 (65277)

• Serbia

31 Jan 23

Thank you. Yes, I just turned 40. Thanks for thinking I'm young.

I have to admit that I have been dealing with cake all day. Not everything went as I wanted, but I think she will be great in the end.

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OceanTiara

@RebeccasFarm (90474)

• Arvada, Colorado

30 Jan 23

Sure Nevena.an owl that is 40..right you are then Happy Birthday you hoot

Yes I am terrified oh well.

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Nevena Zivkovic

@Nevena83 (65277)

• Serbia

31 Jan 23

Thank you.

I absolutely understand how you feel. These numbers are growing rapidly.

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OceanTiara

@RebeccasFarm (90474)

• Arvada, Colorado

31 Jan 23

@Nevena83

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RasmaSandra

@RasmaSandra (80748)

• Daytona Beach, Florida

31 Jan 23

I hope you have a very Happy Birthday. I am no longer afraid of age because I know the Lord and my loved ones look out for me and if anything I will be with them so no worries, What are you scared about? March 1 I will be 66 and I still want to rock and roll,

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RasmaSandra

@RasmaSandra (80748)

• Daytona Beach, Florida

31 Jan 23

@Nevena83 I understand but you see like for me the reality is you have to handle it and you have to do the very best you can for yourself, You have many more years to go before you even have to think about a word like old, I wish you the very best and remember to always keep the child alive in your heart,

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Nevena Zivkovic

@Nevena83 (65277)

• Serbia

1 Feb 23

@RasmaSandra Those are such wonderful words, and thank you for that.

I would like to be like I used to be, but I'm not sure if I can do it. I'm too tired, sad, angry... I'm full of negative emotions that are suffocating me.

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Nevena Zivkovic

@Nevena83 (65277)

• Serbia

31 Jan 23

Thank you so much.

Honestly, I don't know what I'm afraid of, maybe helplessness and loneliness in old age. I don't think I can handle it.

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Lenore Plassman

@sallypup (61633)

• Centralia, Washington

15 Feb 23

To be forty again. I remember back then- struggling with awful cars, struggling with getting to work, helping seniors in their homes. Yes birthdays come on quick and fast. Happy birthday you young whipper snapper.

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Nevena Zivkovic

@Nevena83 (65277)

• Serbia

19 Feb 23

Thank you. They say that every year has its pros and cons.

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