I've been chief cook, bottle-washer AND chauffeur - or should that be chauffeuse?

@JudyEv (342448)
Rockingham, Australia
March 10, 2023 2:37am CST
Have you heard of someone being the chief cook and bottle-washer? It’s an old saying. Generally, my husband, Vince, is the chief cook and I clean the dishes. But Vince was put on very strong antibiotics over a couple of weeks ago. He has come off them now. However, his blood pressure has stayed quite high and he gets a bit dizzy when he walks so I’ve been driving whenever we go anywhere. Today, I sat for over an hour in the dentist’s waiting room while he had a filling. Luckily, I took a book with me. But, for the moment, I’m the chief cook, the bottle-washer AND the chauffeur. The photo is from the motor museum we visited recently. Notice the way the headlights are secured. I’ll write more about it later and include a close-up of the steps into the rear seats.
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@DaddyEvil (137942)
• United States
10 Mar 23
I was going to ask if that was the car you've been driving. Yes, we have that saying here, too. Usually, that's my title at our house.
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@JudyEv (342448)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Mar 23
I think I would enhance that car's appearance if I were to drive it.
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@DaddyEvil (137942)
• United States
10 Mar 23
@JudyEv I'm positive you would. Beautiful women always make cars look better.
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@JudyEv (342448)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Mar 23
@DaddyEvil Aww shucks.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
10 Mar 23
Glad you took book with you . I don't like that waiting period when we visit doctor. Nice car there .
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@JudyEv (342448)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Mar 23
It's a cute car - and very shiny!! I actually finished a whole book but it wasn't a long one.
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@flapiz (23153)
• United Kingdom
10 Mar 23
Oh bless. I think Vince needs to see the doctor again to get that blood pressure in check. How high is it? That's good partnership as you picked up what he cannot do for the time being.
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@JudyEv (342448)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Mar 23
He sees the doctor next week. He has been taking his blood pressure each morning and documenting it for the doctor to see.
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@flapiz (23153)
• United Kingdom
10 Mar 23
@JudyEv Well done Vince! I hope it gets sorted. How are your blood pressures Judy?
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@JudyEv (342448)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Mar 23
@flapiz Mine are always okay, thanks. I'm not on any medications apart from Prolia which is injected into my stomach for osteoporosis.
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@jstory07 (140343)
• Roseburg, Oregon
10 Mar 23
You sure are good to your husband . I like that old car to.
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@JudyEv (342448)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Mar 23
Now we're older we need to look out for each other a bit more.
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@Ronrybs (19622)
• London, England
10 Mar 23
I do all that here, except chauffeur as I don't have a car!
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@JudyEv (342448)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Mar 23
I was looking forward to a bit of 'me' time but I did get a whole book read although it was a small one.
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@JudyEv (342448)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Mar 23
@Ronrybs The more the better. Life should be all about ME.
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@Ronrybs (19622)
• London, England
10 Mar 23
@JudyEv Always like to have a bit of 'me' time... well, a lot actually!
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@arunima25 (87852)
• Bangalore, India
10 Mar 23
You are playing multiple roles there. Hope you get enough rest. That's a nice picture. I always carry a book and my phone for mylotting if I expect some wait period somewhere.
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@JudyEv (342448)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Mar 23
I am much better to have a book with it. I don't get nearly so impatient.
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@JudyEv (342448)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Mar 23
@arunima25 I used to take my crochet but I don't do so much any more.
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@arunima25 (87852)
• Bangalore, India
10 Mar 23
@JudyEv The same is with me. I am also a very patient person. But having some engagement like reading or online work is a productive use of that time.
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@shaggin (72355)
• United States
10 Mar 23
His blood pressure is high due to the sickness or due to the medicine he has to take? Does he take any medicine usually for high blood pressure? Bottle washer and driver isn’t to bad as long as you aren’t a nervous driver. However cook, bottle washer and driver might be too much to ask for in a marriage
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@shaggin (72355)
• United States
11 Mar 23
@JudyEv that’s good then hopefully when the medicine is done his blood pressure will return to normal.
