Who will pay your debt in credit card when you die?

@ifa225 (14461)
Indonesia
February 18, 2023 6:22am CST
I always thinking about death because we never know when it will come. So I saw my husband's wallet few days ago and I saw he had two credit cards. I don't want to deal with debt in credit card if he dies. So I asked him to close it because we don't really need it anyway.
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@MrDenata (12248)
• Indonesia
18 Feb 23
I used to have 4 credit card from famous banks (local and international), after covid hits and i choose to move to my hometown, not working in Jakarta anymore, i dragged myself into a lot of debt because i'm not ready leaving my jakarta's lifestyle (FYI i always pay all of my credit card expenses on time, full payment when i was in Jakarta). Long story short it took 2 years to pay all of the debt and now i closed all of my credit card and now i am debt free. Something we need to know about credit card is, its not extra money, its debt, so when we use it, make sure we have money to pay it full payment. I got a lot of cashback and another privillege while having them. But now, after move to my hometown, we learned the hard way that we have to leave Jakarta's lifestyle and i'm good now and i'm still enjoying life to the fullest *sorry i'm talkinh too much
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
18 Feb 23
@MrDenata I can fell you bro.. Trust me. I hate to deal with bank, even in syariah bank. Two years are long enough to pay those debts. And it is really choke the neck to pay the interest.
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
18 Feb 23
@MasGion I am planning to move to down town too whenever my husband retired. Right now, we still need the job to pay all our needs. Living in the village with my own yard, with two or four chickens has been my dream
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@MasGion (1832)
• Malang, Indonesia
18 Feb 23
Great story bro... That is one of reason from some reasons I will working in jAkarta. So many opportunities to move to Jakarta, I always reject... Better for me to stay in small town and small salary. Near with family and parents is better
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
18 Feb 23
Looks like @Vikingswest1 gave you the correct answer.
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
18 Feb 23
Yes, I am thankful for his brief answer. It make me more aware to not having a debt in any form
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• United States
18 Feb 23
Hi Carol. Very nice to see you.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
18 Feb 23
@Vikingswest1 And you as well. I trust all is well in your world.
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@LadyDuck (471500)
• Switzerland
18 Feb 23
I use my credit card to pay my grocery and all my common expenses. I pay the balance every end of the month. Should I die my husband would do, it makes no difference our bank account is in both names.
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
18 Feb 23
I see, I just figure out by your respond here that two persons can have one bank account
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
18 Feb 23
@LadyDuck it is far different in my country, even a person can have few banks account but in different bank
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@LadyDuck (471500)
• Switzerland
18 Feb 23
@ifa225 Yes, here in Switzerland a couple can have one bank account, you are not obliged to have two.
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@DaddyEvil (137257)
• United States
18 Feb 23
I don't have any credit cards but if I did, in the US, insurance will pay any debt if I die and there is still balance owing on a credit card.
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
18 Feb 23
You have a great insurance. I am not so sure if our insurance have the same benefit
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
19 Feb 23
@DaddyEvil I have too look more into the terma and condition of agreement
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@DaddyEvil (137257)
• United States
18 Feb 23
@ifa225 It's the insurance that the credit card issuers have that we pay a percentage on that covers that so the credit card companies don't lose their money. I'm sure your credit card companies do that, too.
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@Shivram59 (35468)
• India
18 Feb 23
@Ifa225 I don't have any debt.If I don't have money to buy a particular thing;I would prefer to live without it.
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
18 Feb 23
That is one of my principal too in living. Better to not having the things we desire than having a debt
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@Shivram59 (35468)
• India
18 Feb 23
@ifa225 I highly appreciate you for having no debts to pay.
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
19 Feb 23
@Shivram59 thank you, you do the same thing too
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@MasGion (1832)
• Malang, Indonesia
18 Feb 23
Credit card is Ok if can control it. CC for make simple... So debit must more much in balance
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
18 Feb 23
Do you talk with your wife with the deadline debt?
