What do you think about children who are addicted to gadgets?
By Meli
@astutimeliana723 (4626)
Indonesia
February 19, 2023 6:20am CST
Hello everyone, good evening.
Now, I will tell you about a child who is addicted to gadgets. Android generation, that's what people call it. A situation where there are many small children and even toddlers who cannot read but are proficient at operating gadgets.
Many parents tend to let their children play gadgets as long as they are calm and can be left to take care of their home work. So that makes them addicted and lazy to interact and play with their friends and family.
For school-age children who are addicted to gadgets, it also makes them lazy to study so that their learning achievement decreases.
Now, tell me, is the same problem common in your country? What do you think about children who are addicted to gadgets? What is the best solution for dealing with gadget-addicted children? Thank You.
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@DaddyEvil (137257)
• United States
19 Feb 23
When even the schools here give the kids gadgets to do their school work on, what do you think parents are going to do? Everything in this country is already geared to people using gadgets... most work is done on a laptop, tablet or phone. Most people are becoming more inclined to "talk" with friends over gadgets rather than face-to-face or even sending texts instead of calling them.
I make, on average, five phone calls in a month. I send, on average, 2,000 texts in a month and receive a lot more than that.
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@astutimeliana723 (4626)
• Indonesia
19 Feb 23
The problem is they tend to use it to watch youtube or play games.
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@DaddyEvil (137257)
• United States
19 Feb 23
@astutimeliana723 In school they don't...
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@astutimeliana723 (4626)
• Indonesia
19 Feb 23
The rules at my school used to prohibit their students from playing cellphones during class hours, some even forbade bringing cellphones.
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@DaddyEvil (137257)
• United States
19 Feb 23
Parents are lazy... Anything that means they are free to do what they want without worrying about the kids, works for them.
Parents younger than me used television to "babysit" their kids... I didn't but that's because I wanted to spend as much time with my kids as I could. I LIKE kids.
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@astutimeliana723 (4626)
• Indonesia
19 Feb 23
I thought only here. Even I was only allowed to have my own cell phone, when I was of high school age.
The rules at my school used to prohibit their students from playing cellphones during class hours, some even forbade bringing cellphones.
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@rakski (122314)
• Philippines
19 Feb 23
this is happening everywhere. The pandemic seems to increase this more to the next level because all the students are mostly required to have a gadget that they can use either for communication or for school work. Nowadays, they cannot seem to have schoolwork based on paper and pen alone.
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@rakski (122314)
• Philippines
20 Feb 23
@astutimeliana723 true but still parents have a big part on this
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@astutimeliana723 (4626)
• Indonesia
19 Feb 23
@Rakski I am think so. Actually it doesn't matter if small children carry cell phones, as long as they are used properly. It's only for communication as needed, not for playing games or watching YouTube excessively.
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@Adie04 (17360)
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20 Feb 23
Children who addicted to gadgets? Bad. Only that. It is not wrong to expose them to gadgets, but it is wrong to let them do what they wish to gadgets. That's why even younger people nowadays have eye problems than us. Even my cousin's children wear almost 400+ degree glasses at high school. I am in my university, and not even wear glasses yet.
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@Adie04 (17360)
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20 Feb 23
@astutimeliana723 And ask me 'why do you haven't wear glasses yet at your age....' and I go
Kid, take care of your eyes, kid!
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@astutimeliana723 (4626)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 23
That's the reality of many young children and even small children who wear glasses.
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@MrDenata (12248)
• Indonesia
21 Feb 23
We cant avoid it, its part of lifestyle now, the only thing we can do as parents, just make sure our kids use it to study on the weekdays and on weekend they can spend more time on gadgets.
Remember, children see children do, so as adult we have to be a role model for them, we have to remember that we spend most of our time on our phone too, and kids see that, right?
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@astutimeliana723 (4626)
• Indonesia
21 Feb 23
@MrDenata The problem is that there is a mother who allows her toddler to play with gadgets, so she can be calm and left to take care of the house. I don't think that's good.
@astutimeliana723 (4626)
• Indonesia
21 Feb 23
Yes, you're right, it's okay as long as it's not excessive, and still under adult supervision.
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@snowy22315 (180452)
• United States
19 Feb 23
I think they miss too much of life that way honestly.
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@snowy22315 (180452)
• United States
19 Feb 23
@astutimeliana723 With a gadget addiction
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@astutimeliana723 (4626)
• Indonesia
19 Feb 23
Life with gadgets or without gadgets?
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 23
@astutimeliana723 nope, they use the gadget to do their homework, they talking in grup WA, they are making video about their daily activities, they selfie.. Only name a few
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@astutimeliana723 (4626)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 23
@ifa225 Maybe the teacher assigned it like that. Too bad small children are already preoccupied with gadgets.
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@astutimeliana723 (4626)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 23
Yes, you are right. Now they are studying as usual without gadgets, right?
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@Archie0 (5652)
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20 Feb 23
I have a friend whose daughter is addicted to her mobile phone. It’s pretty irritating for me because the little girl does not eat food without the phone and YouTube, she does not play, she won’t talk. Nothing.
