Dating

@Maxveg (212)
Kisumu, Kenya
March 23, 2023 12:59pm CST
Hii guys, I'm New here... would like to know how to approach a lady, I'm a shy person and anytime I come across a lady I feel afraid to talk to her but down my heart I'm willing to.kindly assist
8 people like this
10 responses
• Indonesia
24 Mar 23
Hi, i don't understand how to use this
@LadyDuck (471456)
• Switzerland
24 Mar 23
Hello and welcome to myLot. To approach a lady do not be too agreesive but try not to be too shy. Just be yourself, start talking of something funny or interesting.
@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
24 Mar 23
Welcome to the site!! Hope you enjoy your time here. You need to gain some confidence for it. You need to be bold enough to tell this lady how you feel for her.
@Yadah04 (3363)
• Philippines
24 Mar 23
Welcome here. As for being shy, that is not a problem. a lot of girls actually like shy guys than those very confident guys. You can start by smiling and making small talk.
@Fa_Maverick (9487)
• Australia
24 Mar 23
Welcome welcome. Here is a bit of advice 1) Most important: Take no for an answer. Don't be that dude... She is not playing hard to get (if she is you dont want her cause immature), she does not need convincing that you would be awesome to date. The way I phrased that made it seem like I had more to say uh... 2) Ask if she wants to hangout first so you can get to know each other. You don't know her and it could turn out that she is a total psycho and a man beater. Seriously, the amount of men that just go "youd be amazing to date you are so kind" without knowing me is alarming... I literally could be a black widow (someone that offs their partners) and you wouldnt know that. 3) if she says yes pay very close attention to how she speaks to: cashiers, cleaners, anyone in customer service. Also how she talks about people you may come across: homeless etc. Yeah she can have her opinions about them but do you want to be around someone with their opinions.
@thebos (5960)
• Kisumu, Kenya
24 Mar 23
Welcome to the site Approaching a lady, just be yourself
@kaylachan (69892)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
23 Mar 23
Just go for it, even if you choak. Women and sometimes men, don't mind an an akward person. The more you do it, the easier it gets.
@Icydoll (36717)
• India
23 Mar 23
Welcome to mylot . Have good time here
@frenki (1693)
• Serbia
23 Mar 23
Welcome to myLot, make sure to check out the rules here and have fun! As for advice, not sure if I have a good one, you simply have to overcome your fear and do it. And then do it again, and again. Unless you are lucky and it works out first time for you :)
@leighnyork (1880)
23 Mar 23
All you have to do is gain courage.