Random memory #4,111. Did you play with "kids on the block" as a child?

@TheHorse (218868)
Walnut Creek, California
February 24, 2023 11:41am CST
I think I've written about this before, but it's what's on my mind as I sip my second cup of coffee. When I was growing up in Chicago, there were a lot of families on our block. On Summer evenings we would play four square, free elimination, baseball or football catch, and other games. Both boys and girls were included. After school and on weekends, the boys would play touch football, baseball or basketball, and bounce or fly or "strikeout" if we couldn't round up enough kids for team sports. We were not around nature. so we did not hike or take long bike rides into the countryside. In my dotage, I note how rare it is to see kids just "playing" on the block. This has been the case for some 20 years. Did you have "kids on the block" when you were growing up? Did you play outside together? Do you see kids playing on the block where you live now?
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@FourWalls (68032)
• United States
24 Feb 23
No, my mother was afraid I’d put my eye out if I left the back yard.
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@FourWalls (68032)
• United States
27 Feb 23
@akalinus — I don’t know HOW that ol’ worrywart survived having both her kids in the Navy at the same time!
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@akalinus (43196)
• United States
28 Feb 23
@FourWalls I had a kid in the Navy. I remember a ship was attacked and sailors lost in the same area as my son's ship. It can be nerve-wracking at times.
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@akalinus (43196)
• United States
26 Feb 23
I am laughing but your mother just wanted you to be safe and survive your childhood in one piece. You can't fault her for that.
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@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
25 Feb 23
When I was growing up, we lived way out in the countryside. There were two boys and a girl who lived within four miles of us. Once in a while we'd all go bike riding together or rode horses together but none of us cared for team sports even if we had enough people for that. (The closest city to us was 7 miles away.) I can remember when there were more families with kids living close to us and they often came to our house and played baseball with my older brothers but I was considered "too little" to play with them.
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@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
25 Feb 23
@TheHorse Most of the time I rode my bike or one of our horses all over the countryside by myself... I didn't really care if I had human company or not.
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@TheHorse (218868)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Feb 23
Do you remember those days fondly? I sometimes miss just playing.
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@TheHorse (218868)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Feb 23
@DaddyEvil I rode my horse around here solo a lot. I enjoyed her company.
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@marguicha (223021)
• Chile
24 Feb 23
Of course I played with the kids on the block when I was a child. My daughters are old enough to have had the same experience. That is not done any longer.
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@TheHorse (218868)
• Walnut Creek, California
24 Feb 23
It is so sad to me. Were video games to blame? And then the internet?
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@ptrikha_2 (46953)
• India
25 Feb 23
@TheHorse Kids are much more addicted to Internet. Some start keeping a mobile phone even by the age of 10! So it all does impact the physical activity.
@marguicha (223021)
• Chile
25 Feb 23
@TheHorse Video games are to blame in part. But in the older generation moms worked part time while the children were little and the children had a lot more of family time and time to play with neighbors. There was always one or 2 moms looking.
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@LeaPea2417 (37353)
• Toccoa, Georgia
24 Feb 23
Yes I did and I miss those days.
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@akalinus (43196)
• United States
28 Feb 23
@TheHorse Playing hide and seek in the dark makes it so much more exciting.
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@TheHorse (218868)
• Walnut Creek, California
28 Feb 23
@akalinus It is! I actually enjoy playing hide and seek with 4-year-olds because they hide in such conspicuous places. I pretend I can't see them until I hear them giggling.
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@TheHorse (218868)
• Walnut Creek, California
24 Feb 23
I was no fool at 14. I remember playing outside on a Summer evening and thinking, "How much better than this does it get?"
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
25 Feb 23
Yes, when I was growing up we played outside, in the woods and pastures and creeks. Anywhere our feet could take us. Those were the days. Kids know nothing about that kind of play these days.
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@TheHorse (218868)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Feb 23
Ironically, the poor kids I worked with as a mentor do now. We hiked in the hills. We visited petting ranches. We climbed real rock formations. We played catch. But will those early experiences stick with them?
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@akalinus (43196)
• United States
28 Feb 23
@TheHorse They will remember them.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
25 Feb 23
@TheHorse I think good memories will stick, I don't see kids playing, They are either doing computer games or off to dancing lessons or ball practice.