Once we went in a restaurant and her mother refused to give her the phone. The little girl was yelling and screaming and not eating food and she went on everyone’s table picked their cutlery and threw them around which was pretty annoying and embarrassing
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@marguicha (222844)
• Chile
19 Feb 23
I see that in my country and in my own younger grandchildren. I can´t say anything to them. I don´t like it.
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@marguicha (222844)
• Chile
19 Feb 23
@astutimeliana723 My daughter does what she can and I think that Sofía, the addicted one, is less addicted since her father went out of their lives. Claudia sent Sofía to another school where she has friends, she invites children and her former husband (the father of her 2 bigger children) is taking all of them hiking on Sundays to "put some weight off" after the pandemia.
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@astutimeliana723 (4626)
• Indonesia
19 Feb 23
Below is good response from @Beestring :
I think parents can do something. Engage the kids in other activities such as go hiking with them; let them learn painting or playing some musical instruments; attend concerts with them; encourage them to play basketball, football or badminton. If they are busy with so many activities, they won't be just playing gadgets.
v I am agree with you too.
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@RebeccasFarm (89831)
• Arvada, Colorado
21 Feb 23
I think the parents need to start leaving those kids somewhere else
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@RebeccasFarm (89831)
• Arvada, Colorado
21 Feb 23
@astutimeliana723 Because they wont listen and get off the technology
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
22 Feb 23
@astutimeliana723 However, technology use has proven to be good for kids, too. Go figure.
Anything in moderation is my motto.
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@astutimeliana723 (4626)
• Indonesia
22 Feb 23
Yes you are right. I am agree with you. For small children, we should not be given access to playing cellphones, it's better to just be busy with physical activity.
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@astutimeliana723 (4626)
• Indonesia
22 Feb 23
@DianneN Yes, that's right, as long as it's not used excessively, and it's still under parental supervision.
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@aninditasen (16382)
• Raurkela, India
19 Feb 23
Children should be groomed or trained to what extent they should stick to a gadget. The TV came when we were young. My parents and we did control our children how long and what should we watch on a TV. It's the grooming that will do away with addiction.
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@aninditasen (16382)
• Raurkela, India
20 Feb 23
@astutimeliana723 No, gadget is bad. It's how we use it.
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@astutimeliana723 (4626)
• Indonesia
19 Feb 23
Good idea. I am agree with you. Thank you for sharing.
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@Beestring (14527)
• Hong Kong
19 Feb 23
I think parents can do something. Engage the kids in other activities such as go hiking with them; let them learn painting or playing some musical instruments; attend concerts with them; encourage them to play basketball, football or badminton. If they are busy with so many activities, they won't be just playing gadgets.
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@astutimeliana723 (4626)
• Indonesia
19 Feb 23
Good idea. I am agree with you. Thank you for sharing.
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@astutimeliana723 (4626)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 23
You can see his comment, the best solution that we can do it. @ifa225
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 23
@astutimeliana723 I did, but it seems there is a glue in their hand and they don't want to leave their gadget
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@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
21 Feb 23
I also notice this with the new generation that are more inclined with using gadgets and being on the screen more than actually doing physical activities. I understand that the pandemic somehow added to this, yet even without the pandemic, as most entertainment and distractions can be accessed with these gadgets that have internet access, it is an inevitability.
Parents should be vigilant in training their children to have balanced time for gadgets and actual activities that are essential for their growth. This means parents as well need to be examples for this and not just dictating instructions to their children but be also the ones who don't follow what they want to impose on their children's welfare.
We understand that certain things are easier and much convenient in using these gadgets, but there is also consideration to what is permissible and what is actually beneficial.
For harsher methods, just deny them internet access.
@astutimeliana723 (4626)
• Indonesia
21 Feb 23
Good answer, I am very agree with you. Thank you very much for sharing.
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@astutimeliana723 (4626)
• Indonesia
19 Feb 23
But if it's an adult as long as he doesn't neglect his duties it's okay.
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@astutimeliana723 (4626)
• Indonesia
19 Feb 23
Yes you are right. I am agree with you.
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@Gguusia (398)
• Poland
19 Feb 23
Unfortunately, you are largely right. Sometimes I see in my children that it absorbs them. In my case, they don't take their phones with them to school, they have to take a break from the computer and phone from time to time and I check it, I often take part in various activities myself. We go out for a walk, do household chores together, read. I don't think you can stop them from using these gadgets, but give them them for a certain period of time, not all day long.
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@astutimeliana723 (4626)
• Indonesia
19 Feb 23
I am think so. Actually it doesn't matter if small children carry cell phones, as long as they are used properly. It's only for communication as needed, not for playing games or watching YouTube excessively.
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@solidcodes (1764)
• Philippines
19 Feb 23
The parents must limit their kids to use gadgets.
Otherwise it will not productive.
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@astutimeliana723 (4626)
• Indonesia
19 Feb 23
Yeah, you are right. I am agree with you. Thank you.
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