Living in a foreign world

United States
February 5, 2023 3:46pm CST
Growing up in New Zealand and living one way of life from metrics to way we do things and Now living in the USA and adapting to the US way of life hasn't been easy. Some things just still seem foreign to me even though i have now lived in the USA for nearly 6 years. Everyday things in the USA are so much more complicated than they need to be. It bugs me that they call themselves the most advanced nation in the world but there are some things that are archaic and behind the times. Where i come from Cheques have gone out with the dark ages here in the USA its still a common practice to see people writing out cheques to pay for things. Personal Cheques in New Zealand have become like abacus obsolete and useless. Tap and go or Paywave are just starting to be a thing here and in New Zealand that is common place and the norm. And don't get me started with sales tax, what a nightmare. In New Zealand, sales tax is included in the price so if it says $25.99 on the shelf you better expect that it will be $25.99 on your receipt after you pay but OH no the Americans have to be difficult they have to tell you the retail price on the shelf and then charge you extra when you hand over your payment at the register. A few exceptions are made depending on your purchase but by in large that's the way things are. Schools are another thing, where do I start? American teachers don't know geography a lot of them can't follow their way out of a paper bag for the record to American Teachers across the country New Zealand IS NOT part of the Australian Contenant its part of its own Continent called Zelandia discovered in 1995 with most of it under water. The geographical region that New Zealand and Australia share is called Oceania or Australasia not Australia. There are no snakes in New Zealand except for a handful of zoos Kangaroos are Australian not Australasian and More over our flags are clearly different its time to put those bifocals back on and see. Calling a New Zealander an Australian is like calling a Canadian American its just not right. One thing that worries me is the lack of civics taught in American schools and the dumbing down of understanding ones cival rights . Teachers of America , your students have the same rights as you they dont stop at the school gate. The first amedment of the Constitution covers everywhere within the confinds of American law. As an immigrant to the USA, it pains me the lack of understanding that so many Americans have for their constitutional rights and responsibilities. The list of strangeness could go on but I would love to hear what others think and their input of experiencing different cultures and ways of life to that of which they were raised.
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@RasmaSandra (79858)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
5 Feb 23
I am an American Latvian and I had the chance to live in my parents' homeland Latvia for about 20 years until my husband passed on and I returned to the US, I had to adjust to their system, No one knows anything about checks, They pay through their banks for most everything like utilities and rent. Also most institutions like to have clients pay them money on hand. They did have online banking so you could pay most everything you needed online.
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@askme123 (6150)
5 Feb 23
Has New Zealand change out to electric cars as yet?
• United States
5 Feb 23
yes and no, its optional, and more and more kiwis are opting for the electric car over the gas car and those who cant afford to change over straight away are moving to the hybrid option and more and more kiwis are using public transport, especially in the main centers like Auckland, Wellington, and Christchurch. New Zealanders by and large are very environmentally conscious of their environment. Kiwis have one of the highest rate for recycling out of most western countries. New Zealanders were very early adopters of ride-share services and commuter share driving long before many other countries. Kiwis are very outdoor oriented people so therefore have a huge respect for nature. If you ever visit New Zealand you will notice you can walk through the main centers on the main streets and easily find a trashbin Often with a sign on the outside that says keep New Zealand clean Seeing a kiwi picking up trash that's not theirs is a very common thing
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@askme123 (6150)
6 Feb 23
@crobyghost Ok I see. What's the difference between a New Zealander and a Kiwi person
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• United States
6 Feb 23
@askme123 Oh Lawdy !!! how do i answer this? So many ways to answer and so many ways that could seriously get me in some hot water with my fellow kiwi patriots. So the term KIWI when talking about the people dates back to WW1, foreign soldiers from other countries would call New Zealand soldiers after their military call sign which was K1W1 because to most it looked like the word Kiwi, Kiwi which is the national bird of New Zealand, flightless but at the same time very sturdy and stealthy in the night Ironically the Kiwi is on the New Zealand Airforce planes and Helicopters To Americans, a Kiwi is a brown furry fruit with green flesh inside and very tart to taste That's a kiwi fruit which gets its name because it looks from a distance like the body of a small kiwi A New Zealander is someone who was either Born in New Zealand or holds New Zealand citizenship or calls New Zealand home and has spent most of their life there. Today the term Kiwi when talking about the people is a slang term for a New Zealander, much like a Yankie for an American or a Frog for a french person or Canook for a Canadian. Hope this clears it up
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@jstory07 (139697)
• Roseburg, Oregon
6 Feb 23
Life is good in the USA and we are free to live the way that we want. That is why I love my country.
@LadyDuck (471500)
• Switzerland
6 Feb 23
I am Italian, I lived in the south of France during 31 years and we are now living here in the south of Switzerland from 15 years. I cannot say that I have found an enormous cultural gap from my native place (Milan) and the places where I lived. I visited the United States many times and what shocked me more was the fact they know nothing of the geography of other countries. When they asked "where are you from?" they could never guess where the place we mentioned was, if in Italy, France or Spain.
@sallypup (61101)
• Centralia, Washington
6 Feb 23
I never bothered to buy checks from my bank when I signed up for it. Nobody uses them in my life.