What causes a person like to be busy when talking and difficult to explain something?
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@itsmelay (14)
March 10, 2023 8:29am CST
I'm one of those people who talk when they talk :)
I even find it very difficult to explain what I think and what I want to say. So many things I think about, the more passionate I want to say that, but the more grouse I talk.
I realized one thing, the reason is because I rarely listen to.
If I want to talk about something, I feel like no one wants to listen. It started from harboring all the things I wanted to say.
Since I've never been listened to, I don't know what it's like to be listened to.
I was so busy listening to others that I realized that I was very rarely listened to.
Even though I have a lot of things to say, I just need a good listener and am interested in what I say.
But apparently no one was interested, so I kept everything myself.
That's what I realize why my talk likes to be grouse.
It turned out that because I didn't know what it was like to listen to, and I was too busy listening.
" Why say it? Other people won't listen to him either. "
That's a word that often comes to my mind when I want to say something.
Because I've never been listened to, the less I talk, that's why when someone wants to listen to me and there are many things I think about, once I talk when I say it, I always talk.
Because I'm not used to talking, the things I want to say are unstructured.
Guess so.
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@Aquitaine24 (11813)
• San Jose, California
10 Mar 23
Talking when you talk is an interesting concept.
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@theinvisbleink (11)
• Canada
17 Mar 23
I can totally relate to the part where you feel like no one is listening when you speak. I guess that is why I don't talk as much. However, I am a listener because I know how it feels when people don't listen to what you have to say.