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@mrki444 (15149)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
24 Feb 23
Yes we did every day. There was around 7 of us and we every day together.
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@TheHorse (218868)
• Walnut Creek, California
24 Feb 23
Do you remember those days fondly, as I do?
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@TheHorse (218868)
• Walnut Creek, California
24 Feb 23
@mrki444 Sounds like fun! I hope it was not red ants.
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@mrki444 (15149)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
24 Feb 23
@TheHorse Yes I do. There was a fight, teers, laugh. I remember day when we organized picknick - in middle of anthill hahaha. There was arrows and bows, rocks. In winter we even had a skii ground.
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@ptrikha_2 (46953)
• India
25 Feb 23
Till 10 years of age, I grew up in a small town sort of Traditional, highly interactive setting. We used to had even 25 to 28 people playing cricket, across all ages! Then I did play a few of the games with other kids of my age. When ny place changed, it was mainly me and my brother who used to play. Others were mich lesser. Now we have playgrounds and some small fields in our Apartment complex but somehow the old charms thing is missing! Yet kids do still play together; albeit in smaller groups.
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@TheHorse (218868)
• Walnut Creek, California
26 Feb 23
I am glad they still play together.
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@TheHorse (218868)
• Walnut Creek, California
26 Feb 23
I am also glad that the adults and kids played together.
@kaylachan (69727)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
24 Feb 23
My parents were afraid to let me out of the house. But, I didn't really see kids out often. I don't really see it much now come to think of it.
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@TheHorse (218868)
• Walnut Creek, California
24 Feb 23
Why were they afraid to let you out of the house?
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@kaylachan (69727)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
24 Feb 23
@TheHorse A number of things. I was on medication that had me tired all the time. They also had experiences of kids disappearing and what not when they were younger, and were afraid I'd get taken. Standing in my driveway, between two cars, was something my parents freaked out over.
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@TheHorse (218868)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Feb 23
@kaylachan Ah got it. Where did you grow up?
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@LadyDuck (471541)
• Switzerland
25 Feb 23
Mom invited two kids who lived in the apartment next to us and we went sometimes to their apartment to play. We never played in the streets.
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@LadyDuck (471541)
• Switzerland
25 Feb 23
@TheHorse - Yes, I grew up in Italy, inside an apartment we could not play games that could make too much noise. We made constructions with wooden cubes, we painted, we arrived to play hide and seek, as the apartment was pretty big.
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@TheHorse (218868)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Feb 23
What kinds of games did you play? You grew up in Italy, right?
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@TheHorse (218868)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Feb 23
@LadyDuck As I recall, we lived in an apartment when we lived in Rome. We did not play outside there either. But I was very young. I think I was four, and my brother, three.
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@akalinus (43196)
• United States
24 Feb 23
Only one place I lived had kids around the block. We played games like Red Rover, Mother May I? and many more including dodgeball. It was fun but we moved and there were no more kids around the block after that.
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@akalinus (43196)
• United States
24 Feb 23
@TheHorse Sometimes I did. It was just another thing and we moved on somewhere else. I think my parents had wanderlust.
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@TheHorse (218868)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Feb 23
@akalinus Heh. Was it new jobs that led them to move?
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@TheHorse (218868)
• Walnut Creek, California
24 Feb 23
Do you ever miss the days of playing with kids on the block? really enjoyed it.
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@JudyEv (340019)
• Rockingham, Australia
25 Feb 23
I lived on a farm but occasionally the neighbour's son would walk the mile to our place and we'd play games or whatever or I'd walk to his place. It's unusual to see groups of kids playing here. You see groups at parks and playgrounds but almost always with adults nearby.
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@TheHorse (218868)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Feb 23
In "my day," kids ruled the neighborhood, and there were no adults around to go "mwa mwa mwa."
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@JudyEv (340019)
• Rockingham, Australia
25 Feb 23
@TheHorse Times have changed but not always for the better.
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@spiderdust (14761)
• San Jose, California
25 Feb 23
We were rural and didn't really have neighbors, or at least the closest neighbor was a mile away. We mostly played with ourselves and didn't have a lot of other kids to play with.
