Some words no longer mean what they once did

@JudyEv (342598)
Rockingham, Australia
March 3, 2023 4:43pm CST
I’ve just reread another of my old children’s books and discovered I won it at a music eisteddfod – Piano Duet under 15 years. My second cousin and I were regularly entered for both solo and duet competitions. We learnt piano at the convent and had a stern but knowledgeable nun as a teacher. The book is The Lark in the Morn by Elfrida Vipont, and gives a fascinating insight into a Quaker household of the mid-twentieth century. It was first printed in 1948. The central character is a twelve-year-old girl, said by her brothers, to be a ‘queer little thing’, as in ‘strange’. If this ever gets reprinted they might need to revise the text somewhat.
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@wolfgirl569 (108920)
• Marion, Ohio
4 Mar 23
Gay is another one of those words. And it's in many Christmas songs
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@wolfgirl569 (108920)
• Marion, Ohio
4 Mar 23
@JudyEv They have to be looked at in the context they are being used. But people get offended to easily anymore
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@JudyEv (342598)
• Rockingham, Australia
4 Mar 23
Yes, that's true. I guess there are quite a few no-longer-acceptable words out there.
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@JudyEv (342598)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Mar 23
@wolfgirl569 That's very true. Times have changed, as have attitudes. These things need to be looked at in context.
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@LindaOHio (183180)
• United States
4 Mar 23
It's just like gay used to refer to something happy. So many things change over the years. Have a good weekend.
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@JudyEv (342598)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Mar 23
'Gay' was one of the first to change it's meaning. I wonder how it came to be used for homosexuality.
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@JudyEv (342598)
• Rockingham, Australia
6 Mar 23
@LindaOHio Thanks for that. So it seems basically just one of those things that 'gay' got its present day meaning.
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@LindaOHio (183180)
• United States
6 Mar 23
@JudyEv You're welcome. Yes, it seems so.
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@rebelann (113070)
• El Paso, Texas
4 Mar 23
Yes, anymore the word wouldn't be perceived as intended. I wonder just how many old words have completely changed over the decades.
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@JudyEv (342598)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Mar 23
There is probably a heap of them. Even here, I sometimes write a 'bad' word but had no idea it was unacceptable.
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@RasmaSandra (81195)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
3 Mar 23
What wonderful memories and great that you still have these books. You are right because queer has gained a bad reputation,
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@RasmaSandra (81195)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
4 Mar 23
@JudyEv perhaps a library or a library in a grade school
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@JudyEv (342598)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Mar 23
@RasmaSandra Maybe. I'll keep thinking about it.
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@JudyEv (342598)
• Rockingham, Australia
4 Mar 23
I don't know what to do with the books. I really would like to find a nice home for them but I'm not sure where they would be. lol
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
5 Mar 23
Stern and knowledgeable nun- they’re the same until now
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
5 Mar 23
@JudyEv for some reasons, i’m afraid of nuns huhu
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@JudyEv (342598)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Mar 23
I didn't attend a convent school but learnt piano from the nuns.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
4 Mar 23
The word Queer doesn't mean what it did years ago.
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@JudyEv (342598)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Mar 23
@RubyHawk I've done that here too - several times. And once or twice I couldn't work out what was wrong. I'd never heard the word used in a 'bad' context before.
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@JudyEv (342598)
• Rockingham, Australia
4 Mar 23
No, that's for sure. You need to be more careful nowadays.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
5 Mar 23
@JudyEv I used a word that was forbidden on mylot that did not mean the same thing to me as to them.
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@BarBaraPrz (47840)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
4 Mar 23
She may have been a 'queer little thing' but I bet she was 'gay' too (in the old sense).
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@JudyEv (342598)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Mar 23
So true! She was both these things. And somewhere along the way, a Mrs P*ssy was mentioned because she spoke/meowed like a cat! That would have to come out too.
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@snowy22315 (182856)
• United States
4 Mar 23
Yes, in today's parlance, it might be subject to misinterpretation.
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@JudyEv (342598)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Mar 23
There are few words that we now need to avoid - or at least be careful how and where we use them.
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@RebeccasFarm (90568)
• Arvada, Colorado
4 Mar 23
I had never heard of that word Judy. This is so precious.
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@JudyEv (342598)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Mar 23
Times have certainly changed, haven't they?
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@rakski (126912)
• Philippines
4 Mar 23
Good old memories. Yes revision of the text is surely needed if it gets reprinted
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@JudyEv (342598)
• Rockingham, Australia
4 Mar 23
We thought nothing of these words once. Now it's a bit of a minefield.
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@rakski (126912)
• Philippines
4 Mar 23
@JudyEv true!!
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• Eugene, Oregon
3 Mar 23
Yes, they might. It does still carry it original meaning too, but no one would take it that way, When I was in high school it was a big insult that could cause a fight. Now it is a word of pride.
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@JudyEv (342598)
• Rockingham, Australia
4 Mar 23
The wheel is again turning full circle in some areas, isn't it?
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• Eugene, Oregon
4 Mar 23
@JudyEv Seems to be.
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@Dena91 (16715)
• United States
4 Mar 23
One of my pet peeves is the constant changing of the meaning of words. When we watched Colonel March of Scotland Yard, the Colonel was the head of the Department of Queer Complaints in Scotland Yard.
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@JudyEv (342598)
• Rockingham, Australia
4 Mar 23
Really?? That's very funny. So did they mean strange complaints or complaints about gay people?
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@Dena91 (16715)
• United States
4 Mar 23
@JudyEv They were referring to strange/unusual complaints.
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@Ronrybs (19621)
• London, England
5 Mar 23
Decimate is another that seems to have changed. Now people use it as if was a loss of nine out of ten, instead of only one in ten
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@JudyEv (342598)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Mar 23
Is that so? I didn't know that. I would have gone with the nine out of ten.
@aninditasen (16522)
• Raurkela, India
4 Mar 23
These words are still used but rarely.
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@JudyEv (342598)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Mar 23
They mean something completely different now.
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@aninditasen (16522)
• Raurkela, India
5 Mar 23
@JudyEv There is a difference between the two words. The sense comes out according to the way we use it in a sentence.
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@sarik1 (7299)
4 Mar 23
Nice old memories .
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@JudyEv (342598)
• Rockingham, Australia
4 Mar 23
I've enjoyed re-reading my old books.
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