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@MasGion (1832)
• Malang, Indonesia
18 Feb 23
@ifa225 I don't have CC... ...pay all bill with cash or online payment
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
18 Feb 23
@MasGion that is good. We can't enter the heaven if we still have debt in this world, and I will be freaking out if I have some debt
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@sulynsi (2671)
• Canada
18 Feb 23
Interesting question. I use credit - it can be a very useful tool - as long as it is wielded to your advantage - but it can get out of control REALLY fast - so hold tight to those reins! What I don't like is the CC company periodically increases your credit limit - I hate that. They keep pushing a higher credit. I like to keep it low - and just have enough for an emergency situation - and pay it off each month. I was told, that any debt belongs to the cardholder only - so, technically, a spouse who is not personally named on the card isn't legally liable, however, two things - I would feel morally responsible and I'm sure CC companies have the clout to go after anyone they think could pay them back.
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
18 Feb 23
When we apply for a credit card, the bank ask our family's information(like spouse, parents and children) , our address and our office. So if we can pay off the debt, they will ask the family member to do it or take our land/house. Cc company have so many tricks to trap their customers
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
18 Feb 23
@sulynsi I am trying my best to stay away from bank. Sound the legislation in your country is not that strict like in mine
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@sulynsi (2671)
• Canada
18 Feb 23
@ifa225 ah, yes - sounds like they are trying to gain leverage - I think it is likely different in each country - whatever the legislation is locally.
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@Aquitaine24 (11813)
• San Jose, California
19 Feb 23
If it’s your personal card , no one directly.
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 23
Yes, but I prefer to not deal with any debt
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@Aquitaine24 (11813)
• San Jose, California
20 Feb 23
@ifa225 Fair enough.
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@jstory07 (139697)
• Roseburg, Oregon
21 Feb 23
We only use credit cards for emergencies or for a big purchase. We have enough in savings to pay the card off when we get the bill.
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
21 Feb 23
Yes, sometimes a big purchaae could push us to use it. CC give us the ease to do that
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@cacay1 (83480)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Feb 23
I I surrendered my credit card, What was the response of your husband?
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
21 Feb 23
He is a good husband, he said, "okay I will" But I wonder, till today he doesnt do it yet
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
21 Feb 23
@cacay1 I just asked him, he said that he didnt have spare time to close it... Hmmm
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@cacay1 (83480)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Feb 23
@ifa225 soon after the full payment of his debts.
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@just4him (317041)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
18 Feb 23
As long as I was married, I never once looked in my husband's wallet. We were married 21 years before we divorced. No one will pay my credit card debt. I don't own a credit card or have any debt.
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
18 Feb 23
I looked his wallet by accident. He was giving my motor cycle license card after he borrowed it in the other day Good to know you don't have any debt, debt xan make someone's life in a big mess
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@just4him (317041)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
20 Feb 23
@ifa225 Yes, it can.
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@porwest (90823)
• United States
18 Feb 23
Credit cards are a very bad idea unless it is a card that offers rewards and you pay the balance in full each month. As for who pays for the debt when you die? Your spouse does. Beyond that, your estate does if there is not a surviving spouse.
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
18 Feb 23
You get the point. If my husband die, I will be the one who pay the debt or else, the bank could took my house to pay off
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 23
@porwest yes,If I die, I don't want to left any debt for my family. I would feel better if I could leave one kilogram of gold for them
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@porwest (90823)
• United States
20 Feb 23
@ifa225 Yeah. I think it is important that while we are alive, we consider who will be left to pick up the pieces of what we leave behind...good or bad.
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@Adie04 (17360)
20 Feb 23
That's why I also don't want a credit card. I am okay with debit since most banks now offers card with debit right away.
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 23
Yes, having debt in bank means you are inviting a problem.But Debit card is a way to make us easier to cash out our money
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 23
@Adie04 if it is not necessary or in emergency, try to avoid debt as much as you can
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@Adie04 (17360)
21 Feb 23
@ifa225 I agree.
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• Indonesia
18 Feb 23
I don't have a credit card, and have no interest in having one. Living without debt is my dream.
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
18 Feb 23
True, simple dream but making us comfort. I feel so bad if I have a debt, I couldn't sleep well
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
18 Feb 23
@astutimeliana723 have a toss
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• Indonesia
18 Feb 23
@ifa225 Yeah you are right.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
19 Feb 23
I haven't thought about this question yet. I don't know how the bank deals with it. I think the spouse is responsible to pay for the debts if one of them passed away.
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 23
We were asked to give our information of another family member when we applied for CC, so the family member qill have to responsible if this thing happens
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