Dating
By Kennedy Ouma
@Maxveg (212)
Kisumu, Kenya
10 responses
@Fa_Maverick (9487)
• Australia
24 Mar 23
Welcome welcome. Here is a bit of advice
1) Most important: Take no for an answer. Don't be that dude... She is not playing hard to get (if she is you dont want her cause immature), she does not need convincing that you would be awesome to date.
The way I phrased that made it seem like I had more to say uh...
2) Ask if she wants to hangout first so you can get to know each other. You don't know her and it could turn out that she is a total psycho and a man beater. Seriously, the amount of men that just go "youd be amazing to date you are so kind" without knowing me is alarming... I literally could be a black widow (someone that offs their partners) and you wouldnt know that.
3) if she says yes pay very close attention to how she speaks to: cashiers, cleaners, anyone in customer service. Also how she talks about people you may come across: homeless etc. Yeah she can have her opinions about them but do you want to be around someone with their opinions.
@kaylachan (69892)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
23 Mar 23
Just go for it, even if you choak. Women and sometimes men, don't mind an an akward person. The more you do it, the easier it gets.
@frenki (1693)
• Serbia
23 Mar 23
Welcome to myLot, make sure to check out the rules here and have fun!
As for advice, not sure if I have a good one, you simply have to overcome your fear and do it. And then do it again, and again. Unless you are lucky and it works out first time for you :)