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@TheHorse (218868)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Feb 23
How many sibs did you have?
@TheHorse (218868)
• Walnut Creek, California
28 Feb 23
@spiderdust Oh oh. Did you have to "watch" the littlies?
@spiderdust (14761)
• San Jose, California
28 Feb 23
@TheHorse Seven, and I was the oldest.
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@LindaOHio (178701)
• United States
25 Feb 23
Oh, absolutely. We played every night during the summer until the street lights came on. I never see kids out playing these days. They are inside on their computers or Game Boys.
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@TheHorse (218868)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Feb 23
Yeah, it's kind of sad. But my parents thought my brother and I would wind up as illiterate zombies because of TV. We didn't.
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@LindaOHio (178701)
• United States
26 Feb 23
@TheHorse No, you're definitely not illiterate or a zombie.
@MarieCoyle (37515)
2 Mar 23
My childhood started in the Chicago area; I was born there. We played with neighbor children and there was no fear there of doing that. We did have a small woods behind our house, we were even allowed to go there at times as well. Now, if a child has a friend to play with a few blocks away, a parent does not feel safe letting the child just walk there, or ride a bike there...heck, I wouldn't either! It's a whole different world than we grew up in. My son said one day, Mom, it's sad. He said he felt like his generation was probably the last one that had that freedom, to go to a friends on a bike, to go to the ice cream shop or to just feel free to go to a friends' house. It's just not very safe anymore, and it's sad.
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@MarieCoyle (37515)
2 Mar 23
We lived several places there. Thorton, Park Forest, and then Des Plaines. Thorton and Park Forest areas where our homes were there are no longer nice family neighborhoods--they are basically slum like. Des Plaines area we were in is still very nice, though. We had some family in what is referred to as ''Roseland'' and they had nice homes and it was a safe area then. Now it's just scary.
@BarBaraPrz (47313)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
24 Feb 23
Nope, not really.
@crossbones27 (49463)
• Mojave, California
24 Feb 23
We did but was kind of different, apartment kids on the block. When I visited Chicago. There was a park or some nature reserve type place right across from my sisters dads condo. I took the Legend of the Tristan and now old Brooker's but was puppy Brookers then. I was dumb, very few city people use this neatness. If I see a person just will make them and I jump in the bushes. Its about 1 PM. Dammit Elementary class getting all edumacated.Quick meanies, turn around! Dammit people do use this place. Jump to the left and teacher goes, Do you have them? Meaning giant legend of Tristan and so hyper but nearly fully grown Brooklyn. I have them. They stroll past us. The jerks let them get half of the kids through. Then both, go crazy, rahhhh rahhhh, rahhh. I held on so tight, but that class received a quick tour of nature that day. Tristan said, you moving to slow, speed it up, I need to see nature too.
@jstory07 (139717)
• Roseburg, Oregon
24 Feb 23
We used to play hide and seek outside when I was a kid.
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@TheHorse (218868)
• Walnut Creek, California
24 Feb 23
I was trying to remember if we played hide and seek when I was a kid. The younger children I work with love hide and seek.
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@wolfgirl569 (106298)
• Marion, Ohio
25 Feb 23
There was a few of us out here. Thankfully my boys got to do that too
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@wolfgirl569 (106298)
• Marion, Ohio
25 Feb 23
@TheHorse They are. One is Monsters daddy
@TheHorse (218868)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Feb 23
I'm glad they did. Are they adults now?
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@RasmaSandra (79858)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
24 Feb 23
My mom and dad never let me play out on the street. They took me to a park where I could also ride my tricycle. We lived in a large apartment house with a courtyard and on warm days when no one had time to take me to the park mom let me ride my tricycle around the courtyard and she could look down from our fifth floor apartment and see me,
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
24 Feb 23
I grew up playing on the block and in the woods with the kids who lived on my block. Unfortunately, I don't see that here in Florida, but do see it less frequently in CT. My grandkids have friends over to their house and vice versa when they have time. They have room to play in their yard - trampoline, pool, woods, and large driveway area. No one wants them playing in the road these days. Me included. Boy, times have changed.