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@JudyEv (342448)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Mar 23
I'm pretty sure it's due to the medicine and he has tablets for it. He sees the doctor again this week.
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@yanzalong (18987)
• Indonesia
10 Mar 23
You mean you are handling all? The cars are great to me.
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@JudyEv (342448)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Mar 23
I'm glad you like the car. There are more to come.
@marguicha (224001)
• Chile
10 Mar 23
I love those ancient cars!
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@JudyEv (342448)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Mar 23
This is just so cute! I'm sure I'd look really good in it.
@allknowing (138267)
• India
11 Mar 23
That was quite a load on you. Hope you will soon get assistance.
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@allknowing (138267)
• India
11 Mar 23
@JudyEv That is a positive attitude
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@JudyEv (342448)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Mar 23
It's okay really and I need the practice driving in the city.
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@RebeccasFarm (90572)
• Arvada, Colorado
10 Mar 23
So you had to do it all then Judy.. What a beautiful car.
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@JudyEv (342448)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Mar 23
I need the practice driving in the city so it's all good really.
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• Arvada, Colorado
11 Mar 23
@JudyEv Bless you Judy
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@Juliaacv (51661)
• Canada
10 Mar 23
Hopefully now that his prescription is finished his blood pressure will lower to normal. I think that I have filled all of those 'job' titles also.
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@JudyEv (342448)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Mar 23
He sees the doctor next week. He's not quite so dizzy this evening so that's a good thing.
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@RasmaSandra (81089)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
10 Mar 23
Really nice looking cars, I have heard that plenty of times before,
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@RasmaSandra (81089)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
11 Mar 23
@JudyEv yep, I believe it comes from the days when many did not have dishwashers,
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@JudyEv (342448)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Mar 23
It's an old saying, isn't it?
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@Beestring (14713)
• Hong Kong
10 Mar 23
First time I heard of this saying. Learned something new. That's a nice car.
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@JudyEv (342448)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Mar 23
It is an old saying so I'm surprised that it might be new to some people. I'm glad you like the car.
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@BarBaraPrz (47787)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
10 Mar 23
I almost always have a book with me, or a simple cross-stitch project. Yes, I noticed the headlight apparatus.
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@JudyEv (342448)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Mar 23
I used to take my crochet but I don't do so much any more.
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@rebelann (113046)
• El Paso, Texas
10 Mar 23
I love old cars like this one, if only I were a mechanic I'd try to find one for myself.
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@rebelann (113046)
• El Paso, Texas
11 Mar 23
Yes, back then they made cars to last.
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@JudyEv (342448)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Mar 23
The workmanship is quite amazing.
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@Fleura (30544)
• United Kingdom
10 Mar 23
Hope Vince's teeth are fine and his blood pressure comes down. Maybe the thought of going to the dentist was causing stress?
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@JudyEv (342448)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Mar 23
It was certainly causing stress! He had a double whisky so he could have gas so he could have the needle. Well, slight exaggeration but why spoil a good story. He does seem better tonight. He sees the doctor again next week.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
10 Mar 23
I've done the same for my husband, and he has done the same for me. I still like my new car better
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
11 Mar 23
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@JudyEv (342448)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Mar 23
It's give and take in a marriage, isn't it? I have a car coming up that might change your mind.
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@Shiva49 (26799)
• Singapore
10 Mar 23
Good that you can easily step into his shoes (with flying colors?) I hope Vince is back in good health soon and wish him godspeed.
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@JudyEv (342448)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Mar 23
Thanks for the good wishes. He sees the doctor again next week.
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@LindaOHio (182770)
• United States
13 Mar 23
I hope Vince feels better soon. That's a snazzy looking car.
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@JudyEv (342448)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Mar 23
The maker made every part of it himself. That's pretty amazing on its own.